Dating - Are there a lot of good guys? (Denver: taxi driver, buses)

[sportsfangal]

BS- Ha! Ha! No sampling! just nothing stood out differently from CA men compared to CO men, k2c mentioned it was a better dating scene. Maybe because those cities have bigger populations?

Originally Posted by BlueSimple

Yes it certainly has been a winding road.




Nice, been doing a little sampling have we?

[wanttomoveeast]

Originally Posted by TurcoLoco

Ohhh, I am so sorry!

Would you like a cookie?

No cookie, but a punch in the arm during the next happy hour would be nice!

[J Swizzle]

Of course there are, but the thing is this: these females out her don't want a real man that will take care of them and treat them right cause they don't know what they want. Yes I admit they do have a point about a guy being too, but @^#$ what is the mang suppose to do ya'll get at me on that, and the reason why is because we don't know what is really right we just go on instinct only.

[TurcoLoco]

Originally Posted by J Swizzle

Of course there are, but the thing is this: these females out her don't want a real man that will take care of them and treat them right cause they don't know what they want. Yes I admit they do have a point about a guy being too, but @^#$ what is the mang suppose to do ya'll get at me on that, and the reason why is because we don't know what is really right we just go on instinct only.

Dude, not to be mean or anything but what the heck are you talking about?
Did you get enough sleep?

[Blanco6]

Hi Befriend,

I am responding to your message posted on City-Data.com. I reside in Wisconsin, and I can't keep looking for jobs every year. There just isn't any quality of life here anymore. You have an interest in Colorado from your writing. I have been interested in the growth of the Denver area for years. Do you know if it is a decent place to live? Is there work out there?

Rich

[the_koolkat]

Originally Posted by J Swizzle

Of course there are, but the thing is this: these females out her don't want a real man that will take care of them and treat them right cause they don't know what they want. Yes I admit they do have a point about a guy being too, but @^#$ what is the mang suppose to do ya'll get at me on that, and the reason why is because we don't know what is really right we just go on instinct only.

We don't want "real" men? What do you figure we are looking for? Artificial men, semi real men....? Every man is a real man and every one is different. You can accuse me of sampling! I have been dating like crazy since I moved here. I am loving it. Every man, like every person, is different and unique and fun. I can't choose just one! As far as women not knowing what they want. I think people in general often don't know what they want. Problem is what you want just like dreams change many, many times throughout one life time. Just as you think you have it figured out it changes again. When it comes to meeting people it helps if you stop categorizing and comparing people. Every new meeting is a new adventure. Enjoy each and every one!

[sportsfangal]

"Koolkat"- You're right! each guy I meet is different and brings something different to the table. It really is fascinating meeting new guys. I need to "sample" more! I don't have trouble meeting men, I definately prefer the "real" ones!!

Originally Posted by the_koolkat

We don't want "real" men? What do you figure we are looking for? Artificial men, semi real men....? Every man is a real man and every one is different. You can accuse me of sampling! I have been dating like crazy since I moved here. I am loving it. Every man, like every person, is different and unique and fun. I can't choose just one! As far as women not knowing what they want. I think people in general often don't know what they want. Problem is what you want just like dreams change many, many times throughout one life time. Just as you think you have it figured out it changes again. When it comes to meeting people it helps if you stop categorizing and comparing people. Every new meeting is a new adventure. Enjoy each and every one!

[the_koolkat]

Just be open and friendly everywhere you go. No exceptions and no pressure. Men are everywhere!!

[sportsfangal]

Yeah, and no expectations seems to work really well also!!

Originally Posted by the_koolkat

Just be open and friendly everywhere you go. No exceptions and no pressure. Men are everywhere!!

[the_koolkat]

At least you knew what I met to say!! Just one more thing. I never go out trying to meet guys. I just go out and almost always meet one or two somewhere. Usually in unexpected places. The last man I met was my bus driver. I think it really is possible to look to hard or try too hard. Since I am not looking for a relationship this works for me. I wouldn't have a clue on how to find a family man. Every guy I know is not looking for anything that even looks like marriage. But that comes later anyway. First you need to meet and become friends if anything is going to come of it.