Sorry if this post is redundant... can't really search for relevant threads now because I'm at work.

Anyway, I want to consider relocating to somewhere in CT, close to NYC. Several conditions:
1. I work in Downtown NYC, so Metro will be great.
2. Looking for great pre-K, elementary schools for my 4 & 1 yr olds to attend eventually.
3. Safety: no urban elements.
4. A great town life will be a plus (we're all book junkies, so a great bookstore or a literary scene will be sweet.)
5. This may put a huge limitation on things: looking for something between $300K-$400K. 3 br.
I was thinking about New Fairfield, b/c of some craigslist posts... comments? Anywhere else I should look at?
For this long weekend, I plan to take my family to see CT, and your recommendations will be greatly appreciated! Thank you so much!