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Old 05-18-2014, 04:20 PM
 
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For all the guys who say it's a turn-off....are you in perfect shape? Just wondering.

Any woman who has had a C-section or a hysterectomy or other abdominal surgeries will never be as they were before. It's not the same as a beer gut or just overeating.
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Old 05-18-2014, 05:38 PM
 
Location: Seattle Area
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BTW, I'm in fantastic shape!
Other than going non about yourself, how is this relevant or useful to this thread or the OP. Personally, I'd take a huge belly over a braggart.
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Old 05-18-2014, 05:39 PM
 
Location: Encino, CA
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For all the guys who say it's a turn-off....are you in perfect shape? Just wondering.

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Perfect? No. Perfection is an ideal to always strive towards. But I AM in darn good six pack and "V" shape.

Why do you wonder? How we look has no bearing on what we find attractive in a woman. large tummy in a woman is a turn off.
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Old 05-18-2014, 06:11 PM
 
Location: The Jar
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Other than going non about yourself, how is this relevant or useful to this thread or the OP. Personally, I'd take a huge belly over a braggart.
Another CD member mentioned that only the big bellied males like a belly on a female. DUH!
Read the whole friggin thread--why don't ya, girlie, it really helps!

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Old 05-18-2014, 07:20 PM
 
Location: East of the Mississippi and South of Bluegrass
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Guys who are in shape will be turned off by it. Guys with huge bellies will not have a problem with it.

Instead of worrying about it, why don't you work on getting rid of it? There are lots of exercises you can do to tighten your abdominal muscles.

Of course, fat guys are attracted to fat women. I'm sure this guy would have no problem with a woman with a lower belly pooch.
no, fat men are not attracted to fat women; just saying!

Louie's So Did The Fat Lady Video: A 'Fat Girl' Has Her Say With An Honest Rant

"whereas the average looking men -- the ones who are about on her level, looks wise -- never flirt with her because they're afraid they might belong with a girl like her"

Louie's So Did The Fat Lady Video: A 'Fat Girl' Has Her Say With An Honest Rant
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Old 05-18-2014, 07:42 PM
 
Location: Encino, CA
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"whereas the average looking men -- the ones who are about on her level, looks wise -- never flirt with her because they're afraid they might belong with a girl like her"

Louie's So Did The Fat Lady Video: A 'Fat Girl' Has Her Say With An Honest Rant
While heartfelt and warming, that vid is a crock of b.s. We (guys) don't really care too much about what other people will think, we care about what our "Johnson" will think because if a man finds something about you that is a turnoff (big belly) we are not going to want to get too excited physically/sexually about you.

So while Louis C.K.'s vid rant is getting a lot of airplay, it still doesn't change the fact that if we don't find you attractive (or as the op says you have something that is a "turn off" like a big belly), we are just not going to want to date you romantically. We can be the best of friends though, but without the physical attraction, don't get your hopes up about romance and sex.
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Old 05-18-2014, 08:29 PM
 
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No Problem. Am I the only guy who gets off on the "before weight loss picture" on diet products ? Thick women are hot as long as they can deal with it....thick with a bad attitude is a death sentence IMO.
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Old 05-18-2014, 08:52 PM
 
Location: Phoenix
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i know that,but i am referring to a woman that has a small waist but her tummy protudes from a side profile.
Meaning she looks flat when viewed from the front but when she turns to the side there is a lower belly pooch
im not quite sure what this looks like
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Old 05-18-2014, 08:57 PM
 
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I'm more into wide hips and shapely/thick thighs and a plump rump.

I forgot just how much I like wide hips until this weekend. This guys wife had every man in the place checking her out. Her hips and butt was shaped like a big heart. A lot of thumbs up and winks went on between men. I was one of them. LOL

Wonder if old boy knew it? lol

Prowly! lol
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Old 05-18-2014, 09:07 PM
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SO i have a a lower belly pooch but i do not know if i would look gross wearing tight clothing.

Are guys turned off by a large tummy if a woman is otherwise shapely?
By large i mean sticks out,but still has a small waistline.

I know many women have large tummy but what is considered to big for you?

Go ahead and get it done. Do it for yourself and be happy. Don't worry what the guys think.
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