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Old 09-05-2012, 06:51 AM
 
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I disagree with you on that, because I'm CONSTANTLY judged due to my tattoos and body type regardless of how 'classy' I look and act.

I've had people treat me like trash based on how I look and it's not pleasant.
Sooo, you're saying those people who are judging you must surely be classy people?


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I didn't say that, I don't think one has to do with the other. I don't walk around acting like a loose tramp and neither do some other women.
You didn't say it, I did. And since when are there only two options, classy or ****? Most women are neither.
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Old 09-05-2012, 12:06 PM
 
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Well, guess what? My niece is a professional women, who owns her own business. She is single, 57 years' old, and in good shape. Recently, he taste in dressing has changed for the worst. We had a family holiday in my house, and she came in showing her double d's, so much in front of my grandsons, nephews, and uncles that I felt embarrased.

The first thing her sister said when they came through the door was, "We got lost and stop to asked some men directions, and they almost came into the car when they saw her boobs. I do not think that she is going through a crisis, not very much bothers her, and when it does, she lets it all out.

After they left, I emailed her and ask for her not to dress like that in my home during family holidays, but, in a nice way, and now she has stopped talking to me. I felt that being around my young, male grandsons ages 23 to 27 dressed like that, was not a good idea, because they will be looking at her more as a sex object than as an aunt, and sexualizing in their thoughts.........,

We come from a family with lots of double d's, and noone dresses inappropriately but, she has the right to dress anyway she wants as long as it is not in my house, at a family dinner.......
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Old 09-05-2012, 12:19 PM
 
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You think your 20-something-year-old grandkids will look at their 60-year-old aunt as a sex object? Gross.
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Old 09-05-2012, 12:26 PM
 
Location: New Jersey
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Sooo, you're saying those people who are judging you must surely be classy people?




You didn't say it, I did. And since when are there only two options, classy or ****? Most women are neither.

there's two options far as I'm concerned, most women are either one or the other based on their behavior, appearance, etc. You're either classy or trashy.
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Old 09-05-2012, 12:55 PM
 
Location: Up North
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I'm glad I don't hang out with people who have conversations like this in real life. Who cares! Let them dress however they want.
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Old 09-05-2012, 01:03 PM
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Alot of times when going out partying at night, the classy women actually dress skanky while the normally skanky women dress classy....something i've noticed.
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Old 09-05-2012, 01:39 PM
 
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You think your 20-something-year-old grandkids will look at their 60-year-old aunt as a sex object? Gross.
First of all, she is 57, and in excellent shape, beautiful face, with no wrinkles, beautiful hair and legs, and very bright, and yes, when it comes to sex, most men can be very indulging..... if the woman keeps herself nice even the 23 and 27 years' old ones.'.... Remember Rachel Welsh? Lots of young men had a crush on her at 50 -something, as well as Gina Lolobrigida, Sophia Loren, Tina Turner, etc. It all has to do with how well she keeps herself. You are basing everything on age, I am basing it on looks......
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Old 09-05-2012, 01:55 PM
 
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Kay. Still pretty sure that classy women don't judge people by their appearance.
very naive statement, all women judge over women in fact all people judge appearance for the most part
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Old 09-05-2012, 02:13 PM
 
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First of all, she is 57, and in excellent shape, beautiful face, with no wrinkles, beautiful hair and legs, and very bright, and yes, when it comes to sex, most men can be very indulging..... if the woman keeps herself nice even the 23 and 27 years' old ones.'.... Remember Rachel Welsh? Lots of young men had a crush on her at 50 -something, as well as Gina Lolobrigida, Sophia Loren, Tina Turner, etc. It all has to do with how well she keeps herself. You are basing everything on age, I am basing it on looks......
It's not her age, it's that you think her nephews would perv on her. I highly doubt Raquel Welch's nephews think of her in sexual ways.
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Old 09-05-2012, 03:19 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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I'm glad I don't hang out with people who have conversations like this in real life. Who cares! Let them dress however they want.
No one said they can't dress however they want. Personally, I think it's in poor taste to show up to a wedding with all your junk hanging out. This is an online forum...ya know...where people have conversations and discuss various topics?
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