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Old 06-12-2012, 10:12 AM
 
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So, if someone stares too much, they're a rapist. Okay...

Does that mean if the person shows too much skin, she's a prostitute?

"like"

When you stare that means you are looking creepy "like a wanna be rapist" and thinking about things you shouldn't be about a total stranger.

Maybe, maybe not. So you can leer like they are a prostitute and deal with finding out. Don't cry like an infant because someone told you that you were being inappropriate. You act like a creep get expected to be treated like one. Just like you expect women to put up with your eye prostitution treatments. Fair and square.
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Old 06-12-2012, 10:28 AM
 
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I think a general rule should be.....If you dont want attention/gawkers/being eye raped/etc.. Then dont dont dress in a manner that will bring that on. That's like a man going out and buying a bright yellow lamborghini then complain about why everyone is staring at him.
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Old 06-12-2012, 10:34 AM
 
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So maybe it applies to both - you dress like a tart, you'll get stared at like a tart. You stare too much, people will you think you're a weirdo.


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When you stare that means you are looking creepy "like a wanna be rapist" and thinking about things you shouldn't be about a total stranger.

Maybe, maybe not. So you can leer like they are a prostitute and deal with finding out. Don't cry like an infant because someone told you that you were being inappropriate. You act like a creep get expected to be treated like one. Just like you expect women to put up with your eye prostitution treatments. Fair and square.
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Old 06-12-2012, 10:36 AM
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If I see a woman wearing a very low cut top with a lot of cleavage showing I usually compliment them by saying nice boobs.
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Old 06-12-2012, 10:47 AM
 
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If I see a woman wearing a very low cut top with a lot of cleavage showing I usually compliment them by saying nice boobs.
How do they respond?
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Old 06-12-2012, 10:49 AM
 
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I agree with this. Am I supposed to start dressing conservatively for fear of others leering at me with lustful looks? I'm comfortable with my style and if someone wants to stare at me, so be it. But I don't feel like I should have to change who I am just because some jerks out there don't know how to control their mannerisms.
At least you acknowledge this and are willing to deal with it. Some women here feel that they can dress however they want and expect men NOT to take notice or even get offended when they do!
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Old 06-12-2012, 10:53 AM
 
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By looking down and saying, "Are you neutered?"

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How do they respond?
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Old 06-12-2012, 11:01 AM
 
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So, if someone stares too much, they're a rapist. Okay...

Does that mean if the person shows too much skin, she's a prostitute?
Thank you!

Did you get that, Opsimathia?
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Old 06-12-2012, 11:06 AM
 
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At least you acknowledge this and are willing to deal with it. Some women here feel that they can dress however they want and expect men NOT to take notice or even get offended when they do!
Exactly.

I like dressing a certain way and I acknowledge that the little bit of skin I show might elicit a certain response, so I'm aware that it's something I have to deal with.
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Old 06-12-2012, 02:07 PM
 
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So maybe it applies to both - you dress like a tart, you'll get stared at like a tart. You stare too much, people will you think you're a weirdo.

Yepssssss
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