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Old 06-28-2013, 11:50 AM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Did you read the thread that I linked to?? I have stated and will reiterate, that I would never consider any other woman besides the one I am trying to improve myself for. That is why I am asking about this surgery.

Thank you.
You are 19, you have loads of time to find someone else who will reciprocate your interest. She is not interested, you can not do anything to make her more interested, it is 100% up to her.

You could change completely or do nothing, and it could have no impact on her feelings about you.

Life is not a Hollywood movie. Why wait around forever for something that won't happen. You can control your own destiny, and right now you are letting some girl who could care less about you hold the keys to your self-worth and happiness.

 
Old 06-28-2013, 11:53 AM
 
Location: Texas
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. You can control your own destiny, and right now you are letting some girl who could care less about you hold the keys to your self-worth and happiness.
If this girl does not accept me she will render me single and alone for life. SHE IS controlling my happiness.
 
Old 06-28-2013, 12:07 PM
 
Location: Texas
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On an autocorrecting iDevice.
I forgot to ask. What is an autocorrecting iDevice? I have never heard of it.. Is it effective?
 
Old 06-28-2013, 12:10 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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If this girl does not accept me she will render me single and alone for life. SHE IS controlling my happiness.
You have the wrong attitude here. There are plenty more fish in the sea. You just need to go to the beach I stead of focusing in the goldfish bowl in your desk.

Eliminate her from your list. 4 years and she refuses to talk to you? She does not deserve your energy or attention.


On an autocorrecting iDevice.
 
Old 06-28-2013, 12:12 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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I forgot to ask. What is an autocorrecting iDevice? I have never heard of it.. Is it effective?
I am on my iPad. Autocorrect is evil.

http://www.damnyouautocorrect.com/


On an autocorrecting iDevice.
 
Old 06-28-2013, 12:23 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Eliminate her from your list. 4 years and she refuses to talk to you? She does not deserve your energy or attention.


On an autocorrecting iDevice.
People are not interchangeable in this way. If you had read any of my previous posts/threads you would understand how this young lady has had an immeasurable impact on my life. I am happy to wait, as long as I have to for her to change her mind.
 
Old 06-28-2013, 12:30 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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People are not interchangeable in this way. If you had read any of my previous posts/threads you would understand how this young lady has had an immeasurable impact on my life. I am happy to wait, as long as I have to for her to change her mind.
You are overestimating the impact she we have in the rest of your life. You have lived 20-25% of your expected life. She has no interest in being a permanent fixture in your life. Expend your energy on someone who does.


On an autocorrecting iDevice.
 
Old 06-28-2013, 12:39 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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Why are you dead set on someone who has zero interest in you? Why abuse yourself that way?
The object of you affection should be someone who will reciprocate that affection.

She is NOT controlling your happiness; you are choosing to be unhappy, pining over something that will not occur.
 
Old 06-28-2013, 01:06 PM
 
Location: Texas
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She is NOT controlling your happiness; you are choosing to be unhappy, pining over something that will not occur.
She is controlling my happiness by rejecting me without even giving me one chance. That is not only narrow-minded but also cruel and unjust.

As a result I will be forced to live the remainder of my life as a bachelor, if something is not done soon. I see reconstructive surgery as a possibility to improve my physical appearance which is obviously most displeasing to her.
 
Old 06-28-2013, 01:21 PM
 
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Fortunately, his mind will alter even more than his face from at 18 until 30ish. Putting one person (and one who wants nothing to do with you, at that) up on a pedestal is the real issue here.

But you can't tell a teenager that they'll feel differently as they mature. I remember being the exact same way.
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