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Old 05-25-2013, 08:45 PM
 
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I'm 17 and of a mixed background. My mum's jewish whilst my dad is japanese/ chinese. Usually people find mixed kids attractive but sadly this isn't the case in my scenario as you can see in my photos. I feel and look really ugly since I'm fat. What should i do?
This is serious for me
http://i42.tinypic.com/30avxop.jpg
http://i44.tinypic.com/5mzrl0.jpg
http://i42.tinypic.com/2vmx3cl.jpg
http://i40.tinypic.com/8wbic6.jpg

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Old 05-25-2013, 09:23 PM
 
Location: Las Flores, Orange County, CA
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You probably need to lose weight.
You definitely need to take better photos.

You'd look 6.9% better if you lost weight.
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Old 05-25-2013, 09:28 PM
 
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If you don't think you are attractive then others will probably not think you are attractive. Is your weight within the guidelines for your height? If not find a good solid healthy eating plan and make it a lifestyle change not some fly by night quick fix weight loss trend.

I cannot see your photos so I can only go by your written words.
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Old 05-25-2013, 09:39 PM
 
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If you don't think you are attractive then others will probably not think you are attractive. Is your weight within the guidelines for your height? If not find a good solid healthy eating plan and make it a lifestyle change not some fly by night quick fix weight loss trend.

I cannot see your photos so I can only go by your written words.
click the links
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Old 05-25-2013, 09:46 PM
 
Location: Las Flores, Orange County, CA
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If you don't think you are attractive then others will probably not think you are attractive.
I wonder how valid this statement is.
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Old 05-25-2013, 09:47 PM
 
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click the links
If I could see actual links I would but I do not have actual links just the url in regular type like the rest of the post.
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Old 05-25-2013, 09:49 PM
 
Location: Las Flores, Orange County, CA
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If I could see actual links I would but I do not have actual links just the url in regular type like the rest of the post.
Which you can copy and past into a browser. (In Chrome, highlight the text and right click and chrome will take you there.)

But yes, for some reason, the links weren't hyperlinks.
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Old 05-25-2013, 09:51 PM
 
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Which you can copy and past into a browser. (In Chrome, highlight the text and right click and chrome will take you there.)

But yes, for some reason, the links weren't hyperlinks.

I know how to do that Charles I just really did not want to do that is all. I'm being lazy right now because I am tired and I've been sick almost two weeks now.
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Old 05-26-2013, 02:16 AM
 
Location: USA
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I'm 17 and of a mixed background. My mum's jewish whilst my dad is japanese/ chinese. Usually people find mixed kids attractive but sadly this isn't the case in my scenario as you can see in my photos. I feel and look really ugly since I'm fat. What should i do?
This is serious for me
http://i42.tinypic.com/30avxop.jpg
http://i44.tinypic.com/5mzrl0.jpg
http://i42.tinypic.com/2vmx3cl.jpg
http://i40.tinypic.com/8wbic6.jpg
Yeah, you would look a lot better if you lost weight. However, forget about losing weight by dieting. You should work out, so that fat turns to muscle. It will look much better than having that "I used to be fat, but now I'm skinny look". You can join a gym and have one of the personal trainers setup a work out program to focus on arms and abs. Good luck!
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Old 05-26-2013, 04:06 AM
 
Location: Prospect, KY
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You are cute...not ugly at all. Lose some weight but know you are not ugly...nice skin, good hair....handsome.
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