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Originally Posted by jcsam
Hello All,
I have two American Bulldogs. 1 Male, 1 Female. They have both been through dog obiedience training, nothing more. I walk to male sometimes (I need to do this more, since weather is better I can) I don't walk the Female much becuase she's just crazy on the leash (she needs a lot of work, I'm going to start working on this..).
On one side of us we have a family that has 3 dogs. Behind us they have 1. Anytime all the animals are out, my Male will go up to the fence and in essence take control of the it. He will not let my Female near it, if she does come near it he attacks her. Sometimes she attacks first. I think(??) becuase she wants to be near the fence and the other dogs.
This sometimes happens when I feed them. I feed them in seperate rooms and if one comes near the other, the fight is on! Any ideas about how to try to fix this issue without getting rid of one of them, would be great.
Other details: Whenever they get in the same room, tails go up and ears back for the most part. It's like they just can't stand each other. Vet bills are just killing me.
Any links for good sites that talk about this? Anything? Any help would be great!
Thanks all!
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I know exactly what you're going through and how unbelievably hard, stressful and heartbreaking it is!

My husband and I own 3 APBTs. A male named Brooklyn and 2 females named Destiny and Jayda. As I'm sure you know, APBTs are a breed that does tend to be somewhat dog aggressive, but my husband and I have worked very hard, and continue to work very hard, to make sure our dogs are very well socialized and trained. Both of our females are extremely human and dog friendly, and our male is extremely human friendly, but he's not exactly dog friendly all of the time. I wouldn't go as far as to say he's dog aggressive, it just takes him a little while to get use to new dogs sometimes.
We got Brooklyn 1st, when he was about 8 weeks old, and for the longest time he was our only dog. Once Brooklyn got a bit older and calmed down some, we decided we wanted another APBT, that's when we got Destiny. Now, I won't go into the long story about how we got Desy and what happened when we got her, but Brooklyn didn't really have a problem with Desy and I think it was because she was so tiny and Brooklyn could sense that she was really weak, so he didn't feel threatened by her. About 6 months after we got Desy we found out that our neighbors that lived 2 houses down from us had just moved out and abandoned their 7 1/2 month old female APBT!

That same night we decided to take her in. We knew Brooklyn wouldn't like Jayda right off the bat, but we assumed he would get use to her like he has done with any other dog he didn't like to start with. We didn't expect things to get as bad as they did though, and we didn't expect it to take so long for Brooklyn to fully accept her.
Once we brought Jayda home everything changed! After a day or 2 Destiny and Jayda loved each other, but Brooklyn wanted to kill Jayda still.

We had to always keep Jayda and Brooklyn separated. However, after a while, Brooklyn started to do better with Jayda, you could tell he didn't really like her, but he put up with her. Obviously we never left them unattended together, but they were doing well enough for us to not have to keep them separated. Anyway, when it was just Brooklyn and Desy we would feed them out of their crates and we never had a problem. I mean, we kept their food bowls across the room from each other just to avoid any issues, but we never had any problems. After Jayda and Brooklyn got to the point where they could be around each other is when the real problems started. One day when I went into the kitchen to fix their food, they all ran to the edge of the kitchen to sit and wait like they always do, and then next thing I know Brooklyn is going after Jayda!

Jayda was screaming and Brooklyn was barking, growling and snapping at her and had her backed into a cornor! I lost it! I thought he was killing her!

Not thinking, I dropped everything and ran to grab Brooklyn, but as soon as I got Brooklyn off of Jayda (who wasn't hurt at all by the way

) Jayda jumped up and went after Brooklyn!

Again, not thinking, I blocked Brooklyn with my leg soJayda wouldn't hurt him and Jayda got my leg!

As soon as I yelled she realized what she had done and stopped. After that though, I put them in their crates and fed them like that. I found out that Brooklyn didn't even touch Jayda, thank God, he was just trying to show her that he was the boss I guess. Which he is not!

We quickly found out that any time Jayda is around food, toys, bones, anything like that, even if she's not eating the food or playing with the toys, Brooklyn will attack her!
Anyway, it got so bad that we really started to think we would have to find Brooklyn or Jayda a new home.

Instead of doing that though, we decided to just make things work. We changed everything! We started to feed the dogs in their crates, we started to keep all of the toys and bones put up at all times, unless they were in their crates, we only gave them treats if they were in their crates or if they were separated, etc, etc, etc. We also started to exercise them more, we came up with a schedule and we stick to it as much as possible and most importantly, we established our dominance and make sure we worked every day to keep our places as the pack leaders.
To establish our dominance we did things like claim all of the rooms in our home, the sofas the bed, the table, etc, etc, etc. We made it to where the dogs were not allowed to go into the kitchen at all, no matter what. They are never allowed around the table, they are only allowed in the main part of the house (they can't go into any of the rooms unless they are with us and have permission to be there), they aren't allowed on the sofa or bed unless they are invited up, etc, etc, etc. This way they know that they are in our home and they will respect our rules.
As for the schedule, we obviously can't stick to the same schedule every day, but we try as hard as we can. Dogs do way better on a schedule. We can't talk to them and let them know what is going on, so when certain things happen around the same time every day, they know what to expect. The things that are most important for us to stick to would be feeding times, walks and when we go to sleep. We make sure we feed them at the same time every morning and every afternoon, we walk them around the same time every day, and we try to go to bed around the same time every night.
Now, to get to the exercise.. Obviously it's wonderful for dogs to get a chance to get some good exercise every day, but I don't think a lot of people realize what a great chance it is to establish your dominance. Walks are such an important thing! We make sure we take our dogs for at least 1 very good walk every day, but we try very hard to walk them 3-2 times a day, and each walk is about 45-60 minutes. When we walk our dogs we don't just walk around following them and watching them sniff everything like a lot of people do.

We take our dogs on structured walks. Our dogs are never allowed to walk in front of us, that would make them the pack leaders in their minds because we are following them. They have to stay next to us or behind us. Also, for the first half of the walk, they aren't allowed to sniff all over the place, they have to walk nicely with us, then, if they do that, they earn the privilege of sniffing around for the 2nd half of the walk. Even then through, they do things on our terms. We also try to take our dogs on individual walks and then a walk all together. Walking the dogs individually gives you a chance to spend some one-on-one time with each dog, and that dog gets some time to get all of the attention. However, dogs are pack animals and packs travel together, so walking them all together helps them accept each other as members of the same pack. The walks have made a HUGE difference!
Since we have changed the way we do things, we have not had a problem with any of our dogs getting into fights.
