Small boobs, anyone? (substitute, guys, girls, male)
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I guess I'm less insecure than I thought... Or maybe I've just matured past all of this angst. If I saw a group of men ogling Victoria's Secret models, I'd just smile and shake my head. Boys will be boys, right? If a guy with a beautiful chest and back goes jogging past me on my way to work, I look. It means nothing, other than appreciating beauty for a moment. No harm done.
Even if my husband (no, I'm not married, but this is just a "what if") were ogling some random woman, I wouldn't care. If he went out of his way to see her, or if he began talking to her, that's different - but we're not talking about that.
Besides, if you're in a good relationship then the size of anyone's appendages shouldn't even be an issue. If it is an issue, you're with the wrong person. And if someone keeps harping on it, and bringing it up over and over, they should be the recipient of the "dead fish stare". Under no circumstances should this become a debate, because that person isn't being reasonable.
reported that one as well, I'm new and even I know better.
Mac, you are funny.
Personally I appreciate all human beauty male or female and I have in the past nudged Sneakers (my husband) and told him to look at one woman or another because she was beautiful or had nice looking boobs. The first time I did that to him he almost choked to death but he is sort of used to by now, we've been together 7 years and I am not insecure at all, he does come home to me all the time.
Well I guess I'm different than all you super secure people. I envy all of you honestly.
You've received 19 pages worth of responses and you still have to "envy" those that are secure (and we're not all "super secure"); instead of finding things about yourself that are admirable. Focus on the positives.
If people ask for advice and they still come to their negative opinion about themselves, then 20+ pages won't make the difference unless they choose to see it for themselves. Some people, despite asking for help, stay miserable because they're too accustomed to self-pity, and the attention it gives them. It's a shame that they can't/won't see what others can.
Being "different" has nothing to do with whether or not you can become more secure. Being secure isn't exclusive: it's a decision people make to like themselves anyway.
Well I guess I'm different than all you super secure people. I envy all of you honestly.
I think I did not give this problem the proper respect.
This is actually an emotional issue on both ends. Men are biologically attracted to large breasts. That's why girls when the get to mating age their breasts expand as part of the process of natural selection. Men are not making intellectual decisions about this.
And, you are not making intellectual decisions about it either. You express lack of self esteem yet you have had strangers poring over your breast (figuratively) for 20 pages of posts. If you were thinking about this intellectually, you would have just got the +2's and called it a day. But, you have engaged in an emotional exercise also.
I'll repeat what I said above. No one likes small breasts except the henpecked husbands of women who have them and lesbians. But, you will find someone that loves you regardless of your breast size just like you would find someone who loves you if you are short or tall or bald.
Last edited by Wilson513; 08-10-2010 at 12:38 PM..
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If I saw a group of men ogling Victoria's Secret models, I'd just smile and shake my head. Boys will be boys, right? If a guy with a beautiful chest and back goes jogging past me on my way to work, I look. It means nothing, other than appreciating beauty for a moment. No harm done. 
And if someone keeps harping on it, and bringing it up over and over, they should be the recipient of the "dead fish stare". Under no circumstances should this become a debate, because that person isn't being reasonable.
