Westminster Village in Dover (power lines, theater, living)

[sanddollar]

We had a 3 1/2 visit yesterday afternoon. I think among the 4 of us (myself, dh, db, & s-i-l who is a nurse), we asked just about every question there is. Also, we had a terrific tour of the whole facility, looking at independent living apts, assisted living, and the memory-impaired section. Everything looked very nice, clean, and the folks had happy smiles. We were touring around dinner time. I had a chance to talk to one of the residents in the dining room about the food. They said usually it's pretty good. I imagine as with all institutions, it can get to be the same after awhile.

They also have a varied activity program with something going on all the time. There is a little bus they use to take groups to the theater, concerts, shopping, doctors, and so on. Mom won't be driving herself anywhere, so I don't have to worry about her out in traffic. I'll be taking her lots of places, and traffic doesn't bother me.

I asked about the railroad tracks. The representative said that it bothers some people, but not others. All depends on what you get used to, I suppose. I used to live across from Reagan National Airport and next to noisy air force bases, and after awhile, we didn't notice planes taking off anymore. I also asked about hum from the power lines and got a blank look. LOL!

We took lots of pictures so we can show Mom when we see her. I know this won't be the last place we look at, but it is a good start. The next step will be to bring her up here from Florida for an overnight visit in one of the cottages.

Thanks to all for their input. It was helpful to have information prior to the viist. When I asked about the railroad, etc., my brother asked me if I had an inside source.

[elizamary]

Originally Posted by sanddollar

Thanks to all for their input. It was helpful to have information prior to the viist. When I asked about the railroad, etc., my brother asked me if I had an inside source.

Glad to hear you were pleased and this is good for us to know too. You never know what will come down the pike.

Getting cold, huh?

[maryCh]

sanddollar,

Although I have not crossed the bridge yet of looking for "the place" for either of my folks, I have experienced it 2nd hand through all four sets of grandparents on mine and hubby's side of the family. Not an easy decision as you know, even when everyone is local.

Hopefully, you have a selection to choose from... and you find quality care every place you look. Do keep us posted, as I will be looking down that path in the not too distant future!

By the way, it was really good to meet you... and NC folks we have talked to on our visit here are just amazed at all my "city-data" friends.

elizamary... remember I mentioned I have an aunt with the same name as you? My mom and dad have decided you look like both my dad's sisters (one of which is your name-sake). Eerie??? Are we related after all???

Mary

[elizamary]

Originally Posted by maryCh

sanddollar,

Although I have not crossed the bridge yet of looking for "the place" for either of my folks, I have experienced it 2nd hand through all four sets of grandparents on mine and hubby's side of the family. Not an easy decision as you know, even when everyone is local.

Hopefully, you have a selection to choose from... and you find quality care every place you look. Do keep us posted, as I will be looking down that path in the not too distant future!

By the way, it was really good to meet you... and NC folks we have talked to on our visit here are just amazed at all my "city-data" friends.

elizamary... remember I mentioned I have an aunt with the same name as you? My mom and dad have decided you look like both my dad's sisters (one of which is your name-sake). Eerie??? Are we related after all???

Mary

Oh my Gosh Mary, that is Eerie That poor woman LOL. Or both of them.

People I know too are a little taken back when I tell them I'm meeting my city data friends for Lunch. The say "oh you met them from the internet"? I say and they are a great bunch. I consider myself very forutunate to have made the connection with you guys.