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View Poll Results: Ladies only: how comfortable are you when guys (strangers, hot or not) stare at you?
I'm comfortable; it doesn't bother me 6 26.09%
I'm uncomfortable; it bothers me. 14 60.87%
I don't care. 3 13.04%
Voters: 23. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 10-26-2013, 04:37 PM
 
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I dont give a rats.

A cat may look at a Queen.
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Old 10-26-2013, 04:41 PM
 
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I'm a guy. One day I showed up at work in tight bike pants and helmet because I rode to work that day. A couple of girls in the office "stared" at me, especially on my legs and on the crotch. It felt good, actually. I felt flattered. I had the urge to wear that kind of wardrobe everyday to enjoy the attention, but, you know, I checked myself.



You are welcome to stare at me.
Oh God this reminds me of an office horror story.

In my last office I worked with a total tramp plus an older guy with a few ahem....social issues. He was an accountant.

He was a bit tubby and went on a diet, started cycling.

He turned up at the tramps house in his lycra and told her he loved her.

She is like WTF? when he grabs his lycra and pulls it down and said "Look! Look what I have got!" and shows her his junk right there in the doorway.

Awkward much?

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Old 10-26-2013, 05:57 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Oh God this reminds me of an office horror story.

In my last office I worked with a total tramp plus an older guy with a few ahem....social issues. He was an accountant.

He was a bit tubby and went on a diet, started cycling.

He turned up at the tramps house in his lycra and told her he loved her.

She is like WTF? when he grabs his lycra and pulls it down and said "Look! Look what I have got!" and shows her his junk right there in the doorway.

Awkward much?

No way!!!!


On an autocorrecting iDevice.
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Old 10-26-2013, 06:02 PM
 
Location: Northville, MI
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Guy here:

I stare a 5-18 seconds occasionally at this curvy 6'2'' gym trainer, but she does not seem to mind. She ended up staring at me for 32 seconds once while lifting barbells, and that felt weird. There is nothing attractive about body hair and sweat which demands staring for over 0.5 minutes.
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Old 10-26-2013, 06:03 PM
 
Location: Los Angeles County, CA
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Staring is generally bad. Glancing is ok. The longer the stare the more uncomfortable I get.


On an autocorrecting iDevice.
Are several glances in a short time period OK?
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Old 10-26-2013, 06:15 PM
 
Location: Northville, MI
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@ Harrier:

No. 18 seconds is the maximum limit.

Longer than that and you get noticed. Then feel free to be arrested for eve teasing and humiliated after getting beat up black and blue by a girl.
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Old 10-26-2013, 06:59 PM
 
Location: Oakland, CA
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Are several glances in a short time period OK?
Stare too long and then we start to wonder if you want something.


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Old 10-26-2013, 08:37 PM
 
Location: Northville, MI
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Stare too long and then we start to wonder if you want something.
My Question:

"Could you tell me how you are able to lift 90 lb weights without breaking a sweat ?"

Sorry to say, 90 lb is too heavy for me. 75-80 is the max I can lift.
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Old 10-26-2013, 09:01 PM
 
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I don't really STARE at women, I mean I look, but to stare and make it obvious?
Your mom must've taught you well. A glance or look is much sexier!
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Old 10-27-2013, 12:43 AM
 
Location: Miami-Jax
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I'm a guy. One day I showed up at work in tight bike pants and helmet because I rode to work that day. A couple of girls in the office "stared" at me, especially on my legs and on the crotch. It felt good, actually. I felt flattered. I had the urge to wear that kind of wardrobe everyday to enjoy the attention, but, you know, I checked myself.
You sure your fly was zipped?
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