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Any more negatives about COL SPGS? If not, I'll shut 'er down and git 'r done.
Sure, I have some...

First, let me say that the following post may not be as refreshingly articulate and pleasant to digest as would otherwise be the case. Regrettably, I spent an hour constructing a beautiful list of CS negatives only to have my computer freeze up...

Background: I'm a former Michigander who moved to Oregon for three years and arrived in beautiful Colorado Springs about seven months ago. The best advice I can give freely to potential relocators is: Heed the long standing advice: Don't judge a book by it's cover. Garden of the Gods is big and beautiful... but Colorado Springs is bigger... and she ain't so pretty when you leave GoG.

I come from a little community in Michigan called "Downriver." It's a conglomeration of small cities bound together by factories. Interestingly enough, it is located... "down river" from Detroit. We're mostly rednecks... we ain't creative... unless there's duct tape involved.

Regrettably, the extraordinary sense of entitlement that has flourished in the union segment of my hometown has crippled the economy and, therefore, I ran-- Well, that and I was love-struck and chasing a woman across the country looking for adventure... but that's another story...

The following p*ss*ing and moaning come from the perspective of a fairly Southern upbringing-- in regard to values and friendliness-- coupled with the work ethic and respect for order forged in the efficiency of an assembly line.

Without further adieu, I give you... whining.

1) Racism. I'm white, my woman is black. This always causes trouble. Black men, wherever we've been, for the most part, take some sort of offense to my relationship. They were much worse in Detroit than CS. However, the closer you get to Denver, the mistreatment increases exponentially.

Black women have been balanced everywhere. A couple have said some rude things, but for the most part, they seem to be more curious about how it's working.

White women have been the worst in the Springs. However, the ones with a problem are generally overweight and middle-aged. Here was the first time I actually had someone stand with ten feet of me snarl and shake their head.

White men. This one's interesting. No white man has bothered me... I almost get high fives half the time. (She's also pretty hot.) However, in my 30+yrs., I have never heard blatant racist comments until I came to CS.

When I say "blatant racist comment," I specify "blatant" because I don't want you to think for a second that I'm referring to the awareness of differences between white and black cultures that those of us close to where the races mix are aware of... The kind of awareness that liberals would justify calling you a racist for. I mean venemous, "I never met you and I don't care anything about you because I know you're bad because you're black" comments.

The story: Besides a number of comments on the job that struck me as unusually harsh (up until they found out I was in an interracial relationship), the boss, while in the office made a comment that struck me.

The news had just broke the Kilpatrick story. (Detroit mayor cheats on wife and lies under oath about it.) I became angry as it played on the TV and told my boss a brief story about the mayor. (I have a friend close to him.) I then told a story about Detroit's decline over the past thirty-some years and the effect of the mayors.

My boss spit with acrimony,"They're all the same." It wasn't the words, but the way. I never heard anything like it in my life.

That's what strikes me most about CS. Of the few people I've interacted with here ("few" is almost literal), they're more racist than I've ever seen. I don't doubt there are plenty of people who aren't, however, it just seems strange to me.

2) I'll continue in another post to prevent losing too much at a time again...

2) Regarding crime here, you don't see it right off, but the more people you talk to, the more you come to understand that something bad is happening here. It's isolated right now, but just the other day, kids shot two or three people just walking down the street. This week, there's something going around that some gang is going to be doing some sort of initiation which involves shooting people on the freeway.

I've heard more people mention cars being broken into than I ever did in Detroit. I've even heard a rumor that thiefs were using cordless saws to cut out catalytic convertors on vehicles with high clearances.

A co-worker tells stories about gunshots in his apartment complex.

I don't know how severe crime is here, I just recommend you don't come expecting Maybury.

3)... on to the next post...

3) I haven't found the people to be particularly nice in general. I think "distant" fairly describes the general population. "Inconsiderate" would work for the majority. I wouldn't use the word "nice" to describe too many.

Going from the Midwest (outside the cities) to the West Coast is like going from an area where people are genuine and friendly to an area where people are so politically correct that they're afraid to hurt your feelings. This political correctness develops into manipulation because in order to preserve everyone's feelings, they have to lie... alot.

When considered against the backdrop of the other locales, I suppose it would be accurate to describe this area, in my opinion, as angry... almost hostile.

Thus far, it may sound like I really dislike this area... and that would be right. However, given the choice between the West coast and the West, from the perspective of a Midwesterner, I'd head for the Springs... better yet, I'd hold off on packing my bags.

4)...

4) I'm a former business owner. There was no demand for my trade in Oregon because of the weather. I figured I'd come here, where there's a wonderful winter, and hang a shingle.

Here, they have three different sales taxes. If you're on point A, it's 7%. If you walk across the street it's something else. I don't want to deal with paperwork headaches. I operate a wrench, not a calculator... and I have no intention of doing the monotonous legwork involved in finding a decent accountant to handle that stuff in an area where they'd layer sales taxes.

Licensing? Not that I sell cars, but this made me say "huh?" To be a car salesman here requires a license and they have to pay $75.

Duct cleaners-- you know? They put a broom in your home heating vents and clean them?-- Duct cleaners require licensing... for vacuuming?

Before you come, whether you plan to open a business or work for someone else, I suggest you really look into this stuff because I'm only giving a few examples of a dozen or so reasons I decided that Colorado Springs isn't the place to open a business. To those who figure you'll take a job here, consider what I'm saying because you'll still be effected. In my trade, there's minimal competition, but lots of demand. This means that if you're the one needing a service or product, you're going to be paying a high price for sub-par quality.

I'm a simple guy. I'm an expert in my field. Politicians want to make things complicated? I'd just assume cross the state line and hang my shingle there.

5)...

5) Imagine if you will: You bought a new car last year. It's beautiful. You negotiated a great deal. It's all shiny. You paid your sales tax. Guess what? Colorado wants to invite you to pay more tax on that car.

I know, I know. You already paid tax. That's your problem. You want to abide by the law? You better fork out another $1,000+++ depending on the value of your car in order to get plates.

I'm not messing with you. This is the one that makes me angrier than any topic I'll cover. If you're moving here, call these crooks before you do and find out how bad they're going to rape you before you commit to the move.

6)...

6) Speaking of cars, let's talk about parking.

Something that's been changing rapidly around here is the quality of a park job. When I first came to the area to see if I wanted to move here, after years of Oregon parking (considering the white lines is optional there), I witnessed something that I hadn't seen since I left Michigan: Someone pulled into a spot crooked... then, to my surprise, backing out and reparking in order to center the vehicle between the lines.

I was amazed. At that moment, I knew this place was a virtual oasis in the midst of left coast idiocy for me.

Regrettably, over the past three months or so-- seriously, you can see the change occurring-- the courteous parking is slipping away. I have a fresh new ding to prove it.

I know, you're thinking,"But One, why in the world would anyone be so inconsiderate as to not center their car between the white lines and risk mutual dings that cost around a $100 to fix?" Well, I don't know. I wonder that everytime I walk out to my car and check for fresh dings.

This is another category that CS beats the West Coast on. On the West Coast, because they, as a culture, seem to not grasp the idea that outcome is the result of a process, they'll generally set a goal without regard to consequences in the process.

In other words, to improve marketability of a commercial property, they will increase the number of parking spots. To do this, they simply narrow each spot. This narrowing causes patrons to become relatively indifferent to the lines that preserve the well-being of our property (cars), I suspect, because no matter how well you park, there's not enough space.

Staples at GoG and Centennial has done this. I don't drive a large vehicle, yet I have to be very cautious, when perfectly parked, not to ding the next well parked car. (This is also the reason I've only shopped at Staples twice.) (For you CSers out there, swing by and park your car. Look at how you're parked, and then head over to Albertson's and see what happens.)

Back to topic, if you don't want to worry about your new car having new dings when you come out of a business, you should avoid this area... and the West Coast.

7)...

7) Parking? Well then, I guess what happens when the car is moving is next...

Probably the one spot where the West Coast beats out CS... driving through the parking lot.

Back home, we drove slow through the lot. I'm not responsible for your kid, but I accept that maybe you'll break a heel, slip on a banana peel or be chased by a cartoon tiger and, therefore, cause your child to run or fall in front of my car. Perhaps, a bee stung you in the eye just after you put your foot on the accelerator as you're backing out of your space and, as a result, will need a little leeway to avoid an accident. For these reasons, I drive cautiously through parking lots.

Here in Colorado Springs, we actually give out cash prizes to the person who can drive the fastest through a parking lot. It comes with a trophy called "The Moron Award." At last count, 99.9% of drivers are competing for it... which is actually pretty high compared to the last count of 99.5%.

Yeah, no one really expected that increase. We here at the Idiot Tracking Center expected a reduction after a few close calls. However, not only did that not pan out, but we've actually witnessed mothers letting their young children walk over ten feet away from them on the thoroughfares of the parking lots.

When I stopped to conduct an information gathering interview with one mother, my initial question-- consistent with rules of non-biased gathering-- was "Why don't you pay me to babysit? You're not watching him." The response was profanity.

All kidding aside, these people drive like the biggest morons you've ever seen in a parking lot. They treat them like they're streets regardless of how full the lot is; regardless of how many pedestrians and children are walking.

Now you ask,"But One, what about the open road?"

I'm getting to that... but I think it deserves it's own post...

8)...

8) That is a good question. What about the open road?

That is the toughest. In a word? Idiots. However, there is a significant contingent of the population that drives exceptionally well. So, as I describe the driving, remember the chosen few who watch the horizon for upcoming changes in driving conditions and take their foots off the accelerator when they see a red light in the distance.

First day of serious snow here, might of been New Year's Eve, maybe Christmas Eve, somewhere around there. My balcony overlooks a fair sized road. In less than three hours, no less than four-- literally FOUR-- cars spun out on that road right in front of my balcony. One car hit a meter, another hit a sign, the two others spun out and went on to hit something down the street.

(Intersting detail: I was raised to respect my elders. However, elders paid a price for that. They had to be respectable. The woman who hit the sign was in her fifties, maybe sixties. She wiped out the sign and hit some electrical box thing. Her car was stuck so I called the police. I went on the balcony as she and her husband tried to break the car free and told them I called the police. They bolted as fast as they could.

That's not respectable in my book... but I got the plate.)

Oregon-- all the West Coast-- is worse than here for driving... atleast all the areas I've seen. So, again, don't be too hard on them.

Speeding up to stop is common.

Waiting to the last minute to stop is common.

Swerving between lanes (cell phone) is common.

Tailgating--even when in the right lane-- is common.

Passing within a car length is common. (I'm waiting for a rock to crack my windshield.)

Stopping too close to each other is the norm. (Much less than a car lenght at red lights.)

Running red lights. (Interesting fact: Earlier, I mentioned the dishonest tendencies of the West Coasters that results from a culture of political correctness. Now, let's look at how that manifests elsewhere and the process by which it occurs. As I stated earlier, West Coasters are very concerned with feelings of others. However, when one's feelings are always sheltered, one is able to push boundaries because no one is willing to enforce them for fear feelings will be hurt.

The result is many people with no respect for boundaries-- rules. What is a red light but a boundary? A statement "You will not cross here at this time." What happens if you don't respect boundaries?) Running red lights is so amazingly prevalent on the West Coast that it's considered a norm. If you ask a person about it, they'll run off a number of reasons to justify it. It's so prevalent, lights are timed to accomodate these people... Which, of course, burdens those who abide by the law.

CS is developing this trait. Perhaps it's always been there, perhaps I've just been noticing it. However, if you want to steer clear of bad traffic, I recommend you stay away.

Smooth traffic flow depends on controls. When this indifference to the controls builds, smooth traffic cannot be had. Visit the West Coast. You'll see. Take a run up Academy here in CS and then head over to Detroit and take a run up Telegraph (almost identical to Academy). You will then understand the problem with "the light just changed..."


I could go on, but if you're not convinced yet, then you'll probably fit right in.

By the way, they sand the roads. Salt, you wash your car and it's fine. Sand? You ever hear of sandblasting? Not to mention, it's pretty ineffective... but I guess it's cheap... but considering the cost of registering your cars, you'd think they'd pick you up at home.

9) Public transit...

9) Public transit

Michigan has awful public transit. If I'd of come here without stopping in Portland, I'd of never known how bad CS's public transit system is.

Don't come without a car. Point A and point B are usually far apart here. The public transit isn't practical unless you have a perfect situation: You live fifty yards from a stop and your work is fifty yards from a stop and there are no transfers. Transfers kill you here. You could be waiting up to 45 minutes for the next bus.


10) Police

I've encountered the police twice since I've been here. One word: Professional.

I do wish they were out writing more traffic tickets. If it's the perspective of the city gov to not write too many tickets in order to keep people happy, I think they should raise the speed limits so that those of us who obey the law are not penalized by driving slow when it's unecessary.

So, police, good. City government, hmm.

11) An overview of my perception of CS...

11) My overview... changed my mind. Weather first.

Weather sucks. 20 degrees in the night, 70 degrees in the day, followed by 30 degree day, back and forth, back and forth.

Snow falls... never sticks for more than a day or two. At most, I've seen maybe two inches of snow on the ground... and that's the day everyone was spinning out in front of my place.

If you want snow, I guess you can go to a different altitude... which is easy enough... drive a mile in any direction.

It's a desert. What do you expect? The "dry heat" really is different. The sweat evaporates before making you uncomfortable.

12) A local library has a plaque over the computer bank that says something to the effect "These computers donated by the gays and lesbians of CO."

I don't partake in public displays of affection. I don't tell anyone who they should or shouldn't be with. To be honest with you, I don't care what you do behind closed doors. However, I think there's something sinister in politicising (sp?) sexuality in exchange for a few computers. More than anything, this makes me question the quality of city management.

Yeah, when you add up the tax system here, the raping for a license plate, peculiar licensing requirements, I mean, it just adds up to "something's wrong here."


13) Conclusion.

Earlier in the thread, someone called this a dingy town. I agree... but have more to add.

I would describe CS like this: It is a dumpy town filled with unpleasant and indifferent people that just happens to have a beautiful hotel, amazing neighborhood (Broadmoor), an absolutely incredible landscape (GoG) and dry, thin air that makes you feel cleaner (except that your nose--not sinus-- is consistently clogged with solids.)

As the face of CS changes, it appears that many "improvements" are being carried out. I believe a fair analogy would be "they took this dingy Lego base and blew some dirt off of it. Then, they took Lego's shaped like Staples, Home Depot and Whole Foods and placed them at strategic locations amongst the filth."

That really is fitting because when you drive up Academy or I-25 (where they're developing) it really does look plastic. If you drive around the Broadmoor area, there's so much character and it really is beautiful. If you wander by Garden of the Gods, you'll be awestruck. However, these little gems are the exceptions to this city of filth and plastic... This is a city that's sub-par... It's a living entity with no soul, no purpose... as if the hills are some sort of substitute for character...

This is a military town. Other cities are built on something they create and the culture and businesses develop around that. On one end of town, you can see that a culture surrounds the Broadmoor... However, it's as if, on the other end of town-- the side you'll be living if you move here-- they're trying to build a culture around the business of supplying housing to transient military families.

There's no pride here. You drive up the thoroughfares (sp?) and there are weeds over a foot high in the parking lots... As if they know "You're in the military, you have to deal with me because you don't have time to find anything better before you leave..."

This place is just plain typical... Welcome to Colorado Springs.



If I had it to do over again, I'd stay away from Colorado. I've been around the state a little and have found it entirely not to my liking. Most of my complaints listed get worse the closer you get to Denver... and let's face it, who wants to move to Boulder where the public school is inviting people to counsel your children to use drugs and experiment with homosexual sex?... However, no one has ever mistreated me on account of religious beliefs.

I'm 100% certain there are good people here. There are good people everywhere. However, this good person doesn't plan on being here long enough to find them.

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I know i'm a little late on the response but there's been a plan for the last 20 years. A plan is one thing, action is another.

And Colorado Springs doesn't need tollroads. They need a thourough highway besides I-25 and the 1 mile MLK Bypass to travel throughout the city. I think Tollroads should be implemented after it already has an established freeway system, but i guess it goes back to everything being about the all mighty dollar.
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Sure, I have some...

1) Racism. I'm white, my woman is black. This always causes trouble


You had to be aware that your mixed race marriage was not going to be universaly admired and respected everywhere. You weren't blind to this from the beginning. It's part of the deal and not unique to Colorado. My wife and I are different races. Some accept it, some don't. We make friends from among those that accept us.




2) I don't know how severe crime is here, I just recommend you don't come expecting Maybury.

Don't expect it anywhere in the world anymore.



3) I haven't found the people to be particularly nice in general.


I can only say that our experience has been quite the contrary.


5) Guess what? Colorado wants to invite you to pay more tax on that car.
If you're moving here, call these crooks before you do and find out how bad they're going to rape you before you commit to the move.

I hope you're not one of those that complains about taxes and then complains about the roads and other tax funded infrastructure...

When I stopped to conduct an information gathering interview with one mother, my initial question-- consistent with rules of non-biased gathering-- was "Why don't you pay me to babysit? You're not watching him." The response was profanity.

You buttered her up for the non-biased interview by suggesting she was an irresponsible mother? You silver tonqued devil you...




8) What about the open road?

That is the toughest. In a word? Idiots. Ouch!


I recommend you stay away.


I could go on, but if you're not convinced yet, then you'll probably fit right in.
considering the cost of registering your cars, you'd think they'd pick you up at home. Taxes pay for essential public services and infrastructure.



9) Public transit

how bad CS's public transit system is.

Tax funded infrastructure, but you think the taxes are too high already.

11) My overview... changed my mind. Weather first.

Weather sucks.

I've seen a lot worse! You must have led a rather protected life.


12) A local library has a plaque over the computer bank that says something to the effect "These computers donated by the gays and lesbians of CO."

I'm missing your point. Is this a good or bad thing in your opinion?

Yeah, when you add up the tax system here, the raping for a license plate, peculiar licensing requirements, I mean, it just adds up to "something's wrong here."


I would describe CS like this: It is a dumpy town filled with unpleasant and indifferent people that just happens to have a beautiful hotel, amazing neighborhood (Broadmoor), an absolutely incredible landscape (GoG) and dry, thin air that makes you feel cleaner (except that your nose--not sinus-- is consistently clogged with solids.)
If you drive around the Broadmoor area, there's so much character and it really is beautiful. If you wander by Garden of the Gods, you'll be awestruck. However, these little gems are the exceptions to this city of filth and plastic... This is a city that's sub-par... It's a living entity with no soul, no purpose... as if the hills are some sort of substitute for character...

This is a military town. Other cities are built on something they create and the culture and businesses develop around that. On one end of town, you can see that a culture surrounds the Broadmoor... However, it's as if, on the other end of town-- the side you'll be living if you move here-- they're trying to build a culture around the business of supplying housing to transient military families.

There's no pride here. You drive up the thoroughfares (sp?) and there are weeds over a foot high in the parking lots...
This place is just plain typical... Welcome to Colorado Springs.

If I had it to do over again, I'd stay away from Colorado.

You will turn our heads with flattery! I'm sorry Colorado Springs has not lived up to your expectations. May you find your Maybury soon. God bless!


Thank you for your candid review.
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Thank you for your candid review.
No need to thank me, to be serious, it wasn't for you. I hope other like-minded people see it and, as a result, avoid the area, while people who find my grieveances insignificant or highlighting behaviors they exercise to feel like this is a place they might like.

However, never to be short-winded, and I couldn't ask for a response that more precisely reflected the culture I've found in Colorado Springs, I'll comment.

Overall, the bitterness that I've found to be part and parcel of CS is present... with the typical irrelevant responses that has dumbfounded me during my entire stay. I've concluded that the broad cultural dysfunction that exists here causes a reflex action that drives people to run for denial and throw the kitchen sink to guard against questions and criticisms rather than to reasonble consider views contrary to their own.

It's similar to the West Coast, except on the West Coast, they're nice when they do it. Whereas, in the Midwest, in my experience, if someone says "I hate living around here," the response is akin to "Why?" followed by "I can see if you don't like X, you wouldn't like it here."

You see? Coming from an environment where opinions are, generally, authentically respected, places like CS are difficult to cope with... as I'll explain...

1) Racism: If you reread that section-- perhaps prior to commenting in the future-- you'll notice that it's a commentary on racism in CS.

Black men are less racist here than in Detroit; more than in Portland.

Black women are pretty reasonable from what I've seen.

White women have been worse here.

White men haven't had a problem with the relationship. HOWEVER, (this is the part, perhaps, you should reconsider) I have never seen racism as I have here. Please refer to the previous commentary for the full story.

--You see? Your post doesn't actually respond to my report. You say "Well there must be something wrong with you." And "We're no different than anywhere else." That's minimization and justification... I'm not into pop psych, but I don't that's healthy.

2) You're saying again,"We're no different, everyone's broken..."

However, you extract a phrase used to balance my report-- and ignore my comments on crime. Why not give a link to crime stats or something RELEVANT if you wanted to prove a point about crime?... because you responded like a normal Coloradoan... IMO.

3) That's a fair response... refreshing almost.

Might I add, the reason for our different experiences may be reflected in our styles of communication? You're a person with peculiarities that match the culture of the area, whereas I'm a person whose peculiarities make my experience unpleasant?

I would venture to say that I'm a person who appreciates direct, clear descriptions of the world--whether it paints myself in a poor light or not-- whereas, the people here appreciate a life experience that isn't challenged by an awareness of attributes which might be considered inadequate?

I think that's a perfect description.

5) No, I'm not. I'm a guy who's lived in three states and can't understand why I'm paying over 20X!!! the rate to register my car that I did in any other.

20 times. That's a big difference that needs more explaining than a condescending effort to undermine my grievance... Again, a typical behavior that I think we see throughout your post... and I've seen throughout my Colorado experience.

Regarding the woman in the parking lot. It was a joke... Something else I've noticed here. CSers, don't have a sense of humor. I've met people from other areas who'll crack a couple funny ones, but not CSers... Well, let me explain, because you've obviously cracked one.

A funny joke for you to crack might of been,"Yeah, CSers dont' take well to unbiased perspectives." By doing that, you'd of built on the artificial assumption that my joke was based and you could of been funny. However, you took the artificial assumption in my joke, and, with phrasing, demonstrated some sort of bitterness towards it... It's like you tried to corner the artificial assumption-- the base of a joke-- into a serious assumption... And, by doing so, turned your response into something irrelevant to the real topic AND!!! (this is so amazingly CS) you didn't twist it into any direction, but almost blatantly said,"Well it's your fault, not hers." But, my humor-lacking friend, that's half of what's funny about the example! Of course it was my fault! Anyone who reads knows that! However, you're so bitter, you don't see I know it's my fault and you have to push whose fault it is out there!

You can't buy this *****. You're Springs, baby, all the way!

8) Same sort of thing. State something obvious in an attempt to minimize my opinion.

9) Same sort of thing. I didn't say there should be a system, just said what is here is poor and one should rely on it. However, to avoid responsibility for a bad system, you have to deflect attention back to me.

11) Weather: Same thinggggg... Coupled this way with a more direct snide comment.

Your response is most directly similar to the comment on crime. You ignore the "whys" because you can use that to manipulate the exchange. A simple "I find the changes nice..." would of been sufficient to balance my opinion.

However, you have to say "but, but we're, we're better than them..." You see? You refuse to own anything that might be perceived as a negative statement about yourself.

12) And now, it appears that you didn't read the whole post... (I can't say I blame you... I posted it in sections myself it was so long.)


And, lastly... Conclusion:

You finish with a subtle implication that my lack of satisfaction with CS has something to do with my "expectations." It's a very sly nuance that says "there's nothing wrong with me, it's all your expectations."

Truth is, I had no expectations... I came here open minded and found that I didn't like it... No harm, no foul.

However, you eloquently demonstrate to the last why CS is unpleasant for me.


Wow... Wow. You are Colorado Springs incarnate. I swear. This isn't a commentary on you as a person in regard to negative or positive attributes. This is just a statement saying "This is what you are and I don't like it."

You're beautiful... in the way you fail to meet my expectations ( )... in your imperfection, you're perfect.

You are Colorado Springs. Thank you. It's like you (what's that word? Like affirmed my feelings... like gave them value?)... you know what I'm saying. It's like you've freed me from something.

Thank you.
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I couldn't resist throwing my two cents worth on top of this, incredibly, still growing pile of pennies.

...I believe that the original intent for this post was an inquiry by some fellow about the things Colorado Springs held in store for the prospective relocat-ee, that aren't exactly pretty, and which don't exactly appear in the tourist brochures. I began reading this because I was curious to see what people might have to say, but I eventually read ALL of this exhaustive commentary for its incredibly stratified and personally abusive rhetoric. Despite numerous appeals from the moderator soliciting respectful adherence to the primary topic...this thread has consistently degraded to personal attacks. I keep thinking about the poor guy who presented the original question, and I am wondering how he is assimilating this VAST amount of information, much of which is of questionable value to his original inquiry. I suspect that if I were him, I would have long ago started looking at a different planet, much less another state.

I also suspect that my perspectives might also be attacked, but I wish to try to meet the challenge of objectively providing insight within this very difficult 'virtual' environment. I am a Colorado native, and I have spent years at a time, in each: Rye; Canon City; Boulder; Denver; Colorado Springs; Pueblo; and La Junta, CO. I also have spent "years at a time" in Long Beach, Santa Barbara, Manhattan (NY), Martha's Vineyard, Atlanta, Los Alamos, and Shreveport. I currently live in the outskirts of Colorado Springs, CO, and I wish to provide my unique perspective to "simonjtt".

First, I want to point out that some of the commentary reflected in this thread relating to employment, traffic, racial perspectives, and religious affiliation, can pertain to many of the places I have been...and to both, a greater or lesser extent than views that have been expressed here, regarding Colorado Springs. Historically, Colorado Springs was heavily invested in the technology sector during the 70's and 80's, and like many, many other places in the whole country, has suffered from corporate trends in outsourcing to other places in the world. This is an extremely important factor to consider, and it affects a number of things. For the long-time Colorado resident, their viewpoint about their home will include their sentimental attachment to this place which has survived this tremendously dynamic change in infrastructure. However, the survival of CS is similar to that of many places in the United States which have had to adapt their "traditional" perspectives in order to continue supporting a large and diverse population. I think that there are just as many positive adaptations to the changing American political and spiritual landscape in Colorado Springs, as there are negative ones. The unhappy newcomer to Colorado Springs must take into account the fact that their point of origin is most likely changing too, and that their experiences in Colorado reflect the greater overall NOW of the whole country, as opposed to their memories of the THEN of their previous locations. I hope to validate all of the contributors to this thread with this statement, and perhaps distill the few things that clearly create a difference here.

Traditionally, Coloradoans have always been a conservative lot...state-wide. As a boy, and as a young adult, I experienced the attitudes and biases of the farmers and ranchers who formed the core of what Colorado used to be. I must admit that often xenophobic attitudes towards newcomers would develop, but that acceptance and assimilation of new perspectives always seemed to prevail. Certainly, in Colorado Springs, this xenophobia was softened considerably, compared to the rural environment...but still fell far behind the, then, "urbanizing" Denver. Today, this "middle-ground" still exists. Colorado Springs struggles to be distinctly "Not Denver", but the years and extreme influx of population has pushed CS further towards "urban" with respect to crime, decaying sectors, and exponential growth North, South, and Eastward. I don't think this is good or bad, it just IS...and I see the places where there were once miles and miles of open spaces near Castle Rock and Monument, filling up with neighborhoods that are relatively new today, but which will be easily consumed by endless city extending from Loveland to Walsenburg in the next couple of decades. Geologically, Colorado Springs was always much different from Denver, in that it was located right next to the Front Range, and more closely approximated the expected visual concept of Colorado held by the rest of the world, whereas Denver isn't a whole lot different from L.A., as cities go...except for the "Rockies" way out there behind the murky haze to the West.

There is crime here…but there is crime everywhere, differing only by degree, and represented only by passionless statistics. I feel that CS is completely unexceptional in this respect except for its unique number ranking it among the rest of the world’s cities. Your personal experience will be a function of the level of existence you can support here, and the extent to which you implement your knowledge of human society. Safety here is relatively assured within the parameters of your personal life-style, choice of contemporaries, and financial capabilities secondary to employment.

Depending on what you do, employment may or may not pose a problem. Again, I see absolutely no difference between CS and much of the rest of the United States, with regard to employment. Everywhere, the financial sectors are in trouble, and if banking or some similar derivative is the way you make a living…things might get tough. Luxury services (ie. Arts, music, culinary) might be better served in a more dense population such as Denver, but are supported to some extent in CS. General Service and retail sectors are also likely to reflect national trends, and see some contraction…however, all of the corporate endeavors are represented in CS, and if you work for one of them, transfer should be easy to accomplish. The military presence here is currently an advantage to this, as unlike many places, the population is expected to grow quite a bit, and the housing and retail support required for this expansion will necessarily grow to accommodate this. I reviewed several postings in this thread speaking to the difficulty of securing government contract work. This is true. I have relatives who have had to relocate to military areas more concerned with strict intelligence in order to secure adequate income. I think this is because expansion of the NORAD facility is not, and has not been considered for quite a while, now, and the bases and airfields in the area are glutted with troops relocated from several other national base closures.

With regard to traffic, CS is a product of a couple of centuries of growth, and streets that easily accommodated 18th and 19th century traffic, are sometimes inadequate to meet the needs of the expanding population. There has been accurate commentary speaking to the development of North to South corridors, and the marked inadequacy of East to West passage. I expect this is no more or less comparable to the idiosyncrasies of street development in any city. Public transportation is definitely a weak link in the Colorado Springs infrastructure; however, I have observed systems in other cities that were less effective. This is a good example for describing another point that has been made in this forum regarding taxes. I must agree with the gentleman, who criticized the proportionately high vehicle tax and licensing fees, and I wish to add that city, property, and county taxes seem to be somewhat higher, in general, than other places I’ve been. Without doubt, public transportation could use some of this money, but enigmatically, these services are rudimentary, at best, and unavailable in many areas…making commuting to work impossible to consider without proper licensing, transportation, location, etc. Extremes of temperature and precipitation also create a burden for the transportation system, or so it seems. Every road is in the process of reconstruction, but the process of natural decay of pavement is rapid, and when a project is finished, it almost seems that it must begin again…hence, potholes, gravel, pavement patches, and other hazards are common. One final interesting issue is the public lottery. In theory, this privately-owned venture was to supplement EVERYTHING in Colorado…primarily Parks and Recreation, much public access, travel and tourism…blah, blah-blah, blah-blah. What actually happened was what always does…and as of 2005, which gives the Lottery Commission a 3-year lead on reporting to the public…57.92 Million dollars in revenue were made that year, and they paid Colorado only 2.24 Million dollars for state agency stuff. There were operating expenses of 3.44 Million dollars, claimed by the commission, in order to treat the entire state to this lordly 2 ¼ Million. For the rest…somebody drove an awesome 52.22 Million dollar Corvette, or something just as beneficial to the Colorado society http://www.revenue.state.co.us/Gamin.../FSFeb2005.pdf. Law enforcement is well-supported here, though, and Colorado holds the record for DUI arrests, per capita, starting with our neighboring city Pueblo, CO WikiAnswers - What US city has the most DUI arrests per capita. You might find these references to be an interesting commentary supporting some prior posts, and refuting others.

With regard to racial tension, I remember not ever having seen a black person until I was 14 y.o. or so. I had no idea what racism was until I moved to the South, and witnessed what seemed to me to be unbelievable and illogical prejudice. Mixed racial marriages were rarely known then, but they were hardly inconceivable. I feel that Colorado Springs isn’t exactly progressive about racial issues, but it certainly isn’t a bigoted environment either.

On the subject of religious bias, I think that Colorado Springs does appear to be predominantly “Right-Wing” conservative, but that there is an underlying tolerance of all cultures (religion). The highest profile religious activity is Moral-Majority Right in nature, however, by virtue of being high-profile, there is exaggerated emphasis placed upon this particular alignment, while there is also high-profile publication of its failures. There have been recent discoveries of moral turpitudes committed by religious leaders in this area, which have shaken the foundations of their various congregations. Understandably, heated rhetoric has been offered supporting both sides of what is really a personal decision about spirituality. The only argument is whether one believes what someone else does, and whether the behavior of one person reflects the beliefs of the collective. I would hazard a guess that judgments of this nature, publicly endorsed by ANYONE, should be openly rejected by a thinking community, and relegated to the rights of every individual. It is unfair to collectively assess “Colorado Springs” as a group of Moral-Majority extremists, however, it is equally unfair to dismiss the fact that such extremist groups exist in Colorado Springs. I can only offer personal experience, and say that there are solid sub-cultures of EVERY faith available here, and that there is no evidence of targeted persecution. Gay and Lesbian issues are similar, in that I find no extraordinary persecution of those who have made these life-choices publicly…but I do know there are areas of focused contempt for these groups in Colorado. I also know that this is no different from other places in the nation, which supports a diversified population.

To summarize: most of the issues I have reviewed in this post could describe the tenor of many environments, and many of them reflect personal biases held by the writer. I love Colorado and Colorado Springs for its unique offerings. Those inquiring about what is here, and nowhere else, will discover almost everything from reading the tourism pamphlets. There are mountains, skiing, out-door activities, and a climate which provides a unique adjunct to any lifestyle…but living, working, surviving, and growing presents the same challenges to everyone here, just as it does to everyone everywhere. My personal choices are structured so that I may experience many environments, and I regularly leave Colorado to travel world-wide, absorbing each environment I encounter. I have found that while all environments seem to incorporate the same problems with social harmony, they all have their own unique contributions to the individual’s sense of connected-ness. These advantages may be in the form of the location and scenery, or in the attitudes of the residents, and their belief systems. I empathize with all of those who have expressed their angst with the social conventions they perceive within this environment, and I know that I too will abandon Colorado again, to discover others who more closely match my beliefs about health, religion, law, and work ethics. I also hold close the passions expressed by many, with regard to their devotion to the life afforded by this environment. Wherever I go, I will remain in touch with life-long friends and associates that I know are living here surrounded by the magical places I remember as “home”. I know what to expect from others in this environment, and while I find many of their conventional behaviors comforting, I remain aware of ideals I have realized in other places, and among other cultures.

Colorado is a very beautiful place. I encourage anyone to move here, for whatever reason, but I also wish for them to discover that living here, or anywhere else, and their subsequent quality of life…is governed by them alone. There are variables which may make one place more advantageous to a person than another place…but the mechanics of living are largely the same. Good luck to you, “simonjtt”. I pray you find your place.

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Old 04-06-2008, 05:01 PM
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Couldn't help but adding my two cents onto the pile of pennies too.

Moved here from the Buffalo, NY area about two years ago. I left a wonderful job at Fisher-Price in a very highly taxed area so that our children would be able to live w/o the terrible snowstorms and depressed job market.

Have succeeded in our goal - our daughter who has a degree in Criminal Justice was only here 2 mos (if that) before the State of CO hired her as a Corrections Officer - making more $ at 23 yrs old than I ever thought of at that age. Our other daughter will have her BS in May. Both of their husbands have found decent jobs.

My problem is being an overweight, white woman I cannot find a job at my level ANYWHERE. All that seems to hire is a Call Center or Call Centre or Service center with heavy phone work - I tried that - haven't had a job that was so demeaning in my life since I was 20. My husband who will be 65 is working FT until I can find something here. Pretty sad state of affairs. But I'll find something - even though I don't carry a Bible with me.

The crime here is a joke. We are up to 8 homicides? In Buffalo you'd be around 50 by now. The "ghetto" area here is like the first ring of suburbs in Buffalo - even the gangs are wannabes. I am happy for those things.

Back in Buffalo there was a shooting at a bar during the week, too! Oh, yeah we had drive bys Mon-Sun. Be glad you don't have that, either. In a sadistic sort of way, I sort of miss seeing the 2-3 fires daily on the news. It is pleasant to turn on the news and not hear about local government corruption everyday. They talk about the lack of money, my property taxes for a small ranch house (1400 sq) was $4000/yr. However, to register my vehicle it was only $40/yr. I think I just shelled out $260 something. Ouch. Saying COS needs to raise taxes to support its infrastructure is obscene here - so I will just think it. They don't need to raise it as much as what we came from, but we all know prices of everything go up. Even for government purchases.

COS has a beautiful climate and beautiful surroundings if you only go West or North via 83. But we love it here even with all it's "negatives". Living in an apartment complex w/o a garage is asking for trouble. I learned that when I was 21. Anytime your vehicle is not in its private area for the night, anything can happen to it. I had my car stolen 3 times before I was 23.

My opinion of COS is really a mixed bag. I didn't enjoy the snow last winter nor do have I enjoyed this COLD winter & spring. I came from Buffalo - paid my dues. I gladly put up with it knowing my kids and grandbabies will have a better life out here.

Nana just needs to get a job!!!!!(also want to add I know it won't be the same $ as working for a Fortune 500 in the East - just SOMETHING THAT ISN'T A CALL CENTER!!)
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Racism - Coming from the very segregated East (even whites live in their own separate communities) I found COS to be very color-blind. Where I came from the first thing we ask is "What are you?" To which I would answer "Italian & German". Made that mistake here..ONCE. I was told that they were an "AMERICAN". I thought that was great. More people from the East need to spend time here

Had some friends in from outside Detroit. I live in the Cheyenne Mtn area which I believe to be the best COS has to offer. Anyway, my friend tried to criticize me for having a "Brother" living across the street. We never gave it a thought. [mod cut] COS should be proud when it comes to the race issue.

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Please stay with the topic of Colorado Springs. No need to discuss in detail all the problems of all the other places you've lived or visited. The topic of this thread is Colorado Springs - The Negatives.
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Hekura, that's an awesome posting. As a former mod, I sure wish everyone on here was as logical and rational.
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