Loosechange, glad you found the previous posts helpful. As far as your criteria for a community, it can describe a large portion of the Dayton metro. Since Dayton isn't a top 50 metro (like Cincinnati or Charlotte), we don't have as much traffic, thus putting places much closer to you then elsewhere. Trust me, it's nice living in a more open, rural area, yet still be able to reach places like the Oregon District and The Schuster Center downtown without feeling like its a daytrip. Plus, many of the area suburbs in between have an endless array of shopping and parks (see Smile42's post).
Basically, here's
my personal opinion on places that probably can satisfy your needs in housing and a community. These will be brief and won't cover every aspect. Starting from the south on the east side of I-75 outside Springboro and continuing counter-clockwise:
Clearcreek Twp
More rural than incorporated Springboro. Benefits from Springboro's shopping on OH73 and Oh741. Dayton Mall about 10-15 minutes. Roughly inbetween Dayton and Cincinnati. Homes tend to be on larger 1acre+ lots. Don't know if you'll get 10acres for the price, but at least a few. Growing along with the rest of Warren County. Excellent schools. Traffic can be bad in some spots. The new "place to be" suburb. Higher property taxes. No city tax in townships.
Waynesville and Wayne Twp
Historic, small antique shop community. Some growth, but not as wild as other parts of Warren County. Pretty country side. Probably more house and land for dollar. Rolling hills and valley with Little Miami River. Wonderful, multi-county trail system. Excellent schools. A little removed from shopping and entertainment. Roughly between Dayton and Cincinnati.
Washington Twp
Just north of Springboro/Clearcreek Twp. Mostly suburban developments. Best bet to find more affordable acerage is in SE corner. Higher property taxes. No city taxes in townships. Benefits from shopping on OH725 and Dayton Mall. Excellent schools. Amazing parks and rec center. Housing and land can be expensive. Don't know if you'll find 10 acres that's still cheap.
Sugarcreek Twp
Just north of Waynesville/Wayne Twp outside Bellbrook Expensive, but many large homes on large lots. 10 acres and nice house probably $400K+. Couple acres and nice house $250/300K+. Most housing is on large tracts. Fewer suburban developments (most are large, expensive estate neighborhoods). Plenty of shopping on Wilmington Pk. Near The Greene (about 10min). Beautiful countryside and scenic drives. Growth starting to appear more on west side, near I-675. Excellent schools. Higher property taxes.
Beavercreek Twp
North of Sugarcreek Twp mostly east of Beavercreek. Hosuing and land can be expensive. Can probably find nice house on a few acres for about $350K, especially the further east you go. Growth spreading to township as city comes close to being built-out. Still some large 100+acres farms to the east. Wonderful multi-county trail system. Excellent schools and decent parks. Shopping at The Greene and along North Fairfield at Mall at Fairfield Commons. Maybe a little cheaper then most of above. Higher property taxes.
Yellow Springs and Miami Twp
North and East of Beavercreek. Small, liberal minded alternative town. Going through some strife as local University is having funding problems. Excellent schools. Rolling hills around Little Miami. Cross-county trail system. Local shops in town, national retailers at Fairfield Rd about 20 minutes. Young's Dairy farms and food. Township pretty rural. Hosuing can be a little expensive for being so far out from Dayton.
Both Bethel Twps east and west of New Carlisle
Much more rural then those above (North Dayton suburbs haven't had as much sprawl). Decent schools. Some call New Carlisle hickish. Nearest shopping on OH202 in Huber Heights or in Springfield. Not as much in terms of hosuing stock, but probably get more for your money up here. Few suburban development outside New Carlisle proper.
Tipp City and surrounding townships up to Troy
Small community with historic town center. Most northern growth has been around here on I-75. Still plenty of rural areas in surrounding townships. I don't know as much about shopping, but I think Smile42 covered it prior. Excellent schools. For the price, a decent home on at least a few acres quite possible.
West Milton/Clayton/Brookeville
I really shoudln't put all these together, but I don't know as much about these communities besides that they are mostly rural outside the small towns, have decent to excellent schools, and Clayton is the most suburban of these. Shopping probably the furthest being all the way over in Huber Heights, Tipp City, or Restaurant Row (chains on I-75 at first exit south of I-70, think its Butler Twp.).
Note: I'm skipping areas immediatly west of Dayton as there is little developmet/shopping on that side. The closest is Trotwood, and that area has a hard time keeping businesses. Areas also extremly rural with no suburban buffer between famrs and older parts of Dayton (west side of city typically more rundown and crime ridden) with little investment in growth or redevelopment.
Germantown
Germantown is more associated with the southern suburbs being west of Miamisburg. Outside the town, its mostly rural farms along with some large tracts with homes or mini-farms. Also, most shopping outside town will be in Miamisburg or near the Dayton Mall. Excellent schools. Has seen some growth but not as much as places like Springboro.
Well, there it is. With such choices already on top of the current national hosuing market, you should be able to have the pick of the litter. In terms of property taxes, take it into account when buying, but don't let it frighten you. Usually, the more you pay, the better your services.
Obviously, these are just a basic outline of what I can remember at the moment about each of these communites. If you think I missed something or someplace important, feel free to correct or add to the list
