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Old 07-10-2013, 02:35 PM
 
Location: CA
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As a woman AND on behalf of my DH as well as I know his taste well, the Playboy-type body like the lingerie pics on the previous page is ideal; the ones in the first post are too muscular, the one in the pink shorts is way too bulky imo, and the blue bikini one is too chubby. Actually, if I could choose the body I'd like to have, I'd pick an Asian model - perfect, tiny and petite yet with all the curves. My DH differs with me on this as he actually prefers the more typical, taller porn-model type.

I'd love to look like this:
http://i00.i.aliimg.com/photo/v0/100...it_Knitted.jpg
http://blog.h-models.com/wp-content/...ingerie-07.jpg
https://encrypted-tbn1.gstatic.com/i...ikc7lbBwteV77A
Those women likely have padding in their bras/bikini tops (the Asian woman may even have implants).

It's unusual to be that slim with a bit of muscle tone AND be outright busty. I'm very similar in size/shape to those women & only have a bust like that with a padded and/or push-up bra/bikini (easy to achieve that look, but it's not natural). I'm far from flat-chested, but most men idealize much larger breasts, even if they like a slender body (which rarely go together in the kind of proportion in those photos).

The porn look being ideal just goes to show that ideals have very little to do with any natural female form. Ideals for women used to require corsets & bustles & padding sewn into tops, and now it's surgery.

These photos of women in flattering lighting with photoshop and/or their bottom not showing also hide a reality many dislike - cellulite. Sure, the soft, curvy woman in the blue bikini looks good from the front & waist up, but her soft body likely includes a lot of cellulite on her thighs, hips, butt & even calves. I'm sure some men don't mind that in a low lit bedroom, but in the harsh light of day, it's not aesthetically appealing to most people.

I won't even go into how angles & lighting & clothing (or lack of) will smooth fat rolls. Blue bikini girl puts on some jeans & there's going to be muffin top; if she walks fast, her arms' fat wings will jiggle too. If she bends at all, she'll look like the next to last photo in the OP - fat rolls on the side & probably some overhang in the tummy. Standing up straight with the waist stretched at a good angle will flatter anyone.

 
Old 07-10-2013, 02:47 PM
 
Location: las vegas nevada
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth View Post
#3 and 4 are the same woman. And #1 is very similar to "Miss Rhode Island", but with smaller boobs. Other than that, they're the same. That's pretty much the norm. The one Sixy posted used to be the Playboy ideal, but that was a long time ago. For some reason, Playboy went through a very long phase of posting women like #1, or even #2 but with big fake boobs. I have no idea what the Playboy ideal is now.
Miss those island doesn't have big boobs IMO at all at least compared to the rest of her body. They all seem to have the same body shape IMO. All six. Well maybe besides 2. But it's the same thing seemingly small boobs compared to waist wide hips. You just posted different sizes but not different shapes. They're all about the same shape with different degrees of it.

It's typical most women are shaped like this and these are the preferred body shapes among women because the majority are shaped like number 2.

Most women are ruler shape then a long way after that there are pears and shortly after that then there are a bunch of various shapes labeled apple erroneously and then there are hourglass shapes which is what I think people tend to try to push pears and some "apples" with hourglass because its rare to find a true hourglass figure the ideal shape.

As far as what I think is seen as with playboy. Hourglass is the ideal shape for the girls. However since the population is limit with ideal body shapes others shapes are included.
Hourglass
Vase
Cello with extensive dieting/ working on the midsection for both cello and vase shaped.
Lollipop would go right after the hourglass body shapes above
Bell would be close after that
A goblet body shape
A pear body shape
Skittle rarely
I'd say with plastic surgery no body shape is really valued that much in that case because you can get breasts butt or hip implants if you need to. So I'm not including that. I'm just saying as far as natural body shapes and what I think would be ideal are shapes that can mimick an hourglass shape. Shapes in the apple family pear family and ruler family (in the case of a lollipop body shape) can mimick a similar body shape to an hourglass especially if you dress it properly.

So that's all I have to say to this.
 
Old 07-10-2013, 02:52 PM
 
Location: las vegas nevada
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Kate has a high body fat content but she still has no curves except in the front.
She has no waist,and no butt.Looks like a man from the back.
She is the apple shape that so many men claim they don't like.

She proves any shape can be beautiful.

The best shaped woman to me are the ones featured in urban magazines.
I really dislike her stomach I don't find her attractive at all. Any girl I'd ever find attractive has to at least have a small waist. She's not even large chested. Because to be truly large chested you have to have a small waist so your proportions are perfect hers just aren't. I don't get why she doesn't exercise more. Apples don't look nice with more weight. That's for pears and hourglasses. They're the ones with slower metabolisms.
 
Old 07-10-2013, 02:52 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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Those women likely have padding in their bras/bikini tops (the Asian woman may even have implants).

It's unusual to be that slim with a bit of muscle tone AND be outright busty. I'm very similar in size/shape to those women & only have a bust like that with a padded and/or push-up bra/bikini (easy to achieve that look, but it's not natural). I'm far from flat-chested, but most men idealize much larger breasts, even if they like a slender body (which rarely go together in the kind of proportion in those photos).

The porn look being ideal just goes to show that ideals have very little to do with any natural female form. Ideals for women used to require corsets & bustles & padding sewn into tops, and now it's surgery.

These photos of women in flattering lighting with photoshop and/or their bottom not showing also hide a reality many dislike - cellulite. Sure, the soft, curvy woman in the blue bikini looks good from the front & waist up, but her soft body likely includes a lot of cellulite on her thighs, hips, butt & even calves. I'm sure some men don't mind that in a low lit bedroom, but in the harsh light of day, it's not aesthetically appealing to most people.

I won't even go into how angles & lighting & clothing (or lack of) will smooth fat rolls. Blue bikini girl puts on some jeans & there's going to be muffin top; if she walks fast, her arms' fat wings will jiggle too. If she bends at all, she'll look like the next to last photo in the OP - fat rolls on the side & probably some overhang in the tummy. Standing up straight with the waist stretched at a good angle will flatter anyone.
I have to say I totally agree with you. That First Asian woman definitely has implants.
When I was in my waterpolo team, I've seen some girls completely naked. When they took off their bras, their breasts really sag, but when they wear push up bras, they all look pretty yummy and nice.

I also agree with the rest of your post. Rep
 
Old 07-10-2013, 02:55 PM
 
Location: las vegas nevada
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Are we talking about the same girl?



She's not super-skinny by any stretch of the imagination but to say she has no curves nor waist is laughable.
Can't see her waist because she's lying on it kind of obvious don't you think?

Also can't see her hips either and her butt isn't curvy if it is then I've never seen a flat butt.
 
Old 07-10-2013, 02:57 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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The porn look being ideal just goes to show that ideals have very little to do with any natural female form. Ideals for women used to require corsets & bustles & padding sewn into tops, and now it's surgery.
You know I've asked my two brothers about breast implants and I also ask all my guy friends, ex boyfriends and current boyfriend about their opinion regarding women's breasts. They all told me NO way, they don't like implants. My current boyfriend told me he prefers medium size breasts (like B, C cup) because they look natural and more athletic. If he has to pick giant big breasts, or B, C cup, he definitely would pick B,C cup. I believe him.

Very few of men I know in my life really care about women's breast size. B, C cup really is enough for them.

I think big giant boobs (like DDD cups) is more like fetish, than norm.
 
Old 07-10-2013, 02:59 PM
 
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Judging by the responses I received from this thread, my conclusion is just that every woman is beautiful. We just have to feel comfortable with what we have.

My boyfriend is not a breast guy at all. He likes round firm butt. B,C cups is more than good enough for him. I assume my big brother likes pretty face and long legs, my other brother lol, I don't know what he likes. I think he likes Vanessa williams, black chick with the classic good looks, but a short white chick broke his heart in the past. He loved that white chick the most. So I guess different men have different tastes.

I just decide to be happy with what I have. I am very thankful that I have good men in my life.

Yes, those ladies in urban magazines are super hot.
Yep
And like your brother, maybe some men like different kinds of women, or maybe sometimes they don't know it till they meet one
When I met my DH, it was online so we didn't see each other at first. I told him how I had large boobs. He said he didn't care, he wasn't a boob man at all, but I guess I turned him into one.
I am short, most men don't seem to like that. My DH loves that, but I think it's because he likes to tease me about it. I grew up thinking my butt was too big and ugly, but was surprised that men seem to dig that. I guess there's always something we can find about ourselves that's good, and that someone out there will like
 
Old 07-10-2013, 03:06 PM
 
Location: las vegas nevada
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Originally Posted by orangeapple View Post
Those women likely have padding in their bras/bikini tops (the Asian woman may even have implants).

It's unusual to be that slim with a bit of muscle tone AND be outright busty. I'm very similar in size/shape to those women & only have a bust like that with a padded and/or push-up bra/bikini (easy to achieve that look, but it's not natural). I'm far from flat-chested, but most men idealize much larger breasts, even if they like a slender body (which rarely go together in the kind of proportion in those photos).

The porn look being ideal just goes to show that ideals have very little to do with any natural female form. Ideals for women used to require corsets & bustles & padding sewn into tops, and now it's surgery.

These photos of women in flattering lighting with photoshop and/or their bottom not showing also hide a reality many dislike - cellulite. Sure, the soft, curvy woman in the blue bikini looks good from the front & waist up, but her soft body likely includes a lot of cellulite on her thighs, hips, butt & even calves. I'm sure some men don't mind that in a low lit bedroom, but in the harsh light of day, it's not aesthetically appealing to most people.

I won't even go into how angles & lighting & clothing (or lack of) will smooth fat rolls. Blue bikini girl puts on some jeans & there's going to be muffin top; if she walks fast, her arms' fat wings will jiggle too. If she bends at all, she'll look like the next to last photo in the OP - fat rolls on the side & probably some overhang in the tummy. Standing up straight with the waist stretched at a good angle will flatter anyone.



Before I knew better I'd call the Asian flat chested. She doesn't look fake to me at all. Before I gained weight I had boobs like that. But hers in comparison to her hips aren't even big IMO. They just make sense. Her waist to hip ratio is quite low what's to say her waist to chest doesn't have an equal proportion? Not every girl is a pear. They're actually not even all that common. She doesn't even look like she has a padded bra on. They just look pushed together. She could even be vase shaped which would help her boobs be able to easily push together in anything. She looks like a C cup. Who in the world really pays thousands of dollars for a C cup? I mean come on you seem to be stretching to cut that woman down. Be realistic.

Oh forgot to mention. The reason you don't have that body while being athletic is because of your genetics. If you're hourglass vase lollipop or maybe even goblet shaped its very possible to be busty with a slim frame. Not everyone is built the same.

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Old 07-10-2013, 03:08 PM
 
Location: las vegas nevada
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Originally Posted by lilyflower3191981 View Post
You know I've asked my two brothers about breast implants and I also ask all my guy friends, ex boyfriends and current boyfriend about their opinion regarding women's breasts. They all told me NO way, they don't like implants. My current boyfriend told me he prefers medium size breasts (like B, C cup) because they look natural and more athletic. If he has to pick giant big breasts, or B, C cup, he definitely would pick B,C cup. I believe him.

Very few of men I know in my life really care about women's breast size. B, C cup really is enough for them.

I think big giant boobs (like DDD cups) is more like fetish, than norm.
I don't think it's nice to say for other women with DDD cups that the only men who like it is a fetish type of thing. They're people too.
 
Old 07-10-2013, 03:28 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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I don't think it's nice to say for other women with DDD cups that the only men who like it is a fetish type of thing. They're people too.
Here we go again. Some people have an Asian fetish, BBW fetish, why is it such a bad thing? Am I suppose to walk on egg shell around people all the time? Fetish is not a bad word, no?
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