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Old 07-20-2015, 02:56 PM
 
Location: east coast
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No matter what comes out or is revealed, we will still get the same people that are "disgusted" and "shocked" about this incident act surprised when or if they find that their or friend's/relative's SO has cheated....

No matter how much information you put before people, they still choose to believe what they only want to believe....
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Old 07-20-2015, 03:01 PM
 
Location: east coast
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This, especially since it's a recurring thing -- no remorse felt whatsoever.
With so many single men out there, why would you chose to repeatedly have sex with a married man?
Same way Transgenders have this overwhelming desire to change their sex is the same way some people have this urge to cheat, smoke, eat sweets, etc. You can't accept one "inner self belief" but not the other. It's the chemicals in mind that we are dealing with, not robot chips...
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Old 07-20-2015, 03:02 PM
 
Location: Way up high
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LOL. If I were to cheat, I'd just do it the old fashioned way..go to a bar and pick my victim out
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Old 07-20-2015, 03:03 PM
 
Location: Ca2Mo2Ga2Va!
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Same way Transgenders have this overwhelming desire to change their sex is the same way some people have this urge to cheat. You can accept one "inner self belief" but not the other. It's the chemicals in mind that we are dealing with, not robots chips...
this should be what separates us from the animals, by not giving into every urge
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Old 07-20-2015, 03:06 PM
 
Location: West Florida
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this should be what separates us from the animals, by not giving into every urge
Lots of animals are better than that. Look into the amount of bird species that are loyal to one partner for life, even if they get separated for months on end.
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Old 07-20-2015, 03:06 PM
 
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this should be what separates us from the animals, by not giving into every urge
yet an estimated 1/3 of all married couples have experienced some sort of infidelity....so its a pretty big number
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Old 07-20-2015, 03:07 PM
 
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Soooo... you obviously don't care about this man in the least bit, now, do you? If you did, you wouldn't keep acting in such a way.
Why not just find a single man? There are plenty out there. What you're doing is disgusting. Very much so.
What are you even talking about? He doesn't even live in the state. Happened twice. What, you think I sit & pine for him & refuse to date? Lol, I'm sorry to burst your bubble.
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Old 07-20-2015, 03:09 PM
 
Location: east coast
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This is a direct quote from your previous post:

Did I think of the wife during it? Nope. It happened a couple times, whenever he was in town. Will it happen again if he comes back into town? Probably.

That is just awful. You are directly involved "knowingly" in this and still don't care. That makes it awful. Both of you are EQUALLY to blame. Your smiley face at the end of your last post was why I said it is not funny.
How is this different than any other mental imbalance? It's a mental imbalance against the norm just like people that like to pee on each other, get chocked out, watch women dangle their feet. We can't go on choosing to accept one way of life but not take the time to understand where other abnormalities come from.

Where does your fetish come from? Why is that all the men in my family have a foot fetish? Can you explain that without throwing a low blow or undermining me?

You can't cast judgement on someone who cheats but say it is ok for a man of 65 with 6 kids to turn into a woman. It is all from the same place.
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Old 07-20-2015, 03:12 PM
 
Location: West Florida
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What are you even talking about? He doesn't even live in the state. Happened twice. What, you think I sit & pine for him & refuse to date? Lol, I'm sorry to burst your bubble.
Who cares where he lives? It's morally sick to keep doing this.
And he's filth for doing it too.
What, every time I go out of town for work, I can sleep with side chicks and then return to my wife? Sorry, but no. I have morals.
Unless his wife knows and accepts him doing this, it's wrong, on both your part and his.
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Old 07-20-2015, 03:13 PM
 
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Who cares where he lives? It's morally sick to keep doing this.
And he's filth for doing it too.
What, every time I go out of town for work, I can sleep with side chicks and then return to my wife? Sorry, but no. I have morals. You're sick. I hope you're one of many flings he has (probably are) and that you catch something.
Shrug, whatever makes you feel better about yourself.
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