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View Poll Results: Which city has better nightlife and entertainment?
Boston 19 22.35%
Philly 37 43.53%
DC 29 34.12%
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Old 05-22-2013, 03:52 PM
 
Location: Crooklyn, New York
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Bahahahahahaa. So much conceded cockiness on here. I smell a closing of this thread in 3...2...1..
I'm accustomed to dealing with black women from Philadelphia. So yeah, you need to shine a little. LOL.
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Old 05-22-2013, 03:58 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn, NY $$$
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How do you "grind to yourself?" I mean, if it's possible, I'd like to see a YouTube video.

First, I wouldn't approach a pure exhibitionist (a "tease") to dance. Not at first anyway. I'd have my fun with other girls first within her field of view. Then I'd move on to one of her friends...even if she's not that attractive. I don't care how close two girls are, a woman cannot stand the idea of another woman outshining her, particularly when it's someone significantly less attractive than her. So you have to manipulate that innate jealousy and competitiveness among women to your advantage. You just can't walk up to a girl like that and try to dance. That's begging to get played.

But overall, I wouldn't be trying to single out those types of girls, unless you really just want to look silly. There's nothing worse than getting shot down in front of a whole group of girls who will then view you as a loser to be avoided for the rest of the night.
You never seen a female just whine her body to her lonesome? Well that's what I meant.
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Old 05-22-2013, 04:03 PM
 
Location: Crooklyn, New York
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Yeah, you didn't answer my question really. You said good looking women are the most important thing for nightlife. So again, if you're a straight woman...you're telling me that the most important thing to you is the other good looking women?
You're confusing the subjective and the objective. The most important thing to a woman may not be other women (subjective). The most important thing to good nightlife is women (objective).

A club or bar consistently packed with sausages is a failure. Or will become a failure unless women are escorted into the bar promptly (for free).

A club or bar consistently packed with women will draw a line of men around the block willing to pay a cover charge to get in. And that's because nightlife revolves around women, not men. If you've ever worked as a promoter, a DJ, or if you've even viewed a party flyer, you should know that clubs typically let women in for free before a certain time (if you're an extremely attractive woman, the rules don't apply to you and you get in free everywhere). They do this because they know that women will bring men out to spend money.

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No, BN. You see there's a difference between what *you* believe and what others believe. Even if every single ****ing straight guy in the world thinks exactly like you (not all of them do by the way)
Of course not. Some are gay. And others are just asexual. The majority of men, on the other hand, pursue status, cars and wealth to get chicks. Do you think most guys want to work on Wall Street because it's fun?

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But I'm sure you'll come up with a douchebag jersey answer to justify yourself next right?
Are you a woman?
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Old 05-22-2013, 04:08 PM
 
Location: a bar
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If you've ever worked as a promoter, a DJ, or if you've even viewed a party flyer, you should know that clubs typically let women in for free before a certain time (if you're an extremely attractive woman, the rules don't apply to you and you get in free everywhere). They do this because they know that women will bring men out to spend money.
Still waiting for an example of that you consider a good club/party. Got anything for us?
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Old 05-22-2013, 04:09 PM
 
Location: Upper West Side, Manhattan, NYC
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Of course not. Some are gay. And others are just asexual. The majority of men, on the other hand, pursue status, cars and wealth to get chicks. Do you think most guys want to work on Wall Street because it's fun?
*Most* guys want to work on Wall Street? Are you being serious? God you're ****ing shallow.

Many guys, yes, do pursue status, cars, and wealth. Many of them because they have no actual self confidence, and others because they do and it's for other reasons.

sorry BRAH but I have family members and friends who are worth millions of dollars each and not all of them are rich for the sole purpose of owning amazing cars and making them feel better about themselves because now their friends are jealous of their possessions. I know what it's like to live that life.

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Are you a woman?
Apparently you didn't really read message when I talked about that I used to go up to women and grind on them right away or them sticking their hands in my pants.
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Old 05-22-2013, 04:09 PM
 
Location: Crooklyn, New York
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You never seen a female just whine her body to her lonesome? Well that's what I meant.
Yes, I've seen that. I figured that's what you meant, but I wanted to see if there was something new I wasn't hip to.

But why would you approach a girl dancing like that? I mean, it's not so bad getting played like that as a freshman in the club, but after your 2,337th trip to the club, you should have a pretty good nose for that type of thing.
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Old 05-22-2013, 04:11 PM
 
Location: Crooklyn, New York
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*Most* guys want to work on Wall Street? Are you being serious? God you're ****ing shallow.
I should have written "the guys working on Wall Street." But I'll take that as a compliment.

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Apparently you didn't really read message when I talked about that I used to go up to women and grind on them right away or them sticking their hands in my pants.
Right.
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Old 05-22-2013, 04:18 PM
 
Location: Crooklyn, New York
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Still waiting for an example of that you consider a good club/party. Got anything for us?

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Old 05-22-2013, 04:19 PM
 
Location: Upper West Side, Manhattan, NYC
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You're confusing the subjective and the objective. The most important thing to a woman may not be other women (subjective). The most important thing to good nightlife is women (objective).
Again, it's in your own perspective. What you may think is not the general consensus amongst every single person. You do not speak for all straight guys in the world.

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A club or bar consistently packed with women will draw a line of men around the block willing to pay a cover charge to get in. And that's because nightlife revolves around women, not men. If you've ever worked as a promoter, a DJ, or if you've even viewed a party flyer, you should know that clubs typically let women in for free before a certain time (if you're an extremely attractive woman, the rules don't apply to you and you get in free everywhere). They do this because they know that women will bring men out to spend money.
I never said women weren't important, but women are not THE SINGLE most important factor when *rating* nightlife. There's more to it than that. Anybody who's ever owned a bar or club or lounge would laugh in your ****ing face at this notion. While women play an important role in driving sales, not all of it. The music, the drinks, the overall atmosphere of the place, and then the women for the guys ALL contribute to that.

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Of course not. Some are gay. And others are just asexual.
You're confusing straight guys with a shred of class with straight guys who want to **** anything that looks good and breathes. There is a difference. Just because I don't take home a woman every night I go out to a bar or club doesn't mean I am gay or asexual.

The women who are at these places though, love it. That's why they're there, but not every single woman is like that. If you really think that, then you don't know women at all. I can't tell you how much **** my own girlfriend or previous girlfriends have told me. The ones for you are at the clubs, sure, but outside of that, not every woman has the same MO as you think. You only know a small subset of women within your own world which do not represent everyone.

Oh and for the record, a previous girl I dated who was once in "hottest college girls" stuff, and one of the only reasons she went to clubs was because she was obsessed with electronica and the best acts play at the clubs. She didn't actually go home with guys.

I remember my girlfriend going out one night as a "girls night" without me. When she got home from the club she told me how ****ing lame these guys were who were trying to take her and all her friends home by even handing them a credit card and saying "buy whatever you want with it."
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Old 05-22-2013, 04:24 PM
 
Location: a bar
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Good Lord, I got 10 secs into that video and had to kill it. We're different animals you and I.
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