OP,
I have visited SF and live in Philly. Having visited SF, it strikes me as a really fun place to visit, but impractical to live there. Philly, although not as affordable as many smaller US cities, is matched only by Chicago in "bang for your buck" among large, urban cities. Philly does not at all feel homogeneous to me.
Here are my thoughts on how Philly compares in regards to things you do and don't like about SF:
Areas Philly will match/out-do SF:
- Walkability: Philly is incredibly walkable. Its tight street grid makes walking incredibly practical. Getting around CC on foot is very easy because most streets are one way/lane, so you rarely have to wait - it is very easy to J-walk
. I think perhaps on NYC beats it in walkability, and honestly I'd go as far to say Philly is better.
- Decent food though not as good imo as people on these forums seems to think: Philly is easily a top 5 food city. You will have no complaints or lack of options. Quality food from around the world as well as some distinct Philly flavors.
- Parks: Fairmount Park is huge - I can't quick recall what it ranks. It connects all the way up to Wissahickon creating a fantastic path for biking, running or just enjoying nature. Much of Wissahickon and West Fairmount feel quite wild, which is very nice.
- Distinct neighborhoods: Philly is top notch in this department. From a post a made before: "
I love the different neighborhood vibes, from the Italian Market European-lite feel, to the hustle of Center City, to the Baltimore Ave trollies with chess in Clark Park, and to the bridges, bluffs, hills and nature of Northwest Philly. With all these distinct neighborhoods, the city is well connected by public transit and the neighborhoods run smoothly into one another."
- Young crowd: There are plenty of young people, from the university and the recently graduated.
- Wonderful and accessible suburbs: Philly has some of the nicest suburbs in the country and highly connective regional rail to match. Just look up photos of the Mainline.
Where SF out-does Philly:
Weather: If you like to the mild weather of SF, Philly will be a shock. Our winters are true winters. Our summers are true summers and incredibly humid. I honestly love the seasons here (although winter gets old fast). Unlike higher latitude areas of the NE, Philly has a real springtime and a long autumn. But yes, our weather is nothing like SF.
Views: There are of course views, especially if you get on a cool rooftop, but they are nothing like SF. That was one of my favorite parts of visiting SF as well: Views of the Golden Gate Bridge and the skyline from Dolores Park. Yeah, we've got nothing to match that here.
And in regards to your gripes about SF:
- COL: As I stated, Philly is matched only by Chicago in this department. The "nice" neighborhoods are by no means cheap, but you can go to a "transitioning" neighborhood like Point Breeze, Brewerytown or farther West in West Philly and get a cheap place.
- Housing options: Philly still has a housing abundance, albeit many of which are in the hard-pressed neighborhoods and are quite dilapidated. We have great housing options here (Rowhomes throughout much of the city, Victorians in the Western and far Northern parts of the city)
- Public Transportation: I think Philly ranks just above SF in this regard. If you live and work nearby the MFL or BSL you are solid, but they do not cover nearly the majority of the city. Trolleys and buses cover the rest of the city quite well, but those options are less efficient.
- After a while of living here the people feel very homogenous: Philly does not at all feel like a bubble to me. I love the mix of Philly-born and out of towners. It honestly probably has less of a "cosmopolitan" vibe than SF, but that "vibe" is up and coming in Philly.
Good luck, OP! I highly suggest you visit before coming! You will have a great weekend regardless.