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Old 06-21-2012, 12:34 PM
 
Location: Virginia
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Is it hard not to stare?
It can be, especially when she is beautiful from head to toe. But I try my best to be discreet
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Old 06-21-2012, 12:35 PM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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I love a woman dressed sexy but I try not to stare.
Just thought of something- IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH WEARING SEXY CLOTHING. When woman is strikingly attractive she could be wearing a business suit- or a body length sack for that matter- You are going to notice her no matter what- and you are going to give her an unassuming stare..

A woman could be dressed in almost nothing and if she is not beautiful all she is going to get is a glace if that. It's not the clothes..it's the woman. As Mick Jagger once said..."It's the singer not the song".
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Old 06-21-2012, 01:18 PM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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if you go out in the street with hair colored like skunk -- people will stare. if you dress very sexy -- people will stare. if those are your clothing choices, fine. but don't get mad when they stick out like sore thumb. obvious.
Your pretty close on this one Doll Eyes..very accurate point- You might dress up thinking it is sexy and actually look like a funny little clown in mesh stockings..People might not be staring because they can not resist- but maybe because they can not resist having a chuckle?

Could be that some woman think that any attention from a man is sexual..not always the case- One woman said to me...after knowing her for a while- "You came on to me"----real dumb- I was just being kind and civil- she could not tell the difference.
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Old 06-21-2012, 01:30 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Never stare or shall I say let them catch you staring. When a woman passes take a good look at that pretty face---once she has passed- turn and look at that wonderful set of legs and butt...That way you can pretend you are some cool European dude in a movie.
LOL! There's no need to stare. Use your peripheral vision. Or wear sunglasses so you can stare without anyone seeing you stare. Sunglasses are the perfect subterfuge, unless it's a cloudy day.
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Old 06-21-2012, 02:52 PM
 
Location: Up North
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I usually take it as a compliment when I catch someone checking me out.

The only way I could see someone getting offended is if they are leering at you.
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Old 06-21-2012, 02:57 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Your pretty close on this one Doll Eyes..very accurate point- You might dress up thinking it is sexy and actually look like a funny little clown in mesh stockings..People might not be staring because they can not resist- but maybe because they can not resist having a chuckle?

Could be that some woman think that any attention from a man is sexual..not always the case- One woman said to me...after knowing her for a while- "You came on to me"----real dumb- I was just being kind and civil- she could not tell the difference.

Well I don't like it when men stare at my large breasts, uninhibited, it's annoying. I don't wear revealing tops and wear a bra 'minimizer' but they still stick out past what most other normal girls have, especially in tee shirts *shrugs*


I agree just b/c people are staring maybe they are LOL @ me or at these provocatively dressed women. Well, I thought most attention from male is sexual unless he's laughing about the woman. Again, if you wear those kinds of clothes, people will stare more so then usual.
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Old 06-21-2012, 03:10 PM
 
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She's clearly an exhibitionist but doesn't like when men stare?

Something's not right there.

I hate when people react like that. It's obvious they're wearing certain things for attention, but when the get the attention, they shun it.
They "pretend" to shun it amanda808....if they didn't get the attention....they'd be CRYING
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Old 06-21-2012, 07:18 PM
 
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I think there's truth in that when the look is intentional. For example, wearing a mini skirt that nearly reveals the gallbladder.

Not where it involves things that aren't intentional. For example, women born with very large breasts (i.e. that were not arrived at through silicone - and that's fairly easy to determine, since silicone breasts - even the great ones - don't look natural).

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They "pretend" to shun it amanda808....if they didn't get the attention....they'd be CRYING

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Old 06-21-2012, 07:42 PM
 
Location: Lower east side of Toronto
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LOL! There's no need to stare. Use your peripheral vision. Or wear sunglasses so you can stare without anyone seeing you stare. Sunglasses are the perfect subterfuge, unless it's a cloudy day.
Any time I see a fellow male give a bold and relentless stare at a passing woman..all I can think of- is what a jerk..These men don't know it but they look like boors who will never be successful with woman. Woman must sense that also....Never liked that part of low end Italian culture...The way they look over a woman like spiced meat at the butcher shop...

I never wear sunglasses - but when I have, I have a real good look..Some times I wonder if woman wearing shades are secretly eyeing the males? The complaint of this thread originator might not be about men staring..but about men that see only a walking vagina and breasts. I can not say that I am not guilty of that. There are days when I think that one of the things God got totally right was the female form...The curves and the moves by natural design are wonderful....It still amazes me how many different body types exist ...just about all of them are nice....

Sometimes you will see a very sleek neck and you think- that would be nice to kiss...or you see a substantial butt...and think - that reminds me of fine leather seats in a Cadillac...Or breasts and you thing- Jeeezzz those look very comforting....or a face with eyes that make me think- I could look into those for an eternity. What can I say...Woman are the primary reason to keep on living. It's natural....A fine and good woman is worth more than her weight in gold.
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Old 06-22-2012, 11:55 AM
 
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Any time I see a fellow male give a bold and relentless stare at a passing woman..all I can think of- is what a jerk..These men don't know it but they look like boors who will never be successful with woman. Woman must sense that also....Never liked that part of low end Italian culture...The way they look over a woman like spiced meat at the butcher shop...

I never wear sunglasses - but when I have, I have a real good look..Some times I wonder if woman wearing shades are secretly eyeing the males? The complaint of this thread originator might not be about men staring..but about men that see only a walking vagina and breasts. I can not say that I am not guilty of that. There are days when I think that one of the things God got totally right was the female form...The curves and the moves by natural design are wonderful....It still amazes me how many different body types exist ...just about all of them are nice....

Sometimes you will see a very sleek neck and you think- that would be nice to kiss...or you see a substantial butt...and think - that reminds me of fine leather seats in a Cadillac...Or breasts and you thing- Jeeezzz those look very comforting....or a face with eyes that make me think- I could look into those for an eternity. What can I say...Woman are the primary reason to keep on living. It's natural....A fine and good woman is worth more than her weight in gold.
What I never understood are the men who use cat calls. The "psssssst" or "ayo". I have never once in my life seen this work for any man yet they continue to do it. Why? Not to mention, if a women ever did indeed respond to that, it says alot about her. Not in a good way either!
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