Dating - Are there a lot of good guys? (Denver: money, place)

[wanttomoveeast]

Here's what I see you missing. Whether or not you said you were hot, is so not the issue. You mentioned you didn't have problems meeting men, another person viewed that as "you think you are hot". See the difference? No one is saying that you said those words, but they believe you think that way.

Originally Posted by sportsfangal

V- when I mentioned that I didn't have problems meeting men, it was written that I thought I was "hot", but I never said that.

You aren't attracting the wrong types, you are choosing the wrong types. IMHO.

Originally Posted by sportsfangal

I must be "attracting" the wrong types then I guess. I must be a "little" hot for guys to want to approach me, I'm just meeting the ones that are happily married or happily single.

That was me in reference to V's post. See how I quoted him.

Originally Posted by sportsfangal

I don't have any info about "getting screwed in the wallet".

And this is where I think the opinion was formed that you think you are hot:

Originally Posted by sportsfangal

You'd be attracted to me, don't worry.

You do this by a little cut and paste, although there must be an easier way. Anyway, I cut the first quote and the last quote [in brackets] and then you can quote different sections. I played around until I got it right. You can always go back in and edit your post.

Originally Posted by sportsfangal

btw- I can't figure out how to separate the post so I just listed my responses!

[Venusian_Artist]

Originally Posted by sportsfangal

V- when I mentioned that I didn't have problems meeting men, it was written that I thought I was "hot", but I never said that. I am confident that I am attractive because men do approach me. not a huge line of men waiting for me, of course.

Pics or it didn't happen. I kid, that's a popular Internet meme. Or maybe I don't?

Didn't meant to offend you about the "outdated" comment.

Not even close. I'm in the business of offending. You? Not so much.

I just don't have the same views as a woman that you describe.

Great. What's your number?

I don't have any info about "getting screwed in the wallet".

That's a comment about our misandric legal system, not directed at you.

You'd be attracted to me, don't worry.

Pics or it didn't...wait, I said that already.

What I meant by "cerebral" was just the part about BS worrying about who or how to be, does he have to be strong, not too strong, manly, not too manly, etc. those types of things.

Yeah, uh, my experience is that guys who worry about that stuff don't get laid. It's better to impose yourself, as yourself, on someone, than enter the room apologetically. Naturally, there are more than two choices.

btw- I can't figure out how to separate the post so I just listed my responses!

Put *[*quote*]* at the beginning of someone's words (remove asterisks) and *[/*quote*]* at the end (again, remove asterisks.)

[wanttomoveeast]

Hey no doubt. Blue, even though you are moving to Manitou, that's only an hour away, sometimes less. And Sports, you are right here. I've hosted, and DenverAztec have hosted several happy hours. It's not just us, usually about 3-5 people. We've also had brunch. I want to bowl but I don't know if my husband can do that as he's had a surgery that keeps him from that stuff for awhile. Maybe something else fun that doesn't involve guzzling alcohol, although that really helps for you dating folks.

I've been blabbing long enough.

I'm going to start planning the next happy hour. You ALL are invited. But no arguing about dating, you'll make Denver uncomfortable. lol

Originally Posted by Venusian_Artist

Dude, just meet her. No harm there. You're over-thinking.

[Venusian_Artist]

Originally Posted by wanttomoveeast

It's a good feeling, believe me!!!!!!!!!!

Hey, sorry I'm not answering your posts. We're all just posting so quickly it's hard to keep up. Also, you don't need any of my advice Thanks for the hat tips in my direction.

[wanttomoveeast]

haha V, no worries, I'm in the business of writing, er typing, and I can type very fast (as I'm sure you too). Nope no advice needed (for now!) but I love to argue.

[Venusian_Artist]

Originally Posted by wanttomoveeast

haha V, no worries, I'm in the business of writing, er typing, and I can type very fast (as I'm sure you too). Nope no advice needed (for now!) but I love to argue.

You'll have to find someone else to argue with, I think we agree on too much. Emoticons, for the win!

[wanttomoveeast]

Darn, well, there's always sports to argue with?!? Check out my happy hour post, the last one was so much fun!!!

[BlueSimple]

Yeah, uh, my experience is that guys who worry about that stuff don't get laid. It's better to impose yourself, as yourself, on someone, than enter the room apologetically. Naturally, there are more than two choices.

I have to agree with that, that was well said. I have witnessed people "entering a room apologetically" and it can kill almost any possibilities. I am sure it occurs in both sexes, but I have witnessed a lot of guys that spout the "why don't you like me" type of whining. Not so much after highschool and early college, but some guys never get over that sort of simpering attitude and it's pretty pathetic.

[TurcoLoco]

Damn, I ignored this thread for a little while and it became a Circus act, good god!

So, who shagged who while I was gone? C'mon, share the juicy stories....hehe.

Originally Posted by wanttomoveeast

Darn, well, there's always sports to argue with?!? Check out my happy hour post, the last one was so much fun!!!

You know, this thread is only 4K posts behind the 'Happy Hour' thread so keep posting Ladies and Germs!

[wanttomoveeast]

I shanked them all!!!!!!!!! hahahaha, I know, my happy hour thread is in competition. Well, until tomorrow kiddies!!!!!!