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Old 12-03-2010, 10:56 AM
 
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I love high heels, the higher the better. What guy doesn't love high heels? I've dated a few woman that with 4" heels on, they were taller than me (I'm 5'10") I'm ok with that. It's sexy.


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In my view, heels ARE NOT attractive under any circumstances on a woman. They make her look like a ho
I hope you are being sarcastic.
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Old 12-03-2010, 11:01 AM
 
Location: North Shore Long Island
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In my view, heels ARE NOT attractive under any circumstances on a woman. They make her look like a ho
Interesting view. I'm curious to know how your strong feelings came about. Have you always felt that way? Did your mother ever wear heels or does/did she share the same views as you? What about your father? Did he voice the same opinion?
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Old 12-03-2010, 11:03 AM
 
Location: Jacksonville, FL (Northside)
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I love high heels, the higher the better. What guy doesn't love high heels? I've dated a few woman that with 4" heels on, they were taller than me (I'm 5'10") I'm ok with that. It's sexy.
I hope you are being sarcastic.
I'm dead serious. I think a woman who wears heels gives off a trashy/ho vibe because it's like she has to try too hard to look good, i.e. throw on some heels, and men will go goo-goo gaa gaa each and every time. I'm probably a rare breed of man that doesn't find heels attractive on a woman at all.
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Old 12-03-2010, 11:05 AM
 
Location: Jacksonville, FL (Northside)
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Interesting view. I'm curious to know how your strong feelings came about. Have you always felt that way? Did your mother ever wear heels or does/did she share the same views as you? What about your father? Did he voice the same opinion?
For as long as I can remember, I've always felt this way. The women in my family wear flats, no more no less. They don't do stillettos, heels or none of that because some of them have chronic foot issues and like me, they see young women wearing heels/stilettos and conjure up in their minds "Yep, she's a ho."
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Old 12-03-2010, 11:10 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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Honestly, I don't care if a woman is taller than me, stiletto or otherwise. But, holy mackerel, 4-5" heel ??? I can only imagine what they do shaping the calves, the back, and the rear end. Oh my, BRB ...
Platforms are comfortable; it's the stilettos that suck. I can only walk in stilettos up to 4" high and only in some of them. That puts me at 5'6", which is fine with me and it means men should start at about 5'8" at least unless they also wear platforms.
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Old 12-03-2010, 11:14 AM
 
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I'm dead serious. I think a woman who wears heels gives off a trashy/ho vibe because it's like she has to try too hard to look good, i.e. throw on some heels, and men will go goo-goo gaa gaa each and every time. I'm probably a rare breed of man that doesn't find heels attractive on a woman at all.
whats wrong with men going goo goo gaa gaa each time? I for one don't want to be with a woman that wears sweat pants and tennis shoes everywhere. If her date night wardrobe is blue jeans and a t-shirt, I'm out. I like to dress up and I like a woman who dresses up. If the heels do nothing for you, thats fine, no one can give you grief over that. But I guess I take issue with you labeling woman "ho's" for trying to be attractive. This sounds like a control/insecurity issue. So many men have an issue with a woman's sexuality and the power they tend to wield over men.
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Old 12-03-2010, 11:21 AM
 
Location: North Shore Long Island
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For as long as I can remember, I've always felt this way. The women in my family wear flats, no more no less. They don't do stillettos, heels or none of that because some of them have chronic foot issues and like me, they see young women wearing heels/stilettos and conjure up in their minds "Yep, she's a ho."
Do the women in your family not wear heels because of their foot issues, but would they wear them if that wasn't the case OR do they not wear them because they think heels = hos?

So what do you find attractive on women? I would say most women wear some type of heel on occasion, so how do you find women who don't wear any type of heel?
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Old 12-03-2010, 11:23 AM
 
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Just curious? The average man is ~5'9"-5'10" but these heels might dwarf any man. I have seen some average height women top out around 6'0-6'1" in them. Besides being an ankle breaker, do you men like heels this high on a woman?
I don't mind the high heels. If it makes her taller than me or tower over me, so what.

The only thing I have to say about them is "doesn't it hurt to walk in them????"
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Old 12-03-2010, 11:25 AM
 
Location: 112 Ocean Avenue
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So what do you find attractive on women?
Me.
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Old 12-03-2010, 11:25 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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how do you find women who don't wear any type of heel?
Easy! Somebody like you who doesn't want to look any taller, though! The problem is there aren't that many women of your height...
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