Based on the date, I think the OP has already moved to the area...
I will add this about New Albany ...
We were invited to Holiday party there. It was an Open House type thing with co-workers (us), neighbors, and friends in attendance. I was stunned at the size of the homes. The home we attended the party at was gorgeous and the hosts we very hospitable. I really had my reservations about going because of what I had heard about the area - that it was just loaded with "snotty rich people". To be quite honest, most everyone we met was very nice and we had a wonderful time.
I think the pressure to "keep up" these days is everywhere. Adults, kids - everyone has seen their fair share of it. It just one of those things in life you are going to encounter - you just have to be a level-headed adult & parent and "do the right thing" - whatever that is.
I've met some wealthy people with "personality problems" - and I've met my share of lower income folks with nasty attitudes as well. You really don't know what anyone is like until you get to know them anyway.
I wish I could afford to live in New Albany - it would just put me that much closer to Easton.
