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Old 12-26-2012, 02:23 PM
 
Location: Brooklyn, NY
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Hiding a receding hairline maybe lol.
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Old 12-26-2012, 02:25 PM
 
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Just an update, I finally saw him without a hat today. He took it off for me. People here who said that he was balding and has a receding hairline were right. Now, I don't know how to tell him that I don't find him attractive without his hat on. People here may say I'm shallow but I don't think I can be intimate with someone I'm not attracted to. I'm thinking of stop seeing him to not waste his time but I don't know how to tell him. He seemed to be so into me and has been treating me so well. I don't know how to say it in a way that he won't get hurt.
Hey it's reality -- but it's your shallow reality. Now go and learn how not to condition your mind with such shallow trivialities and one day you may actually land the person you think you deserve. It is amazing how powerful a receding hairline can be - all of the great things you said of him were crushed by it and tossed aside. How is it that such great character qualities are superceded by a simple physical trait?

I am sure, one day, you will find the perfect person for YOU! But hey at least your faults are hidden only to be discovered in time and circumstance when the allegorical hat is lifted off of your allegorical head.

Good Luck!
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Old 12-26-2012, 04:19 PM
 
Location: Northern CA
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Just an update, I finally saw him without a hat today. He took it off for me. People here who said that he was balding and has a receding hairline were right. Now, I don't know how to tell him that I don't find him attractive without his hat on. People here may say I'm shallow but I don't think I can be intimate with someone I'm not attracted to. I'm thinking of stop seeing him to not waste his time but I don't know how to tell him. He seemed to be so into me and has been treating me so well. I don't know how to say it in a way that he won't get hurt.
Tell him "I should have told you this sooner, but I'm just not feeling a connection. I don't see a future together, so I think it's best we part ways now". "I'm sorry, cause you seem like a really nice guy, but I'm not the one for you". And leave.
The longer you wait, the harder it will get, and that's not fair to him.
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Old 12-26-2012, 04:26 PM
 
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You're getting a lot of backlash for being "shallow", etc. I would ignore them. It doesn't make sense for you to date someone you aren't attracted to. And there's no reason why you should have to pass a hereditary disorder down to your children if you don't want to. Best of luck to you.
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Old 12-26-2012, 04:29 PM
 
Location: Northern CA
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That's real shallow. You didn't even know he was losing hair...now its time to kick him to the curb. I'll be glad if I never meet you in real life. Just because he is losing hair doesn't mean he turned hideous. My god, give the guy a break. He obviously likes you and was embarrased.
Agree, the guy needs to be more selective in the future, & start looking for someone more mature.
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