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I've found that the 'classier' the person is, the more they want to put down others that look different than they do.
I agree with this statement to a point.
Just becouse someone is "classy", doens't mean they are not opinionated.
But, also, I have met some women that were 'classy', and yet they treated the people closest to them terribly. But, they were also smart enough to be nice to friends.
At this point in my life, I don't know if I completely justify defining someone as classy vs. trashy. I think everyone has some of both in them. But, I think the 'classier' people tend to show thier 'trashier' side to a less select few people.
There are women who wear very short tight skirts and dresses and they don't look trashy. I think it depends on how she carries herself and what she wears with the short tight skirt with heels.
Classy is a subjective term. In order to have a substantial discussion, one would have to define it first. Do you mean classy as in 1940s elegance? Morally upright? Not sexually overt?
It's part of today's fashion to show a good amount of skin. So if you want to look on trend, the likelihood is you will. Some shirts I wear (partially due to my body type) get a great deal of attention and disapproval from my parents, older generation of my ethnic background or people generally if I were to visit my native country when I thought that that's quite common, at least here in Southern California and I would have to work pretty hard to find something with a higher neckline if I were to go shopping in normal stores.
I'm in my twenties so not much shock me but there are some times like an intern who wear a backless short dress to WORK in an office environment where there's no contact with clients (when I would consider that more club wear if they really were looking for attention) makes me do a double take but considering her age (18-20ish) , it's understandable.
Well the wedding i attended recently there was lots of skin but one poor darling with shoes like stilts showed more than anyone when she fell in a heap on the ground, the heels of the stupid shoes she couldn't walk in got stuck in the crazy paving.
I've seen so many trashy/skanky women all over the place lately. I was in my friend's wedding this past weekend and her cousin showed up looking like a stripper. A skin tight dress so short it barely covered the bottom of her butt. She was walking around all night trying to keep it pulled down. Add to this ensemble six inch heels and dyed blonde hair and about 5 pounds of makeup. Gross. Guys, do you really find this attractive? I understand being sexy...show some cleavage, sure fine, but do half of her boobs really need to be hanging out of a woman's dress or shirt? I think subtle cleavage would be way more sexy than giving it all away like that. Being classy has nothing to do with money or even how attractive you are, but no one seems to know the meaning anymore. Dressing for your body type and dressing in a way that's appropriate for the occasion seems to be a lost art.
Where are the classy women?
Apparently the "classy women" are on C-D insulting other people's outfits.
Apparently the "classy women" are on C-D insulting other people's outfits.
Exactly.
I've never understood women who are so preoccupied with the way other women dress. Mind your own business. I am not staring at other women judging the way the dress and why. I could care less. Worry about yourself.
I've never understood women who are so preoccupied with the way other women dress. Mind your own business. I am not staring at other women judging the way the dress and why. I could care less. Worry about yourself.
Isn't the whole point of dressing in revealing attire to get other people to look? Doesn't showing more skin than the next, erm, lady warrant "judgement"?
...or is it only positive judgement one has the right to give you?
Isn't the whole point of dressing in revealing attire to get other people to look?
Maybe it is, maybe it isn't. I'm not a mind reader. People do things for different reasons. I don't give a hoot, is my point and I don't understand why others care so mmuch.
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