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Old 09-11-2013, 10:10 PM
 
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You know you're good looking when you've got more people wanting to please you, wanting your attention, things come more easily to you etc.
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Old 09-11-2013, 11:40 PM
 
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He's the "shiniest" water in a bowl full of turds.
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Old 09-13-2013, 07:08 AM
 
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My litmus test as a man is a man that can get away with saying things that a less attractive man cannot say without facing social rebuke or accusations of being a creep. Men and women can deny this all day long, but there is a HUGE gray area where if you are attractive, these actions will be met positively, and if you are not attractive, these actions will be viewed negatively.

I used to make a lot of sexual jokes and innuendos, people would laugh and play along. Someone else decided to do the same thing, and he was met with anger, hostility, and people leaving his table.

Back in high school, someone complained to a coach that it was unfair that I could get away with making mildly suggestive jokes and he could not, and the coach and the girls responded that the way I did it was "tasteful" and the way he did it was "creepy".

I've seen it countless times sitting in the back of a social situation playing poker, observing attractive men getting away with saying things and doing things that not as attractive men could never say or do without being perceived as a creep.

It is logically inconsistent.
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Old 09-13-2013, 03:29 PM
 
Location: all over the place (figuratively)
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Without good hair or a chiseled face, it's unlikely a man will be considered attractive by a high percentage of women.
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Old 09-13-2013, 03:31 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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On the other hand, some girls pay me no mind. Usually "girly girls" are the ones who pass me by, or go for the guys w bigger muscles or athletes (nothing wrong with their preference, just saying).



So, how do I know?
I personally have always been attracted to athletic type. Tall, dark and handsome. So, if a guy is not tall, dark, and handsome, physically, he will not be my type. I am only being honest, and if this honesty makes me shallow, so be it.

My girlfriend however is attracted to the geeky type. Her man is short, chubby, but super smart. He also has a cute smile. She called him the hottest man in the world. They always kiss and hug in public. So the physical attraction is definitely there. Different people have different types of physical attraction. Somebody will find you irresistible.
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Old 09-13-2013, 04:29 PM
 
Location: Buenos Aires
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When you get lots of attention without having to flaunt any signs of wealth/money, or open your mouth to show signs of intelligence.
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Old 09-13-2013, 06:20 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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My word of advice would perhaps be to go to a gay bar and/or a gay club and see if any guys there offer to provide assistance for you.
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Old 09-13-2013, 06:40 PM
 
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Women are not capable of being physically attracted to men.
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Old 09-13-2013, 06:47 PM
 
Location: SoCal
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Women are not capable of being physically attracted to men.
Is this a joke? Serious question, for the record.
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Old 09-13-2013, 07:39 PM
 
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First of all, women are very liberals with their use of the word "cute". I've heard them describe fat guys as cute. It can even be a derogatory term since it's the opposite of manly.
True, but it also depends on how a woman says it.

"Wow, he's cute" means she's interested.

"He's cute" means she's curious.

"Awww, he's cute" is almost condescending.
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