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NO, I can spot a toupee a mile off - even the really expensive ones. No, no, no. And I'm not a fan of the shaved head look either. Men need to let their hair just do what their hair does - if you're balding, embrace it.
Wouldn't matter if I was attracted to him anyway. I'd make him take it off and feel comfortable with me seeing him balding. I don't plan on walking around in a Wonderbra all the time with these saggy potatoes by the time I'm 50 nor getting botox, so pfft.
I ask because I've heard so many girls on talk shows, when talking about what a guy must have to be attractive, almost always put among the first 4-5 things, "Oh, and he's got to have hair. Full head of hair." Oddly, I usually see this from 30-ish girls as it wouldn't be an issue among 18-30 year-olds.
Nobody likes a toupee. If they can't tell, they can't tell (and most can), but no woman I can imagine would prefer a man to keep a toupee over just shaving it or just acknowledging the balding pattern and getting his hair cut appropriately.
Regarding the 18-30 crowd: You'd be surprised. I know a ton of guys that started balding in their early 20's, myself included. I've been shaving my head since I was 23. There's a good chance it was starting to go before that, but I had dreadlocks then, so I didn't notice!
So toupees are definite no-no. A few girls want hair, but most girls surprisingly say, "Go natural". Yet there's something I've noticed: the guys who shave their heads and go natural are the Vin Diesel types with good physiques so this bolsters their confidence. The more skinny, short, slight types use the toupees. Coincidence or compensation?
Sidenote: I feel for young guys who don't have a good physique and are going bald. Nothing strikes terror in the hearts of young guys like the words, "You're going bald". If any guys are reading this, maybe they can give us an idea about how they felt when they started losing their hair. Hive was nice enough to let us know how he handled it.
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Originally Posted by Ruth4Truth
Well, I guess we know where the OP's eyes go when a woman approaches him....
I actually like the bald/goatee look and am attracted to that look.
I can not stand this look. Unfortunately, many many men sport it. It looks so weird to me - no hair on top with hair on your chin. I find bald with no goatee much more attractive.
what's your reaction to a guy who approaches you romantically and the first place your eyes go is not to his belt but to the top of his head?
Why would our eyes go to a guy's belt?
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