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Old 08-05-2010, 12:20 PM
 
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So I was reading a thread here last night, which stated why women want big boobs. Granted, as a small chested girl (A cup) I have many times wanted big breasts. And yes, mostly it has been because of men. I admit it; if I ever got implants (which I don't think I'll ever get), it wouldn't be because of me, it would be because I'd like more men to think I'm hot. Let's face it? Who doesn't want to be a 10 in the other gender's eyes?

I don't know, I think my breasts are my biggest insecurity. And I don't even have much to worry about, really, 'cause I look quite feminine: I'm slim, I have long hair, I have feminine facial features, a small waist and wide hips. You could not mistake me for a man even if I dressed like one. I'm really fertile like the doc said. I'm really healthy. So why the Hell do I feel insecure?

Are big breasts really THAT much better? I mean obviously not that important since I had a boyfriend. But he liked big breasts better too. Why? It's just extra tissue, nothing else. And nothing that I can control. So why do I have to put up with guys drooling over what I don't have? It doesn't feel nice. Then they say they dislike implants. So what's left for me? What are my options?

Is it seriously a flaw? Because men like my ex boyfriend said, are always like "Well, I can overlook that. I like your other features", or "The ass has to make up for it". Why does something else have to "make up for it"?

Why me, anyway? I'm the least superficial girl I know. Of course I have standards, but I'm not picky when it comes to looks. So what the hell happened to my karma? Why do I always end up with men who settle for my boobs? I don't want that! I want someone to want me, to want my small boobs and to think they're freakin' perfect!

Plus with all the porn, beer ads and everything, is it any wonder we feel insecure? Breasts are out there, unlike, say the penis. You can totally see whether or not a woman has big or small boobs the second you meet her, it's like we're exposed. Unless a woman wears padded bras or push ups, which I hate. It's like faking it, and faking it sucks.

I WISH I had lewd men staring at my **** all the time. I don't get why big breasted women complain so much; they stare 'cause you're hot, deal with it. Gee.
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Old 08-05-2010, 12:25 PM
 
Location: Baltimore, MD
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Are big breasts really THAT much better? .
I have so much to say on why big boobs suck but I have to run to a job interview.

Will post later!
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Old 08-05-2010, 12:27 PM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Don't let it phase you. Most men aren't that particular about breast size. There will always be men out there who actually prefer smaller to bigger. I've dated women who've had A cups and were completely flat-chested, and I've dated women who were very well endowed, it wasn't a dealbreaker either way.
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Old 08-05-2010, 12:27 PM
 
Location: Visitation between Wal-Mart & Home Depot
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So I was reading a thread here last night, which stated why women want big boobs. Granted, as a small chested girl (A cup) I have many times wanted big breasts. And yes, mostly it has been because of men. I admit it; if I ever got implants (which I don't think I'll ever get), it wouldn't be because of me, it would be because I'd like more men to think I'm hot. Let's face it? Who doesn't want to be a 10 in the other gender's eyes?

I don't know, I think my breasts are my biggest insecurity. And I don't even have much to worry about, really, 'cause I look quite feminine: I'm slim, I have long hair, I have feminine facial features, a small waist and wide hips. You could not mistake me for a man even if I dressed like one. I'm really fertile like the doc said. I'm really healthy. So why the Hell do I feel insecure?

Are big breasts really THAT much better? I mean obviously not that important since I had a boyfriend. But he liked big breasts better too. Why? It's just extra tissue, nothing else. And nothing that I can control. So why do I have to put up with guys drooling over what I don't have? It doesn't feel nice. Then they say they dislike implants. So what's left for me? What are my options?

Is it seriously a flaw? Because men like my ex boyfriend said, are always like "Well, I can overlook that. I like your other features", or "The ass has to make up for it". Why does something else have to "make up for it"?

Why me, anyway? I'm the least superficial girl I know. Of course I have standards, but I'm not picky when it comes to looks. So what the hell happened to my karma? Why do I always end up with men who settle for my boobs? I don't want that! I want someone to want me, to want my small boobs and to think they're freakin' perfect!

Plus with all the porn, beer ads and everything, is it any wonder we feel insecure? Breasts are out there, unlike, say the penis. You can totally see whether or not a woman has big or small boobs the second you meet her, it's like we're exposed. Unless a woman wears padded bras or push ups, which I hate. It's like faking it, and faking it sucks.

I WISH I had lewd men staring at my **** all the time. I don't get why big breasted women complain so much; they stare 'cause you're hot, deal with it. Gee.
It sounds to me as though you should post a bunch of nude pictures on an internet forum, then you'll have lewd men staring at your **** literally around the clock.
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Old 08-05-2010, 12:33 PM
 
Location: Raleigh, NC
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I'm not sure I can fix your self-image issues. Personally, visually, I don't care so much about the boobs as the rest of the package. Your description of yourself:

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I'm slim, I have long hair, I have feminine facial features, a small waist and wide hips. You could not mistake me for a man even if I dressed like one. I'm really fertile like the doc said. I'm really healthy.
makes you sound rather hot to me.

For the record, I guaranteee that men ARE staring at your boobs, your ass, your legs, your feet (yes), your lips, your eyes, and just about everything else.
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Old 08-05-2010, 12:36 PM
 
Location: Iowa
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I'm sorry OP--I feel the same way. I've been told I'm quite attractive by many men but the porn industry these days does make us smaller chested women feel not adequate. I found out that my boyfriend was also into "LARGE breasts" and it really hurt my feelings, because that is something I cannot change, unless I get breast implants (which I would love to do, but cannot afford them for the time being) it just sucks that men can make us feel so insecure over things we can't control
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Old 08-05-2010, 12:36 PM
 
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Most guys really care that much about boob size? I'm asking, because most guys I know just really don't care that much. As long as it could at least be considered proportionate with the body.
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Old 08-05-2010, 12:40 PM
 
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I'm surprised with the obesity epidemic in this country more men wouldn't just be happy with a girl who's proportionate.
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Old 08-05-2010, 12:41 PM
 
Location: Verde Valley AZ
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So I was reading a thread here last night, which stated why women want big boobs. Granted, as a small chested girl (A cup) I have many times wanted big breasts. And yes, mostly it has been because of men. I admit it; if I ever got implants (which I don't think I'll ever get), it wouldn't be because of me, it would be because I'd like more men to think I'm hot. Let's face it? Who doesn't want to be a 10 in the other gender's eyes?

I don't know, I think my breasts are my biggest insecurity. And I don't even have much to worry about, really, 'cause I look quite feminine: I'm slim, I have long hair, I have feminine facial features, a small waist and wide hips. You could not mistake me for a man even if I dressed like one. I'm really fertile like the doc said. I'm really healthy. So why the Hell do I feel insecure?

Are big breasts really THAT much better? I mean obviously not that important since I had a boyfriend. But he liked big breasts better too. Why? It's just extra tissue, nothing else. And nothing that I can control. So why do I have to put up with guys drooling over what I don't have? It doesn't feel nice. Then they say they dislike implants. So what's left for me? What are my options?

Is it seriously a flaw? Because men like my ex boyfriend said, are always like "Well, I can overlook that. I like your other features", or "The ass has to make up for it". Why does something else have to "make up for it"?

Why me, anyway? I'm the least superficial girl I know. Of course I have standards, but I'm not picky when it comes to looks. So what the hell happened to my karma? Why do I always end up with men who settle for my boobs? I don't want that! I want someone to want me, to want my small boobs and to think they're freakin' perfect!

Plus with all the porn, beer ads and everything, is it any wonder we feel insecure? Breasts are out there, unlike, say the penis. You can totally see whether or not a woman has big or small boobs the second you meet her, it's like we're exposed. Unless a woman wears padded bras or push ups, which I hate. It's like faking it, and faking it sucks.

I WISH I had lewd men staring at my **** all the time. I don't get why big breasted women complain so much; they stare 'cause you're hot, deal with it. Gee.
Well, you can always look on the bright side. When you get older, no matter what size you are, you WILL 'droop'. I've always been a smaller B cup but now?? I have cleavage!! And you will too. And I'm not 'saggy'. Don't worry about it so much. Big boobs do NOT 'hot' make no matter what YOU think men think. And, for the record, I have never felt insecure because of my 'small' size. I'm small all over so consider myself 'just right'.
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Old 08-05-2010, 12:41 PM
 
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Big boobs are nice, provided they look good and perky, which is only the case in about 5% of big natural breasts. Most big boobs don't look all that great, unless they are implants.

I like girls with small boobs because they look and usually feel more firm. Big boobs are only fun to look at when watching porn. Other than that, I don't think they're very elegant, in the sense that when too big, they'll make the girl look like a "cheap Vegas 'hoe" (to quote Mel Gibson, lol).

In conclusion, enjoy your small boobs. I"m sure they are fine just like that.
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