Showing off your Body (muscle, gym, build, biking)

[IamInShape]

If you are healthy looking and male and you are shirtless?? How is that percieved from females??? Conceited, confident, selfish, ????? Do women find that appealing or not????

[midnightbirdgirl]

It depends where you are without your shirt...
MBG

[nomoresnow]

Good point, MNG. I was going to say I find it rather egotistical, but if you're at the beach or pool, fine. If you're hanging out in the park....not so sure.

[Rance]

But what if your trying to get some sun...while hanging out in the park? I could understand in a public place like walking down the street in town or something. But a park? I'd lay on a blanket and sun tan in a park.

[citybythebay]

Originally Posted by IamInShape

If you are healthy looking and male and you are shirtless?? How is that percieved from females??? Conceited, confident, selfish, ????? Do women find that appealing or not????

I'm going to set the scene ....it's a hot summer day and while out in the park there is a hot guy, with a hot bod jogging/biking/whatever...in my opinion....no way is it conceited or selfish...I'll look and maybe twice. ...why not?

[foma]

As long as it is in an appropriate place and you have the body to actually "show off". I don't mean you hvae to have a "perfect" build or anything but I have seen waaaay too many nasty-looking men showing off nothing but their hairy backs and beer-gut!

I love going to the gym and seeing those muscle men watch themselves in the mirror. It cracks me up. I always wonder what they are thinking in their pretty little heads as they admire themeselves in the mirror.

The park is OK, IMO. Some guys though, you just KNOW they are shirtless b'c they want to flaunt it.

[IamInShape]

How about doing things in your front yard shirtless like taking out the trash, washing your car, etc..??Does that make the neighbors say hey there goes that conceited guy washing his car shirtless again??

[fuzzymystic]

Personally, I'm a little sick of seeing my neighbor "hanging out'' in his front yard, on his riding lawnmower, man, that is some nasty pasty-white flabbiness. If a guy looks decent, go for it, I say. My other neighbor got a new roof put on last week, and some of those guys were shirtless-I was fine with that!!

[Lisa_from_Debary]

I don't think so, when I lived in Texas, I had a VAST yard, I used to mow the lawn in my bathing suit...not because I thought I was all that but because I wanted to get some sun while I was working in the yard...Did my neighbors notice?? Don't know, Don't care.

If someone walked into a grocery store like that or a gas station, then I might think it odd but I really don't notice what other people do like that...who cares really.

Someone would have to walk past me naked for me to really make much of a remark on it. I don't care if other people are self obsessed, as long as they don't bother me with it.

[dennis s]

here is the result of my extensive research....... Washboard abs are good, hairless back....good, built up chest and biceps are good.

If you haven't been complimented on all of those things recently (not by your mother) then keep your shirt on.