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Old 03-04-2011, 06:23 PM
 
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A dozen little cuts every day. The next time you meet a pretty ****** just know she wasn't always that way.

I'm supposed to pretend to feel bad about myself and walk around in a sackcloth? Oh no, wait...it's you're supposed to feel good about yourself by being a ****** toward me. Did I get that right?
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Old 03-04-2011, 11:02 PM
 
Location: Retirementland
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Old 03-04-2011, 11:10 PM
 
Location: earth?
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Issues?
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Old 03-05-2011, 12:38 AM
 
Location: La lune et les étoiles
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I've been told countless times that I'm beautiful. But, I'm sick of it. People constantly think that if one is attractive they have a wonderful life. I would much rather be an average looking girl if it meant I could be happier with who I was, family, school, relationships, etc. Yes, I might be able to get a free drink at a bar, but that doesn't stop lifelong eating disorder symptoms. As much as many people think that being attractive helps you in life, there are times when it makes situations harder. It's harder to get in a relationship, because guys are automatically intimidated by you, and sometimes they don't even think they have a chance with you, which is completely wrong. Does anyone else feel this way?

This is for any girl or guy who doesn't feel he or she is beautiful. The outside doesn't even begin to makeup up a person's beauty in comparison to the happiness on the inside.
Keep living.....looks fade
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Old 03-05-2011, 03:33 AM
 
Location: Connecticut
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I've been told countless times that I'm beautiful. But, I'm sick of it. People constantly think that if one is attractive they have a wonderful life. I would much rather be an average looking girl if it meant I could be happier with who I was, family, school, relationships, etc. Yes, I might be able to get a free drink at a bar, but that doesn't stop lifelong eating disorder symptoms. As much as many people think that being attractive helps you in life, there are times when it makes situations harder. It's harder to get in a relationship, because guys are automatically intimidated by you, and sometimes they don't even think they have a chance with you, which is completely wrong. Does anyone else feel this way?

This is for any girl or guy who doesn't feel he or she is beautiful. The outside doesn't even begin to makeup up a person's beauty in comparison to the happiness on the inside.

Being "average" looking won't make you happier. Whatever personal problems you have they'll still be there no matter what you look like.
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Old 03-05-2011, 05:42 AM
 
Location: right here
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Here's some words of wisdom for everyone..."you have to get out of bed sometime." In other words get some substance behind your looks-you may be hot but you are a dime a dozen-get some brains. Looks will only get you so far in life
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Old 03-05-2011, 11:59 AM
 
Location: Planet Eaarth
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Being beautiful is easy since God gives you your looks. The hard part is when you get all vain about what you got for free.
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Old 03-05-2011, 12:03 PM
 
Location: Mountain girl trapped on the beach
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Issues?
Not just a few issues, the entire subscription.
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Old 03-05-2011, 12:26 PM
 
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Dear beautiful martyrs in this thread:

You're really not that good looking. People are just blowing smoke up your butt because you're so fragile and full of low self esteem. You can let go of your delusions of grandeur and woe-is-me b.s. now.

Sincerely,
me

P.S. Does the ugly truth (ba dum tish!) make you feel better?
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Old 03-05-2011, 01:53 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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Here's the thing, if your life is really so hard because you're beautiful, that's REALLY easy to solve! Just wear something that's a little bigger and baggier than normal, to cover up your body, and wear bangs to cover some of your face, and Voilà! Instantly your looks will no longer get in your way. You'll be able to blend in with all the average-looking people. We're not talking about being ugly here, just "not-beautiful" and average-looking.

If your life is still tough, and you still have trouble relating to other people, then you'll know it's not really your looks that get in the way - and you can set about fixing whatever it is that is the real issue.

I've been beautiful and I've been not-so-beautiful and everything in between - and I can honestly say that my life wasn't easier either way. And I wasn't happier or more successful or more fulfilled. I love the way I look - but it really has no bearing on how satisfying my life is.
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