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03-13-2009, 02:16 PM
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Location: Upstairs closet
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Don't hold back Carla, please tell us how you really feel.
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03-14-2009, 06:51 PM
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Location: Wilmington, NC
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Sometimes it's better if you get yourself out of a situation that is not right rather than trying to get someone else to leave.
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03-14-2009, 06:59 PM
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Location: NW Montana
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Holy Hanna! What a long post!
Go get a male relative who will stand there while you change the locks, he will get a clue  Good luck |
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03-14-2009, 07:03 PM
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Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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If he has no legal claim to your apartment then that clears up what could be a huge problem.
You can get a restraining order without a lawyer. Go down to the courthouse and ask. Be prepared to write down all the violent things he has done to you. Then the order has to be served on him.
Personally I would change the locks, box up all his stuff and leave it outside with a copy of the restraining order be done with it. No need to shout about what you both already know has occurred.
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03-15-2009, 08:14 AM
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This thread should be under relationships....not coastal North Carolina.
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03-16-2009, 12:53 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Florida15
This thread should be under relationships....not coastal North Carolina.
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Thank you, I totally agree. Wish I could help this person, but I think many great suggestions have been offered. It's not that we don't care, we do, but this forum is Coastal North Carolina, and we are asking the moderators to pleez advise poster to seek help as soon as possible, and possibly consider re-posting in the relationship category, or another forum, that could address the issues. My heart truly goes out to her/him, and I am so sorry this is taking place, please do take the advice of those who have responded to your plight.  |
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