Dating - Are there a lot of good guys? (Denver: best time, gay)

[TurcoLoco]

Originally Posted by the_koolkat

No woman has to take crap from controlling or abusive men anymore. My list of undesirable men looks just like this one! However, even with such a list I have no problem finding amazing men here in Denver. I am talking professionals who are clean, fit, intelligent, fun, witty, well traveled, open minded, confident , excellent conversationalists, good listeners, charming.... I am not exaggerating either. They are everywhere.

So, there are a lot of gay guys in Denver, huh?


lol...

[tolife]

Originally Posted by the_koolkat

No woman has to take crap from controlling or abusive men anymore. My list of undesirable men looks just like this one! However, even with such a list I have no problem finding amazing men here in Denver. I am talking professionals who are clean, fit, intelligent, fun, witty, well traveled, open minded, confident , excellent conversationalists, good listeners, charming.... I am not exaggerating either. They are everywhere.

That said here are a few things I have come to know. If I was looking for one man to share my life with it would be different. I am dating more then one man so in turn I have no problem with any of them seeing other women. Men may be drawn to me because I don't want a committed relationship. I am not demanding, clingy, or jealous. I am also a genuine friend. The friendship part of my dating is very important and very treasured. Lastly, I know without a doubt that any man who is anywhere close to old enough for me to date has baggage. If you are looking for an adult who has lived at all without baggage give it up. Part of being a friend is knowing the bad and the good, the history and past that made them who they are today. Regardless of what you are looking for don't try to skip the friend step. Friendship is the building blocks to any relationship.

Thanks for your feedback. Yes, bring some of those men my way too!
Very true about the friendship first, but men usually want the humina humina too. That's the hard part for me because I can't separate my emotions. I met a great guy on the slopes last spring. He saw me and actually chased me to the lift! Talk about flattery. Turns out we had a lot in common, he was actually a rocket scientist, a skier, musician, sexy, sweet, all of those things. Well, I was interested. After hanging out a few times, I wanted to try dating him and he only wanted to humina with me. At least he was honest with me!

So this is the kind of thing I'm running across after my 14 mos. of dating in Denver. Had to stop because it was tearing my heart up a bit, but I hope to start dating again soon.

[the_koolkat]

I don't have a problem with the humina, humina. In fact, I kinda like it! I understand about the emotions. I just need friendship and chemistry for humina to be alright. Allot of women need more and there is nothing wrong with that.

[12GO]

I'd say there is alot of good guys out there. Just as I think there is alot of good gals out there. Certainly good looking gals anyway!

[sportsfangal]

tolife- I can relate to that!! Even though I'm not actively looking for a bf, it would be nice to develop a friendship into a LTR, I have met a few who just want "humina" from me also, and I'm not into that! That comes after I feel that the guy is actually serious about dating!
perhaps Kool can send us some of her rejects!! ha! ha! Just kidding, of course! no seconds, for me!!

Originally Posted by tolife

Thanks for your feedback. Yes, bring some of those men my way too!
Very true about the friendship first, but men usually want the humina humina too. That's the hard part for me because I can't separate my emotions. I met a great guy on the slopes last spring. He saw me and actually chased me to the lift! Talk about flattery. Turns out we had a lot in common, he was actually a rocket scientist, a skier, musician, sexy, sweet, all of those things. Well, I was interested. After hanging out a few times, I wanted to try dating him and he only wanted to humina with me. At least he was honest with me!

So this is the kind of thing I'm running across after my 14 mos. of dating in Denver. Had to stop because it was tearing my heart up a bit, but I hope to start dating again soon.

[sportsfangal]

I think so too, they just need to come out of hiding!!!

Originally Posted by 12GO

I'd say there is alot of good guys out there. Just as I think there is alot of good gals out there. Certainly good looking gals anyway!

[sportsfangal]

I don't mind "humina", it's just I would rather not have casual sex with someone I like and would like a LTR with. Guess I'll have to stick with strangers!

only kidding, of course!!!!!

Originally Posted by the_koolkat

I don't have a problem with the humina, humina. In fact, I kinda like it! I understand about the emotions. I just need friendship and chemistry for humina to be alright. Allot of women need more and there is nothing wrong with that.

[the_koolkat]

Originally Posted by sportsfangal

tolife- I can relate to that!! Even though I'm not actively looking for a bf, it would be nice to develop a friendship into a LTR, I have met a few who just want "humina" from me also, and I'm not into that! That comes after I feel that the guy is actually serious about dating!
perhaps Kool can send us some of her rejects!! ha! ha! Just kidding, of course! no seconds, for me!!

Trust me you don't want my rejects!

[sportsfangal]

no, I have a feeling I don't!!! but leave a few scraps out there for us!!!
serioulsy though, most of the Denver men are great, I meet a lot at sporting events and sportsbars! and especially in the areas of CCN and downtown.

Originally Posted by the_koolkat

Trust me you don't want my rejects!

[TurcoLoco]

Originally Posted by sportsfangal

perhaps Kool can send us some of her rejects!! ha! ha! Just kidding, of course! no seconds, for me!!

So, you like virgins, huh?

Note to self: act very clueless and inexperienced with SFG.

You girls must be spoiled due to the number of men over women, your attitudes/comments are conflicted as hell.
You want a decent guy for a LTR yet you all seemed to be getting around quite well, flirting and more...

Women are not the only ones who can read body language and tell if a person is up to no good. Behind your innocent, 'good girl' disguises, I can sense that you are bunch of needy, spoiled vixens.



This thread just won't die, so I figured I talk some crap to keep it going even further...