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Old 06-09-2014, 02:01 PM
 
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'sacred' not scared. correction
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Old 06-09-2014, 03:22 PM
 
Location: MN
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LOL.. I think I might been misunderstood..My feeling this, I don't care how dress or undress someone is I can only control myself and how I react.. Likewise for men, and to carry it further wheather your partner looks or not really comes down to trust...
I agreed with your agreement with Kitten I should have mentioned I was making an addendum to the way out there slant this topic has taken.
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Old 06-09-2014, 03:29 PM
 
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Okely Dokely neighbor *thumbs up*
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Old 06-09-2014, 04:09 PM
 
Location: La Mesa Aka The Table
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I read a study a while back that basically stated, women dress up only to impress other women
If I remember,It was a 5 year study of 100 women that were married but dressed up to go dancing/clubbing and other social events regularly.
I have no problem with it!
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Old 06-09-2014, 04:22 PM
 
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I don't dress to impress other women....but honestly, some women can be so petty and insecure that their reactions to a woman whose attire they disapprove of can make for quite an amusing night out.
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Old 06-09-2014, 04:25 PM
 
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I agreed with your agreement with Kitten I should have mentioned I was making an addendum to the way out there slant this topic has taken.
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Old 06-09-2014, 04:31 PM
 
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I've seen a lot of men get jealous over the years if another guy looks at their wife or girlfriend.
When my husband was younger he get upset if men hit on me or looked me up and down but as time went on he understood I belong to him and I wasn't going anywhere, he knew he could trust me and likewise . We been together 32 years now ...
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Old 06-09-2014, 04:36 PM
 
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When my husband was younger he get upset if men hit on me or looked me up and down but as time went on he understood I belong to him and I wasn't going anywhere, he knew he could trust me and likewise . We been together 32 years now ...


Awesome and congrats!

Trust is everything in a marriage. My parents will be married 41 years in September...my grandparents were married 60 before my grandfather passed. They both stressed the importance of trust as the key to a lasting marriage.
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Old 06-09-2014, 08:17 PM
 
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its not just trust...its also respect..a wife who walks around with her husband like she is still on display and hangs out all her goodies would likely evoke a negative reaction from a husband who respects her as a person.
Between...it may be amusing to see some insecure woman's petty reaction...oft stated comments from ''other women'' and women with low standards...nice way to justify that someone really needs attention and dresses to show off...either to other men or women...
i think that displays insecurity Big time.
as i said, to each their own...i don't care how ''confidently'' a woman walks around in skimpy clothes in public she will attract lust or disgust or maybe some women wanting to emulate the fake the fake feeling of superficial attention and the ego boost...trust remains in marriages...but respect for those other women may not.
to each their own...with all the trust in the world its a level of respect one shows for one's partner by dressing like a wife and not like an easy breezy.

this topic has gotten wayyy too far with personal comments and attacks on calling others insecure or calling on others husbands or marriages.
I think this should be a stalling point. One can also return to give labels of easy women low morals or lack of respect for others (not to mention one's own partner..why should one strut stuff off for other men and hope the husband will be SECURE enough not to worry? why should one do that? and such...

anyways to each their own. its not cool to make personal attacks on others because one wants to do what one wants in PUBLIC space, not one's own house. One can call others insecure and petty all they want, but it really shows the insecurity lack of respect on those who strut their stuff to get attention by strangers. and want their husbands to go along. sorry...that aint look like very respectable or actually confidant women.

thats my opinion.

i think this topic should either be closed or kept to non-personal statements. Im outta here. Its gotten too hostile.
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Old 06-09-2014, 08:48 PM
 
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How do you dress like a wife? By the way I dress, you can't tell by looking if I'm married or single. I'm not super conservative in the way I dress nor am I a skimpy dresser. I do dress in figure-flattering clothes because frumpy just isn't a good look for me.
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