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09-03-2012, 08:51 AM
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Location: In a house
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The reason people don't like you Nyanna, is that you are not likeable. If you were a white woman, people still wouldn't like you. If you were a gorgeous, thin, blue-eyed, blonde bombshell, people still wouldn't like you. Some day, when you grow up, you might learn how to become likeable, and then people will like you.
There. I said it.
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09-03-2012, 09:23 AM
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Location: Midwest
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Originally Posted by AnonChick
The reason people don't like you Nyanna, is that you are not likeable. If you were a white woman, people still wouldn't like you. If you were a gorgeous, thin, blue-eyed, blonde bombshell, people still wouldn't like you. Some day, when you grow up, you might learn how to become likeable, and then people will like you.
There. I said it.
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It has nothing to do with being likeable. Why are you blaming me for others oppressing me because of my skin tone?? I've been TOLD that my skin tone is inferior. What does that have to do with my personality or being likeable??
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09-03-2012, 09:24 AM
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Location: Chapel Hill, N.C.
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you need to change people you hang with!
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09-03-2012, 09:27 AM
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Location: Midwest
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Originally Posted by no kudzu
you need to change people you hang with!
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That is not the problem, though. What do I do about co-workers who make negative remarks about darkskin? Or the black guys I walk past in the grocery isle discussing redbones??
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09-03-2012, 09:33 AM
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Location: Up North
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OH MY GOODNESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Didn't anyone tell you not to believe everything you hear? Also who gives a **** if guys are admiring "redbones". You will hear guys admiring all types its just a coincidence.
Develop some self-esteem
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09-03-2012, 09:39 AM
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Location: Midwest
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Originally Posted by Pear Martini
OH MY GOODNESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Didn't anyone tell you not to believe everything you hear? Also who gives a **** if guys are admiring "redbones". You will hear guys admiring all types its just a coincidence.
Develop some self-esteem
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It's not a coincidence.
my skin tone is almost never preferred. even worse, I am considered less worthy of respect because I am dark. a lot of black guys think its okay to disrespect me. i've been treated like crap because i am not mixed
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09-03-2012, 09:46 AM
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Location: NoVa
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Originally Posted by nyanna
That is not the problem, though. What do I do about co-workers who make negative remarks about darkskin? Or the black guys I walk past in the grocery isle discussing redbones??
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The black guys you walk past in the grocery isle or anywhere else are free to discuss whatever they want! You think they see you coming and say, "OMG! here comes Nyanna! Stop talking about the cost of gas and start talking about redbones!"
You need to get a grip.If they are attracted to redbones and they just say one they have every right under the sun to talk about it.
Are your co workers outright discriminating against black people?
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09-03-2012, 10:09 AM
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Location: where people are either too stupid to leave or too stuck to move
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this is quite obsessive Nyanna, i want you to seek help..
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09-03-2012, 11:02 AM
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Location: Boston
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Originally Posted by nyanna
It's not a coincidence.
my skin tone is almost never preferred. even worse, I am considered less worthy of respect because I am dark. a lot of black guys think its okay to disrespect me. i've been treated like crap because i am not mixed
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It's called working on your self-esteem and confidence and telling the world to go eff themselves. I'm dark-skinned, do you think I care about what some random person in the grocery store thinks of me? Hell no. You think I care about what my co-workers think of me and my hair? Hell no, but HR sure will. Do you think I care if some sales associate ignores me in the store? Hell no because I know to march right up to the manager and light a fire under his/her ass for having a discriminatory worker. Let an SA try to follow me around the store and see if I don't curse them out. I don't care.
All I'm hearing is you lying down on your belly and crying about wanting to look mixed or light skinned because you think you're going to be treated better, well guess what -- you're still going to hear ***** from other people! There are hateful people in this world who will never think the other person is good enough, and they must love someone like you who already hates herself. They can feed off your negative energy to the point to where you're a dried out husk of insecurities.
You need to ask yourself: How can I love myself first? Because when you love yourself no one can tear you down. No one.
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