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Old 09-06-2013, 12:31 AM
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Originally Posted by highlife2 View Post
So how do you explain when I hop on POF or match etc and its a disaster but I have heard of guys creating fake profiles where they post a pic of a hot guy and write down some nonsense and have their inbox filled up like an average looking woman would.
I see what you did there...

Sneaking in a quick woman bash.

Sometimes, ugly on the outside=ugly on the inside too.
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Old 09-06-2013, 07:05 AM
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Men are allowed to be ugly in our society...
ugly men are acceptable, even preferable in some instances.
You are joking, right? Study after study shows attractive women AND men are far more successful not only in their romantic lives (which is obvious) but in their professional careers as well.

But I can't imagine a guy thinking he needs to get cosmetic surgery in order to date.
Have you ever been a man? (rhetorical question)
If not, try turning into an unattractive man for a month, and go get some dates.
You will have about as much luck as an unattractive woman trying to get some dates (which precisely means: maybe you'll get some, but few and far between).

All of you (women) who criticize the OP: do you think he just woke up one day and said to himself: "I have nothing better to do than spend $$$ plus a lot of discomfort and pain just in order to please my vanity"
Decisions like that are so severe that are based on a lifetime of bitter experiences.
The physical appeal has been the #1 attraction for BOTH sexes since the beginning of time.
For women, it is practically the only base of attraction.
Men have the additional (theoretical) option to make a lot of $$$ and essentially buy themselves the women they want. However, since the number of millionaires is limited, that is not the option for most.
Furthermore, every single guy would much prefer get women because they find him attractive ,not because of financial benefits. Just like every single woman is far more pleased when a man tells her she is beautiful rather than that she 'is a good wife potential'

That's how the world operates folks, like it or not.
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Old 09-06-2013, 08:03 AM
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Originally Posted by cindersslipper View Post
heh yeah, as far as I know they still cant fix "short man syndrome"
Yes they can.

The agonising expensive leg-lengthening proceedure that made this surgery patient SIX INCHES taller | Mail Online

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Old 09-06-2013, 08:07 AM
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Originally Posted by highlife2 View Post
I thought maybe a good thread would be to post links to good cosmetic plastic surgons
OK, so what if I post a link (if this is even allowed by the TOS)?

What are you going to do with that information? If you live in Florida and I live in Nevada for example?
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Old 09-06-2013, 08:52 PM
Location: Lemon Heights, Orange County, CA
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Originally Posted by highlife2 View Post
Last time I hopped on POF and match it was a disaster, it was an absolute nightmare trying to get the attention of almost any woman, I finally found someone but it was not like I had a lot of options. Every time I have tried to date through out my life I have had few options so now that I have the money it would be nice to see what its like to have the interest of 4-5 women and be able to get on and have dates lined up. I also cant rule out if its a regional thing too.
If you do anything please try to find someone who does work on a lot of men. Most surgeons do 98% women and men's features and aesthetics are very very different. Men heal differently too. A doc cannot apply the same techniques on a man as on a woman.
Good luck, if you do anything I sincerely hope you are pleased with the results.
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Old 09-06-2013, 10:42 PM
Location: Mostly in my head
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Remember no ads are allowed, so no links to surgeons.
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Old 09-11-2013, 01:32 PM
Location: all over the place (figuratively)
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Originally Posted by highlife2 View Post
I wonder if they can do a complete alteration of appearance.
Unless someone was horribly disfigured and/or wants to risk a life-threatening set of procedures, a quick, dramatic change in appearance is very unlikely. Major improvement is a little more likely, if doing multiple procedures over a long period of time. That said, I have no idea what's wrong with your appearance and what types of specialists you should see. Don't trust cosmetic surgeons who claim to be able to fix many different areas - that's where Heidi Montag went wrong.
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Old 09-11-2013, 05:05 PM
Location: Brooklyn, NY
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I've had two jobs done, $12,000 rhinoplasty and $6,000 lower lid blepharoplasty. It's better to get each job done by a specialist in the specific area rather than one surgeon that does everything. Btw don't bother responding to people that don't like plastic surgery just let them stay unattractive and single lol.
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Old 09-11-2013, 06:18 PM
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To the Op,you said you are unattractive.

I understand,but are you just trying to date the beautiful women,or are you also trying to date the women in your attractive scale(on your level or below looks -wise?

Why not go for the unattractive women?
Try to actively seek them out? I'm sure they will appreciate it more than an average or beautiful woman.
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