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We just moved to Metro Detroit last year from southern California. (I guess, because of what the discussion is, and because of where we now live, I should mention that I am white.) Besides the economy, the biggest concern we have is raising our kids in such a racially divisive area. It's sad because both sides-the white suburbs, black Detroit-each have very valid points about what the problems are here and who or what continues to perpitrate it. The finger pointing can go on forever, and goes back for generations. That kind of animocity doesn't go away easily.
I don't worry about what my kids will learn in my home. My kid's only cousin, my niece, is half-black. She is, of course, just another member of our family, loved by all of us and treated no differently. (If anything, we are quick to celebrate her uniqueness.) I know that is what my kids will learn from their family. But... We live in Royal Oak, 4 miles north of Detroit city limits. I know I wont be able to shield my kids from racism on either side, at least as they get older. I guess I'm just posting that this does concern us. I don't want my kids to learn racist attitudes from other whites, and conversly I don't want them to have run-ins with racist blacks who will leave a "bad taste" in their mouth. Sigh. I guess I just have to instill a strong sense of my beliefs...which is that God created all men (and women) equal. Period. As for the Racial Divide here in the Metro...may God help us all. |
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I agree about the racial issue in Metro Detroit. The issue for me is not so much different ethnic groups amassing in one area - this happens in the most diverse of cities. It's the fact that it's polarized between two groups that make up the large bulk of the population; it's rarely good for conflict to build around two groups that can focus on each other - look at Rwanda. The key is for it to change one neighborhood at a time without too rapid an influx. For better or worse, residents get nervous when their neighborhood gets an influx of a different ethnicity.
Philadelphia, even more than Detroit in some ways, was and can still be in some areas one of the most xenophobic cities around. Center City and University City were the first two areas to geographically expand diversity. As more people moved into the city, places like Queen Village and Bella Vista started experiencing diversity. It's expanding one step at a time and also changing one xenophobic mind at a time. The downside for Detroit is that I'm not sure if the city will diversify any time soon. Families in general will be hesitant to move into the city with the schools and perception of safety. The good news is that suburban towns like Troy are relatively diverse and Berkley and Royal Oak are diversifying as we speak; it has to start somewhere. Our block is a testament to this with a good number of people from different ethnic and socio-economic backgrounds moving in. |
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You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to Cato the Elder again. Dang it!
I do see that RO is diversifying. I just moved here and the stats said something like it is 95% white here...not from what I've seen. And guess what everyone? It's not going to crap! It's still nice and safe here! OMG! (This is meant as sarcasm to those who think that diversification equals crime and poverty). Although our neighborhood seems to be mostly white, I definately see plenty of non-whites as well. And I love it! |
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We were at Somerset this weekend shopping for bar stools and we were pleasantly surprised by how ethnically diverse the shoppers were. We could swear it was much more "white-american" during the winter; we both independently noticed the same thing. Perhaps the quality of the mall draws in people from all over? Whatever the reason, all the non-white-americans are coming from somewhere - latinos, asians, euros, australians, etc.
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To jeffncandace and Cato the Elder.
You all have no idea how much hope and optimism your combined posts gives to me and many blacks who visit this forum. I know of one very intelligent lady who has refused to continue to post on this forum because of the hate and negativity posted. Be sure that EVERYONE who posts comments on this board knows that BOTH whites and blacks have contributed to this apartied we call se mi. The problem lies with the belief of some that blacks caused ALL the problems or ALL blacks bring crime and poverty or that it is impossible or impractical that any minority group could live among whites and get along and/or contribute. On the other side of the fence you have blacks who blame ALL our social and cultural ills on white people and take no personal responsiblity to better themselves or environement. Even some of the situations that have been directly caused by white racism can be overcome and nullified if we choose to look forward and move forward to a higher goal. The situation in se mi reminds me of the Hatfields and Mccoys, I think that's the correct spelling. You have whites on one side blacks on the other and if anyone from either side attempts positive dialogue or reconcilliation they are attacked from their respective race. Thanks for interjecting new blood and viewpoints into this issue and please continue to contribute. I truely believe that with more people such as yourselves this region will turn around as it concearns race relations and hopefully those who shout hatred will die, move away, wake up, or learn to shut up, so that WE as se mi will get together and make this region a great place to live for all of it's people. Last edited by reconmark : 06-12-2007 at 12:10 PM. Reason: Incorrect grammar |
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You know Cato, something I've noticed on the forums is some suburbanites complaining about the 'burbs declining-getting dirty, more crime, ect. I'm sure they equate this with the influx of non-whites.
To me, as a newcomer, they seem perfectly fine. Although I have heard from word of mouth that some inner ring 'burbs, such as Hazel Park or Oak Park, have indeed declined, in general things look totally fine to me. Any thoughts? Not just Cato, but anyone? Last edited by jeffncandace : 06-12-2007 at 12:05 PM. |
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It's a sad commentary on our state of affairs that posters such as yourself, and Cato and I, are the in the minority when it comes to the race issue. Let's hope we can spread around some rational thinking, and that it catches on! Last edited by jeffncandace : 06-12-2007 at 12:05 PM. |
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My in-law's gardener who comes from a long-time, uneducated, insular Big-3 family is fairly racist; perhaps the saddest part is that it's a part of her and she doesn't even realize it. She's generally a very nice person, just very ignorant. I would guess that 90% of the people who spout the most repugnant vitriol on here come from a similar background - venting as their privileged Big-3 way of life comes to a close. Something has to give in this day and age. I think only more non-whites will settle in the 'burbs. Some will be troublemakers as in any demographic, but the vast majority will be productive members of society who will add something good. It's a shame that some people don't realize this in the 21st century. IMHO, it's time to dilute some of the 100 year old MI inbreeding if the state's to move on... ![]() |
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What you all have to keep in mind is that whether or not a place is good or bad, great or a mess is all subjective. We view it from our own eyes and our opinions are influenced by our life experiences up to that point. So while I may look at Roseville and say it's down trodden and know that over the last 30 years it's really went downhill, someone else may look at it (especially that didn't see it before) and say "it's not bad at all." Just depends on what you are used to, what you have experienced. Personally I wouldn't live anywhere south of around 16 mile road. And I've seen the decline of those suburbs around there. I was born in Detroit, raised in Warren and all my family live in the outer (nicer) suburbs. If you saw how things were before you would know why so many people think things are bad in certain areas now. Because compared to before they are bad now. You just weren't there to see them or the changes that took place. |
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