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I was told by a Spanish girl that she was told to marry a white man because it would improve the race. That's what she did too. He was average looking with an average job, she is a KNOCKOUT. Not like she married Bill Gates. Strange but true.
I've quite simply never felt any attraction to men of other races. I'm quite sure that makes me racist, as I'm politically obligated to be attracted to them, but I'm not, so I guess I'm a racist, which I take to be the point of the thread.
From what I know and have seen, some are and some aren't. It all depends on the woman's preferences and feelings, not on their race.
However, its not out of question that people would feel more comfortable with others from their own race. That's not called being "racist". Its called expressing your choices and preferences. I have nothing against people expressing their preferences, since its part of personal freedom.
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There was never more misleading saying as "The opposite attracts"
The opposite may occasionally stir some curiosity, and in an extreme cases, a temporary urge to explore.
However, what really attracts is what feels familiar, safe and secure.
Women (and men) look for friends and romantic partners that have things in common: similar background, interests and yes, looks. It has nothing to do with what "Hollywood tells them to do"
In the tumultuous 60s and 70s there were some white women who dated and had children with black men, in order to "make a statement" that they were "not racist". They spent the rest of their lives raising those children as single mothers. I personally know a few.
Today most women know better, and are looking for a provider who goes to work every day, brings home the bacon, and with whom she has something to talk about.
That means the "boring" white man.
Are you attracted to other races or do you only go for the "white" boys Hollywood tells you to go for as stated by a poster on this forum
Denzel Washington can put his boots under my bed anytime. Lionel Ritchie, too. I'd include Richard Sherman and Russell Wilson, too, but I'm not a cradle robber.
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