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Old 07-15-2015, 11:28 AM
 
Location: Encino, CA
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Well, I have long legs becasue I am tall (5'7") and I have very shaply ass due to working out, and I am naturally pretty thin, 123lb. But my chest size is 34B. I have never gotten any complains from men in the past but I always DO wonder though, "WIll they find me to be more attractive if I have bigger breasts?" B honestly look small on my frame because I am tall.

Women with smaller or medium size breasts, do you want to get bigger ones?

All men like big boobs, is it a myth or is it true?
Dont do anything!! The fact that you are tall, fit, with "shaply a$$" makes you soooo much more desirable, sexy and attractive than a big boobed woman who is overweight.

Real small ones will always be better than fake big ones.
Real small ones on a fit body will always be better than real big ones on an overweight body.

Men like perky boobs. Be they big or be they small. I've seen some yucky looking big saggy boobs in my life and no thank you!!
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Old 07-15-2015, 12:24 PM
 
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I don't think I replied to this thread yet.

I've had big and small. It's hard to picture me with my small frame having huge breasts, but I did while I was in my childbearing years. Now that I've lost all the weight they're smaller and more proportioned to my body. For me, I prefer them a little smaller (but wouldn't want to be flat). When they were big, my back hurt all the time; and working out was hard for me. I'm glad they shrunk. I'm okay with it. No more back pain!

Hear you, same deal I nursed all four of our babies in my younger years, my breasts were huge, I didn't much care for it...I'm happy that I'm smaller went back to myself.....
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Old 07-15-2015, 12:26 PM
 
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I've seen some yucky looking big saggy boobs in my life and no thank you!!

Same with man moobs and saggy balls....Just saying....


Life happens to us all in time...
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Old 07-15-2015, 01:52 PM
 
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This brings up an excellent point - women with large breasts will usually be somewhat saggy. They are, after all, just bags of fat, and if they are heavy are going to hang down. Someone with D or larger cups will tend point down, this is totally natural. It is mainly from the over-inflated pornstars with their hard immovable breasts that give people the idea we should all be "perky."
Yes, I love big saggy naturals, no matter what anyone else says. I know some of my exes have been self-conscious about them, but I really enjoyed them. To all of the ladies out there with large naturals who may feel self-conscious about them, please don't - They are beautiful assets!
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Old 07-15-2015, 02:10 PM
 
Location: New Yawk
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I don't think I replied to this thread yet.

I've had big and small. It's hard to picture me with my small frame having huge breasts, but I did while I was in my childbearing years. Now that I've lost all the weight they're smaller and more proportioned to my body. For me, I prefer them a little smaller (but wouldn't want to be flat). When they were big, my back hurt all the time; and working out was hard for me. I'm glad they shrunk. I'm okay with it. No more back pain!
OMG, I was breastfeeding pretty much non-stop from 2005 to 2013, and I had the physique of a gorilla because I had this short little body but massive knockers and "mom arms".
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Old 07-15-2015, 02:11 PM
 
Location: New Yawk
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Same with man moobs and saggy balls....Just saying....


Life happens to us all in time...
Damn you, gravity!
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Old 07-15-2015, 02:28 PM
 
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Damn you, gravity!

...Sadly I've seen men with fuller racks then I on the beach....


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Old 07-15-2015, 02:45 PM
 
Location: Birmingham
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Men like perky boobs. Be they big or be they small. I've seen some yucky looking big saggy boobs in my life and no thank you!!
Realistic men who live in reality who like big real boobs understand that they sag. That's just physics. To expect a large boobed woman's breasts to be perky like a set of implants or B cups is just a preference, which I think is based on social conditioning, but isn't shared by everyone.
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Old 07-16-2015, 12:09 AM
 
Location: Guangzhou, China
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First off, you will never have bigger breasts no matter how much you stuff under your skin. Your breasts will not get bigger, they will still be the same size and sitting next to whatever you had shoved in there. Implants are not breasts. They create an illusion of a breast but have nothing at all to do with any organic or biological component to your body. Men are extremely easy to fool because they exist in a fantasy world half the time (and that's why they get so angry when reality doesn't match up).

So next question is, aside from what men think, what do you think? Do you want to go under the knife? Are you OK with surgery (that could kill you)? Are you OK with possible complications (besides death, infection or a crap anesthesiologist or a blood clot etc.)?

Do you want to have to replace the bags of saline every 10-15 years?

Now on to your questions.

I don't have massive breasts and I have never wanted them. Partly because larger breasts are not what I'm supposed to have and I actually appreciate and like myself because I'm the only me out there and if people don't like it they can go F themselves. *smiles sweetly*

Also because I'm not having any elective surgeries especially after the horror stories my mother the nurse who assisted in operating rooms told me. But that's just a general thing and not specific to breast implants.

Ew, breast implants. A foreign object embedded under your skin and muscle. Why can't men just fill baggies with water and squeeze to their hearts content? It's the same freaking thing as an implant.

Any man who likes big breasts likes fat. Yellow, gloppy, jiggly fat. They seem to like the "jiggle" thing but don't like to realize that it's FAT which makes it do that.

(As an aside, men do know they have mammary glands and can produce milk, right? Right? Google it!)

So I mean if you feel that your self esteem really hinges on what some person with a peen thinks and you're willing to risk death to please whoever that is...meh it's your body. You can mar it any way you want. Just remember that believing you need to is a form of societal brainwashing. There's not actually ANYTHING wrong with you as you are, you know.

And personally I don't buy that whole men like big breasts/fertility thing because breast size has nothing to do with fertility or ability to bear and raise and feed children. It's more that men have a mommy thing where the first thing they instinctually wanted when emerging from the womb is mother's breast which is a source of nourishment and comfort. The act of squeezing a breast is like an infant trying to get more milk. Watch cats, they do the same thing with their paws when they nurse. I think men are all just children and see women as their surrogate mothers (fulfilling their needs.)

Good luck with your breasts.
A couple of my mega-busty exes lactated despite having never had kids. One of them had a for-sure hormone problem that was part of the reason she was stacked in the first place and at certain times of the month, made about as much milk as a woman who'd had a kid. It never really bothered me, because that's what they're there for so its to be expexcted sooner or later. Just had to have a towel handy sometimes :x

I don't know that most men *or* women who have small chests know what a big breast feels like. When I was a teenager, before i'd touched a pair of big boobs, I assumed they were firmer and harder than they were. Because of the number of fake boobs in porn, which are always firm and keep their form, and the construction of bras designed to shape and lift, lots of people have a misconception of what they are (usually) like. I got my ex fiance who was an E some custom-made bras for her birthday that put them way out there, and when we would walk around it'd stop traffic. When she took it off at home, they almost went down to her navel at 21. One of my even-bigger exes usually wears hoodies to obscure them, and they hang so low it makes her look like she's just chubby unless you spend a few moments looking. Ironically, they *are* usually firmer and perkier when they're lactating, though when they are that big, it's a relative statement.

The comment about men being children wanting surrogate mothers was probably intended as a joke but is pretty insulting and fairly gross when you draw a sexual connotation into it. I don't work 12 hours per day and live on the other side of the planet from my family and friends because I want a surrogate mommy to take care of me... I take care of her, you know?
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Old 07-16-2015, 12:17 AM
 
Location: Guangzhou, China
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Realistic men who live in reality who like big real boobs understand that they sag. That's just physics. To expect a large boobed woman's breasts to be perky like a set of implants or B cups is just a preference, which I think is based on social conditioning, but isn't shared by everyone.
It never bothered this red blooded heteronormative american male
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