Do I have to live with the fact that in the US I will never been seen as attractive as my White friend? (pics inside) (dye, blonde)

[CityGirl332]

I guess she's hot too right?


BTW, Cuba Gooding Jr and his high school sweet heart wife are both 45. But one didn't age so well.

[Looking 4 Help]

you guys are so desperate to prove that blonde women aren't that attractive

face it

an attractive blonde girl has the world by the balls, she can have men from all races and backgrounds rushing to date her and marry her, she is on top no question

it isn't just middle eastern and indian men, its

spanish men
italian men
latino men
and most white american men

just admit it. Like I am slowly starting to learn this whole tal dark handsome thing is a load of bogus when the top guys in hollywood are white male brunette or blonde.

[shamrockfisher]

Originally Posted by CityGirl332

This is super hot?

Attachment 114464

This is a recent bikini pic. Click on it to really test your pigment aging process theory. How many kids does she have? Two? And each child definitely adds years to the face and body and she still looks like this? Yes, super hot. Please give this woman some credit when credit is due.

[VIBЄ]

Either the OP is full of it, or is looking for feedback to quench his ego...

The only reasons why I would think you would have problems luring women (I seriously doubt it's because of your skin tone):

1) You're too shy.
2) You're looking for the wrong type of woman.
3) You're too awkward / a jerk / a womanizer / a deadbeat.
4) You're in the...closet?

[CityGirl332]

Originally Posted by Looking 4 Help

you guys are so desperate to prove that blonde women aren't that attractive

There are plenty of gorgeous blond women, however, having blond hair and blue eyes alone doesn't make one attractive. But you continuously attach some type of special value to these features. You need to ask yourself why? I imagine that British colonization and the widespread color/class system in India probably explains your obsession.

an attractive blonde girl has the world by the balls, she can have men from all races and backgrounds rushing to date her and marry her, she is on top no question.

Your only problem is, attractive blond girls don't appear to want you. Remember, that's why you created this thread. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm just bringing you back to reality. The very people that you put on a pedestal don't seem to think much of you. Again, it's comical, yet sad at the same time.

it isn't just middle eastern and indian men, its

spanish men


italian men
latino men
and most white american men

The last time I checked, Spanish (as in from Spain) are European, so are Italians and white American men are also of European heritage. Shouldn't they like/ prefer white/European women?

My question to you is, why don't you think anything of the Indian women who share your culture and heritage?

[shamrockfisher]

Originally Posted by CityGirl332

I guess she's hot too right?


BTW, Cuba Gooding Jr and his high school sweet heart wife are both 45. But one didn't age so well.

I don't know what she looked like at 25 but I am pretty sure she was not super hot. Also, it is not fair to compare the aging of men versus women of the same age because men tend to do more favorably as they get older.

Cuba in your estimation may have aged more gracefully than a lighter skinned man of the same age but for the person who thinks he was a 3 to begin with why would it really matter. Take a 7 who drops to a 4 over time and you are still "winning".

[CityGirl332]

Originally Posted by shamrockfisher

Attachment 114464

This is a recent bikini pic. Click on it to really test your pigment aging process theory. How many kids does she have? Two? And each child definitely adds years to the face and body and she still looks like this? Yes, super hot. Please give this woman some credit when credit is due.

I never stated that she wasn't pretty in her 20s.

[jencam]

Originally Posted by CityGirl332

I guess she's hot too right?


BTW, Cuba Gooding Jr and his high school sweet heart wife are both 45. But one didn't age so well.

Women in general do not age as well as most men.

And?

[shamrockfisher]

[quote=CityGirl332;30409174]There are plenty of gorgeous blond women, however, having blond hair and blue eyes alone doesn't make one attractive. But you denote some type of special value to these features. You need to ask yourself why? I imagine that British colonization and the widespread color/class system in India probably explains your obsession.

Blue eyes or light colored eyes are universally liked by all skin colors and ethnicities. Blond hair is highly regarded not only for it's appealing golden color but also that it tends to be soft and straight and easily caressed. It's about touch as well as looks, not because some creepy ass cracker form Europe stood on a mountaintop and said so.

[jencam]

Originally Posted by Looking 4 Help

Like I am slowly starting to learn this whole tal dark handsome thing is a load of bogus when the top guys in hollywood are white male brunette or blonde.

What did you used to think tall dark and handsome men meant?