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Old 05-28-2014, 01:07 PM
 
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It's not the norm now because women are having less kids, are waiting til later in life to have kids & cost of living has increased. Staying at home doesn't seem conducive to financial stability. Plus, women who have kids later in life have their career path started. Why be tied down at home for say 10-15 years & then try to get back into their career where they've been missing for years & also lacking any new skills?
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Old 05-28-2014, 01:08 PM
 
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Old 05-28-2014, 01:12 PM
 
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It's not the norm now because women are having less kids, are waiting til later in life to have kids & cost of living has increased. Staying at home doesn't seem conducive to financial stability. Plus, women who have kids later in life have their career path started. Why be tied down at home for say 10-15 years & then try to get back into their career where they've been missing for years & also lacking any new skills?
Regardless of the reasons behind it, it isn't the norm now. Trying to figure out your point...
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Old 05-28-2014, 01:17 PM
 
Location: Long Neck,De
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But then there is the fact that this woman made a free choice to be in porn and should have been prepared for the impact socially over it. Too bad someone like a true friend wasn't able to give her positive advice to disregard those flaming her and tell her she's alright as a person no matter.
19 y.o.s do not have the life experience to realize what the decision to do porn will mean down the road.
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Old 05-28-2014, 01:23 PM
 
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My point scarab is that I was responding to your post.
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Old 05-28-2014, 01:25 PM
 
Location: Buckeye, AZ
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I think most the posters in this thread give far too much credence to this "cyber bullying" BS. It was not the casual factor, merely a contributing factor in her misery.

I think the porn audition was merely the last domino in a long line of bad circumstance, bad luck, bad family situation, coupled with depression. However the choice to purchase a shotgun, go out to the lake and kill herself was pretty deliberate and required a modicum of forethought and planning and commitment to the idea. So she must've been thinking about it for awhile.

I think it's a shame, she was a beautiful 19 yr old girl, and if there is 'an afterlife' I hope she found her peace.
As I mentioned in my post the bullet was loaded in the gun and the safety was off from the other issues. This however was the force that pulled the trigger on the proverbial gun.
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Old 05-28-2014, 01:48 PM
 
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19 y.o.s do not have the life experience to realize what the decision to do porn will mean down the road.
I think most do, at least if they are at all intelligent. The problem with those who crave attention so much that they will do anything at all to get attention, they cannot control exactly what attention they get. Some want a very fascist society where no one can have a free thought or free speech.

What would be better for the very fragile would be a website where no humans are and all comments are sweet programmed bots that give them only the praise they were seeking.
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Old 05-28-2014, 01:53 PM
 
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^^^What exactly are you even talking about?
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Old 05-28-2014, 02:05 PM
 
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Actions have consequences. Getting pounded on film for money is not going to improve peoples perception of you.
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Old 05-28-2014, 02:05 PM
 
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I don't believe that this girl killed herself over the comments made online.

She had no problem attacking those who criticized her and made fun of them days before committing suicide. Clearly there were bigger issues that many people are not seeing.
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