Good morning Chrissy,
First,
congratulations to your hubby on the job offer! That's terrific
Yeah...I'd say you've heard correctly about
Whitehall. It's gotten pretty ghettofied in the last decade. I used to take my g/f down there to get her hair done at a place on E. Main; even though it meant a good 2-hr. wait, I'd always stay with her 'cuz I didn't want her to be driving around that area alone.
Gahanna on the other hand, is really nice. In the past decade, Gahanna has invested considerably in the restoration of its picturesque downtown, and today there's lots to do there (non-chain restaurants, bars, unique shopping). And of course, Gahanna offers the quickest access to Easton—which you'll hardly believe when you see it now
Reynoldsburg is a mixed bag of sorts; new growth is still happening in pockets there, but most of the housing stock there is 1950s–70s and nothing to shout about. And west of 256, there are areas that have gotten a little seedy with the encroachment of nearby ghetto.
So yeah...of all these, I'd say Gahanna is your best bet by far.
Another area that's really gotten some attention lately is
Blacklick; it's unincorporated and mostly residential, but a little more spread out (ah, breathing room!)
Pataskala is another great place, a little further out and with an awesome rural character. That could be good depending on whether you mind the slight distance. UlsterScot, who often posts here, could tell you more about Pataskala.
Anyway, best of luck to you & your man on your upcoming move/new job!
Blessings...
Lanc