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Old 01-12-2012, 01:02 AM
 
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Last night, my bf gave me a babydoll dress, and want me to wear it. (blash to wear it in front of others actually) He just bought it for me intentionally. I asked him why. He said i am not sexy enough and I need some decorations for sex and life. He has no interest in a tomboy. So he bought it for me from internet. What he did is ridiculous for me. I am so depressed. What do u think about it? Is it sexy? Should i wear it? Anyway, I don't think a sexy lingerie could change anything. How should i solve this problem?

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Old 01-12-2012, 01:30 AM
 
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If YOU have doubts, don't wear it. Simple. If he doesn't appreciate you, dump him.
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Old 01-12-2012, 02:44 AM
 
Location: middleboro, ma
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He said i am not sexy enough
and you're still with him after he said that to you?
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Old 01-12-2012, 02:56 AM
 
Location: Atlanta, GA
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and you're still with him after he said that to you?
If he is asking her to wear that outfit then Im sure he thinks she has a sexy body but is referring to her clothes. You can have a sexy body and not look sexy because of the clothes.
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Old 01-12-2012, 03:43 AM
 
Location: Gone
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I would say "**** to this dress if it is sexy" and leave him.
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Old 01-12-2012, 04:27 AM
 
Location: Yellow cottage, green doors.
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Wear only what you want to wear!
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Old 01-12-2012, 05:13 AM
 
Location: Oxford, England
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You should wear what YOU want and are comfortable in. I can guarantee you there will be nothing sexy about you if you cringe whilst wearing it !

Quite frankly your boyfriend sounds like a total jerk. Buying some lingerie is fine but telling you he bought it because you are not sexy enough is incredibly churlish and rude. I would personally have told him to wear the bloody thing himself and stormed out of the room .

If he is not happy with the way you are then it is his loss. I think most women want to feel sexy and attractive and this is certainly not the way to go about it. You should ask yourself whether the guy is worth even bothering about quite frankly.

Being sexy is not about wearing tarty lingerie it is about how you feel inside. How you deport yourself, how you feel about yourself. All the babydolls in the word are not going to make you sexy if you don't feel sexy. It might make you look more like a porn star and thus more arousing to certain men but sexy to me is a completely different thing.

Being told you need some accoutrements to raise his interests is quite frankly grossly offensive and deeply insensitive of him. At best he could have gone about it a much better way.

I would dump the jerk and tell him to start humping the babydoll if it matters to him that much. His attitude does not bode well for your future relationsuip IMO. Nice guys don't behave like that. Period.

I must admit I find that Babydoll ridiculous . The name of the garment says it all in my opinion. Women are not Dolls.
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Old 01-12-2012, 06:06 AM
 
Location: US
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Didnt see the dress.

Man goes to communicate needs = tantrum.

Blergh...its just a dang dress. Put it on and make a joke about how his thing isnt long enough.

Jeesh...
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Old 01-12-2012, 07:17 AM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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Babydoll?

What's wrong with these dudes?

Idiots!

This is wrong on so many levels. I mean who does this kinda stuff. He should have tried pasties
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Old 01-12-2012, 07:58 AM
 
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Last night, my bf gave me a babydoll dress, and want me to wear it. (blash to wear it in front of others actually) He just bought it for me intentionally. I asked him why. He said i am not sexy enough and I need some decorations for sex and life. He has no interest in a tomboy. So he bought it for me from internet. What he did is ridiculous for me. I am so depressed. What do u think about it? Is it sexy? Should i wear it? Anyway, I don't think a sexy lingerie could change anything. How should i solve this problem?
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I like my husband wear pink tie, it will be make him fresh and cool. Usually i stick with a solid color shirt and subtly patterned tie like a paisley, madder, or neat all-over for him.

Do your boyfriend and husband know about each other?
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