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Old 06-29-2010, 02:36 PM
 
Location: The "Rock"
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Ladies:

I have always been curious about this. When a woman has found a man with another woman

Why do you all want to know if she is attractive?

And what is the best answer? Is it worse for the other woman to be pretty or ugly?

Are you all gonna feel any better if the woman is more or less attractive than you?
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Old 06-29-2010, 02:45 PM
 
Location: Everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for-B Marley
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I think it might have to do with wondering if he did it because she wasn't attractive enough for him so to find out the one he cheated with is less attractive--to some--is a relief. It was with me when I found my ex had cheated. Then, when reality set in, I thought, ok, if it's not my looks, what's wrong with me that he'd cheat? It took me two years to realize it wasn't me, it was him.
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Old 06-29-2010, 05:40 PM
 
Location: Greenwood Village, Colorado
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It's simple. Women are judge by their beauty and men by power.

When you hear bob is coming to the office party with his 40 year old wife, nobody cares. When you hear bob is coming to the office party with his 24 year old girlfriend, everyone assumes she is hot and wants to see her.

So yes, when a guy cheats, people assume she is a hottie.

On the other hand if woman cheats, she is a ***** and nobody cares what the guy looks like. People are messed up
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Old 06-30-2010, 08:12 AM
 
Location: Canada
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Ladies:

I have always been curious about this. When a woman has found a man with another woman

Why do you all want to know if she is attractive?

And what is the best answer? Is it worse for the other woman to be pretty or ugly?

Are you all gonna feel any better if the woman is more or less attractive than you?

....its worse for the other woman to be pretty.
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Old 06-30-2010, 10:15 AM
 
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Ladies:

I have always been curious about this. When a woman has found a man with another woman

Why do you all want to know if she is attractive?

And what is the best answer? Is it worse for the other woman to be pretty or ugly?

Are you all gonna feel any better if the woman is more or less attractive than you?
I don't care what the b looks like. Dead meat is dead meat!

There is no "best" answer to this. And what she looked like would not make a gd difference to me. Maybe the best answer is: Hold your balls and run before I rip them off? "

I don't assume when I guy cheats its a hottie. If some 40 yo was showing up with a 24 yo I would assume its his child or a gold diggin ho bag. NOT hot.
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Old 06-30-2010, 10:22 AM
 
Location: The "Rock"
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I don't care what the b looks like. Dead meat is dead meat!

There is no "best" answer to this. And what she looked like would not make a gd difference to me. Maybe the best answer is: Hold your balls and run before I rip them off? "

I don't assume when I guy cheats its a hottie. If some 40 yo was showing up with a 24 yo I would assume its his child or a gold diggin ho bag. NOT hot.
lol... i feel ya. I know there was not a best answer but for the purpose of discussion, i felt it was good. You make some great points... I agree with the roles reversed. i woudnt care how rich & powerful he was.

lmao @ "ho bag"

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Old 06-30-2010, 11:27 AM
 
Location: colorado
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Ladies:

I have always been curious about this. When a woman has found a man with another woman

Why do you all want to know if she is attractive?

And what is the best answer? Is it worse for the other woman to be pretty or ugly?

Are you all gonna feel any better if the woman is more or less attractive than you?

What man??
her husband? her brother? her son? her ex?
I'd feel better if the women that was with my ex treated my kids good, I could care less about her looks. If it was my brothers or son just as long as she cared for them and they were happy with her.
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Old 06-30-2010, 12:20 PM
 
Location: The "Rock"
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What man??
her husband? her brother? her son? her ex?
I'd feel better if the women that was with my ex treated my kids good, I could care less about her looks. If it was my brothers or son just as long as she cared for them and they were happy with her.
Sorry... I thought it was understood that "Other" meant when the other woman your man is seeing. So a "side chic" is how i meant it.

Maybe I should have given some background... Every time you hear about a man cheating in the news (ie John Edwards, Tiger, Jesse James) the first thing I hear women comment about is how ugly of a tramp she was... so that brought me to ask why does that matter.
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Old 06-30-2010, 12:53 PM
 
Location: Prescott Valley, Az (unfortunately still here)
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I really don't care. But I did ask things like, is she brunette or blonde? Is she like me, athletic looking or not? when I was single. That way, I truly know what his preference is. And when I was single and dating, I used to ask the guy about his ex and such. Just to get a good idea what he likes in a woman or not like. But that's as far as I go with it. But it doesn't bother me any.
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Old 06-30-2010, 12:58 PM
 
Location: colorado
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Sorry... I thought it was understood that "Other" meant when the other woman your man is seeing. So a "side chic" is how i meant it.

Maybe I should have given some background... Every time you hear about a man cheating in the news (ie John Edwards, Tiger, Jesse James) the first thing I hear women comment about is how ugly of a tramp she was... so that brought me to ask why does that matter.

Your right,, I see a lot of women do that
the women can be hot as hell, and the other women will make some kind of put down comment about her looks,
Who knows she may be a tramp, but she may be a pretty tramp..
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