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Old 07-24-2013, 09:05 AM
 
Location: Florida
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Old 07-24-2013, 09:26 AM
 
Location: Bed-Stuy & Bushwick
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I'ma let y'all finish but I need to say one thing. All I want contribute to this is the fact that women need to stop displaying the goods if they want to act offended if a man takes a glance at them. I can understand those that stare at the bosom. But when a man takes a glance, especially you have them all in his face, you shouldn't screw up your face or say something crazy.

The other day I was store with friend when beautiful short woman with tight white top, push up bra, slighty see thru skirt and the whole works came in and stood right between us as we were looking at things on a shelf. Her boobs popping out of her top were taking up significant portion of MY peripheral vision, so I can imagine his, as she was shoulder to shoulder with him. He looked over to see what the disturbance was, and all we heard was a deafening "WHAAAT!" we both got startled. " YOU'VE NEVER SEEN A WOMAN BEFORE?!" as she shook her head as pretended to storm out of the area. He just looked at me in shock and I couldn't stop laughing. Get it together, ladies!

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Old 07-24-2013, 09:31 AM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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I'ma let y'all finish but I need to say one thing. All I want contribute to this is the fact that women need to stop displaying the goods if they want to act offended if a man takes a glance at them. I can understand those that stare at the bosom. But when a man takes a glance, especially you have them all in his face, you should screw up your face or say something crazy.

The other day I was store with friend when beautiful short woman with tight white top, push up bra, slighty see thru skirt and the whole works came in and stood right between us as we were looking at things on a shelf. Her boobs popping out of her top were taking up significant portion of MY peripheral vision, so I can imagine his, as she was shoulder to shoulder with him. He looked over to see what the disturbance was, and all we heard was a deafening "WHAAAT!" we both got startled. " YOU'VE NEVER SEEN A WOMAN BEFORE?!" as she shook her head as pretended to storm out of the area. He just looked at me in shock and I couldn't stop laughing. Get it together, ladies!
It doesn't matter what we wear. Stop blaming us for being "distracting" when you should learn discretion.

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http://www.rolereboot.org/culture-an..._QzIj0.twitter



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Old 07-24-2013, 09:36 AM
 
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It doesn't matter what we wear. Stop blaming us for being "distracting" when you should learn discretion.

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http://www.rolereboot.org/culture-an..._QzIj0.twitter



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Hahaha. Righttttttt.

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Old 07-24-2013, 09:46 AM
 
Location: Bed-Stuy & Bushwick
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It doesn't matter what we wear. Stop blaming us for being "distracting" when you should learn discretion.

Good post on the subject
From The Classroom To The Courtroom, Beauty Is In The Eye Of The Beholder. And The Beholder Is Always A Man



I am on my phone, please forgive the typos.

The woman in that article just looks good. I'm sure she wasn't in the workplace wearing a thong with a see through skirt. The woman I spoke about surely came outside looking for attention. Now why would a woman wear a thong with a see thru skirt in public? Does she not expect MAN to look at her? Answer that question.

At least she had on underwear because at least 3 times this summer, I've come across a ladys without em. Sometimes I wonder if some even know how transparent their clothes really are, but believe me, I don't complain.
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Old 07-24-2013, 10:05 AM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Way too many men assume that everything women do is for their approval, appreciation, or pleasure. Women are complex, we all have different motivations.

It really doesn't matter. For every man that says "she is showing off in her mini skirt." There is someone else who thinks showing off is defined by showing your ankles, collarbone, wrists, or knees. Wearing yoga pants or baggy sweats. Wearing a tank top or a turtleneck.

It is still your job to be respectful of other people in public. It isn't my job to to coverup in a way you deem "appropriate" so you can be more "comfortable."
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Old 07-24-2013, 10:16 AM
 
Location: Bed-Stuy & Bushwick
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Way too many men assume that everything women do is for their approval, appreciation, or pleasure. Women are complex, we all have different motivations.
Alls I'm simply saying is when a woman shows off her charms and gifts, it is against human nature for the heterosexual man to not take a look. If you don't agree with this, you're against humanity. You have them on display? Expect man to look. Other men may be scared to say this, but they're at work high-fiving each other all over America as they're reading this, trust me.

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Old 07-24-2013, 10:51 AM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Alls I'm simply saying is when a woman shows off her charms and gifts, it is against human nature for the heterosexual man to not take a look. If you don't agree with this, you're against humanity. You have them on display? Expect man to look. Other men may be scared to say this, but they're at work high-fiving each other all over America as they're reading this, trust me.
Are you glancing or ogling. Glancing at people around you us normal. Ogling or staring is rude. Assuming that someone is wearing something for your benefit makes no sense.


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Old 07-24-2013, 11:17 AM
 
Location: Bed-Stuy & Bushwick
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Sorry, I meant to say in my FIRST post that I can understand BEING PISSED when men STARE..

not "I can understand men that stare..."

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Old 07-24-2013, 11:22 AM
 
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Are you glancing or ogling. Glancing at people around you us normal. Ogling or staring is rude. Assuming that someone is wearing something for your benefit makes no sense.


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I could care less what her reasoning is. If she is wearing minimal clothes or something, I'm going to look. If she is wearing see through pants with a pink thong, I'll probably look.

If I wear a speedo to the beach, people will stare, and it's my own fault.

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