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Old 06-29-2012, 01:23 PM
 
Location: Western Europe
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If you don't want to date then don't date. Being single is not the end of the world. I had a breast augmentation when i was 25 and i'm very happy with it. I'm thinking about doing a blepharoplasty and all my friends think i'm nuts. You're a grown woman, do what you want. You're good looking but i don't understand why you're showing off your boobs on all your pictures. You don't need to do that. I suspect you attract the wrong type of guys

 
Old 06-29-2012, 01:34 PM
 
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Dang...busted!

But hey, in my defense, you boys are imagining soft, squishy boobies so I just had to get my visual!
yeah, but that's a given. woof
 
Old 06-29-2012, 01:40 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn, New York
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You're insecure and I agree with Doll Eyes.
 
Old 06-29-2012, 01:46 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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You guys missed the point of the thread. She didn't come here asking whether our not she should get plastic surgery. She wants to know how to change her attitude brought about by planning her plastic surgery.

Why is this so hard to get? (For everyone, not just you.)
Are you really reading into what most of us are saying in regards to why she doesn't need it? Yes, you're right, she didn't ask but our comments (or most of our comments) have to do with what's mentally going on. All of this seems to have consumed her and that is probably what has made her lose interest. She can't change her attitude that was brought on from the planning because it has taken over her. She can add 2 more thumbs to each hand or get spikes implanted in her forehead, I really don't care. It's the OBSESSION that is consuming her. All the effort, emotion, money, time, etc, that she's putting into procedures seems to have disconnected her from every day things. We know she's not going to change her mind but we're just putting out there that she doesn't need these things and to redirect her focus. I guess for lack of a better phrase, some of us are trying to tell her to "SNAP OUT OF IT". I would hate for her to either not be happy with the results or get trapped even more in the obsession to the point where she loses touch with all reality and stops socializing to the point where all her relationships (family, friends) become affected.
 
Old 06-29-2012, 01:46 PM
 
Location: Living on the Coast in Oxnard CA
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That IS her. See her other pictures. We all agree that she doesn't need it.
You do understand I was joking right?
 
Old 06-29-2012, 01:48 PM
 
Location: Long Island, NY
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You do understand I was joking right?

This is why a "sarcasm" font needs to be created
 
Old 06-29-2012, 01:50 PM
 
Location: Living on the Coast in Oxnard CA
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This is why a "sarcasm" font needs to be created
So very true. LOL
 
Old 06-29-2012, 01:54 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Are you really reading into what most of us are saying in regards to why she doesn't need it? Yes, you're right, she didn't ask but our comments (or most of our comments) have to do with what's mentally going on. All of this seems to have consumed her and that is probably what has made her lose interest. She can't change her attitude that was brought on from the planning because it has taken over her. She can add 2 more thumbs to each hand or get spikes implanted in her forehead, I really don't care. It's the OBSESSION that is consuming her. All the effort, emotion, money, time, etc, that she's putting into procedures seems to have disconnected her from every day things. We know she's not going to change her mind but we're just putting out there that she doesn't need these things and to redirect her focus. I guess for lack of a better phrase, some of us are trying to tell her to "SNAP OUT OF IT". I would hate for her to either not be happy with the results or get trapped even more in the obsession to the point where she loses touch with all reality and stops socializing to the point where all her relationships (family, friends) become affected.
This is why I posted earlier that it seems like the whole project has taken on an obsessive-compulsive quality. She's probably not OC in other areas of life, it's just this one thing that has really captured her attention, and is generating endorphins, the feel-good hormones that keep her hooked and coming back for more. Previous pleasurable activities have been pushed aside in favor of this current positive feedback loop she's created.

OP, how about trying an experiment, and setting aside all the magazines and info materials, putting it all away for a week or two, to see how you feel about getting back into your old groove with guys? See if you can do it, and if it gives you the same pleasure as before?
 
Old 06-29-2012, 01:56 PM
 
Location: Living on the Coast in Oxnard CA
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Here is my oppinion.

You can take an old car and make it look like a Porsche or Ferrari. still what you have is just an old car.

You can take a Porsche or Ferrari and change it to look like another car and in my oppinion that destoys the integrity of the car and places a lower value on it as well.

XXbabeechick allready has the body of a Porsche or Ferrari and it would be a disservice to the world to change that look.
 
Old 06-29-2012, 01:58 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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XXbabeechick allready has the body of a Porsche or Ferrari and it would be a disservice to the world to change that look.
Think about all the women who would love to look like xxbabeechick! Even to be half that good-looking! Don't mess with success, XX!
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