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Obviously being in a fraternity is out of the question for me now since I am almost done with school but when I go out into the real world I want to be a part of a brotherhood of guys who love partying and ones I can chill with. How can I do this other than being in a fraternity?
Organize your own group. If some of your buddies from college stick around, hang out with them. It's not unusual for that to happen, actually, in the first couple of years after graduation. Rent a house together.
If you aren't the type of popular, socially adept person who is "in" with the "cool kids" now and weren't in high school, you won't be after college, either. There is nothing wrong with being who you are, just make friends with others who you have things in common with rather than try to live someone else's life you fantasize is better than yours. Make yours all it can be, instead of trying to change your personality and be someone you're not. It won't work.
This is the reason why I DON'T attend my ROTC reunions; I have no interest to be around people who are still playing Corps (of Cadets) 25 years after the fact.
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