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Old 02-11-2013, 12:14 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Originally Posted by Tourian View Post
Really? Do you really have to ask this question? There are plenty of guys who like bodies like hers and there are plenty of women who want to look like her and have butts that large or larger. Next time you are in the bookstore take a look at a King magazine, and no it's not one behind the counter wrapped in paper.

The whole resentment thing from some women posters is silly IMO. Especially when very few women want to be extremely flat. When body builders and extreme fitness models lose their boobs they get implants. When women with health issues and large natural breasts get reductions they typically go down to b, c or d cups. They don't tell the doc to take them away completely. Cancer survivors who have had mastectomies get reconstructions. If it is a shallow and as trivial as many people say it is the plastic surgeons wouldn't be as busy plentiful or rich. And once again A cup != extremely flat.
I don't necessarily think it's resentment..I think it's the fact that some of the men on this forum (and in everyday life) can be very very harsh on women who don't meet their physical ideals. Instead of saying 'I prefer larger breasts/butts' they say 'I wouldn't date or even LOOK AT a woman who doesn't look this way'. To be told that you're somehow less of a woman because your body didn't develop a certain way doesn't exactly make women feel warm and fuzzy inside.

Just because a woman is an A cup doesn't make her unattractive or unworthy.

 
Old 02-11-2013, 12:30 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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Originally Posted by Tourian View Post
Really? Do you really have to ask this question? There are plenty of guys who like bodies like hers and there are plenty of women who want to look like her and have butts that large or larger. Next time you are in the bookstore take a look at a King magazine, and no it's not one behind the counter wrapped in paper.

The whole resentment thing from some women posters is silly IMO. Especially when very few women want to be extremely flat. When body builders and extreme fitness models lose their boobs they get implants. When women with health issues and large natural breasts get reductions they typically go down to b, c or d cups. They don't tell the doc to take them away completely. Cancer survivors who have had mastectomies get reconstructions. If it is a shallow and as trivial as many people say it is the plastic surgeons wouldn't be as busy plentiful or rich. And once again A cup != extremely flat.
I think the reason why women are taking offense to this post is because it's not like women can control the size of their chest naturally. We live in a culture that values large breasts, and lots of women feel if they don't have large breasts they aren't as sexy or attractive. It sucks to make someone feel bad about something they can't control, and the reason women get implants is because they feel inferior when they shouldn't.
 
Old 02-11-2013, 12:43 PM
 
Location: Birmingham
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I think the reason why women are taking offense to this post is because it's not like women can control the size of their chest naturally. We live in a culture that values large breasts, and lots of women feel if they don't have large breasts they aren't as sexy or attractive. It sucks to make someone feel bad about something they can't control, and the reason women get implants is because they feel inferior when they shouldn't.
I don't think so. Our society values perky gravity defying average sized boobs like b-d. So much so women who have plastic surgery to achieve it are usually very secretive about it since natural is preferred over fake. If you are much bigger then that people will call you fat, slutty, a bimbo, a ditz,disproportionate or demand that you must have back aches and can't find clothes that fit and claim guys only like you for one thing.

It is no more easy on the other end of the spectrum.
 
Old 02-11-2013, 03:11 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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I don't think so. Our society values perky gravity defying average sized boobs like b-d. So much so women who have plastic surgery to achieve it are usually very secretive about it since natural is preferred over fake. If you are much bigger then that people will call you fat, slutty, a bimbo, a ditz,disproportionate or demand that you must have back aches and can't find clothes that fit and claim guys only like you for one thing.

It is no more easy on the other end of the spectrum.
This is very true.

It was interesting going through school getting my engineering degree with GG size breasts.

It gets very irritating when people assume I'm stupid because I happened to grow more fat on my chest than most women.

I do get back aches and it is hard to find clothing that fits properly, and I the majority of the men I've come across HAVE only liked me for one thing. Sadly, some of those things are very true.
 
Old 02-11-2013, 03:22 PM
 
Location: On the corner of Grey Street
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Originally Posted by Tourian View Post
I don't think so. Our society values perky gravity defying average sized boobs like b-d. So much so women who have plastic surgery to achieve it are usually very secretive about it since natural is preferred over fake. If you are much bigger then that people will call you fat, slutty, a bimbo, a ditz,disproportionate or demand that you must have back aches and can't find clothes that fit and claim guys only like you for one thing.

It is no more easy on the other end of the spectrum.
That's a good point I hadn't thought of. You're totally right.
 
Old 02-11-2013, 04:06 PM
 
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Girls with no boobs can be awesome in bed just as a girl with huge boobs.

Rather a girl with tiny breasts as a guy with a tiny weiner.

Plus, the advantage is, you can see she has no cleavage when you start dating her. We women have to go through several dates to figure out you have nothing in your pants.

Not fair.

Threads like this one makes women get plastic surgery. Then guys make fun when we look fake. What are we supposed to do if nature doesnt give us big breasts? Become lesbians or date the 10% who don't judge us on the size of our breasts?
An accurate and excellent post.
 
Old 02-12-2013, 11:13 AM
 
Location: Mid-Atlantic east coast
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An accurate and excellent post.
Yikes, do you think it's only 10% of men who would date or find attractive a woman whose breasts were an A cup size? I guess I have a more optimistic view that today's young men are more discerning--but maybe I'm out of touch.

And what about young women--do 90% of them insist on a six-pack before dating a guy??

Should a similar desire for the perfect body of the day be held by both sexes?
 
Old 02-12-2013, 11:56 AM
 
Location: Westminster, London
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10 percent? Wow. I guess I'm in the minority then when I look at a woman's face as the most important physical attribute. I guess physique plays some part in determining facial biometry, but breast size? Not so much.

Plenty of rich and influential men prefer fashion models, and those models tend to be smaller breasted on average. Elegance and attitude is more important to them (and to me) I guess.
 
Old 02-12-2013, 12:08 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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Perfect breasts IMO.

NSFW(I hope I don't get in trouble for this. It's artistic, not porn)
Kate Moss is joined by a topless Naomi Campbell for Interview Germany and Russia | Mail Online
 
Old 02-12-2013, 03:30 PM
 
Location: Up in the air
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Perfect breasts IMO.

NSFW(I hope I don't get in trouble for this. It's artistic, not porn)
Kate Moss is joined by a topless Naomi Campbell for Interview Germany and Russia | Mail Online
Yep, and I'd have perfect breasts if I had access to makeup, stylists, the perfect lighting and photoshop.
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