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Old 04-25-2015, 03:03 PM
 
Location: I am right here.
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Wrong. Given beauty is a subjective quality, a woman can in fact be perfect in the eye of the beholder. To me, my wife is perfect and I don't say that to score points.
Maybe not to score POINTS perhaps.....I think just to score......

Ha, ha you are a good man!
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Old 04-25-2015, 03:29 PM
 
Location: Caverns measureless to man...
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If given the choice between an all natural female with imperfections - whatever they may be, Or a surgically enhanced female with no imperfections, which female would you choose and why?
My first reaction was to dismiss the question on the basis that anyone making a relationship decision on such shallow criteria isn't worth listening to in the first place, but then I thought about it for a moment. And I realized that it actually is possible to give a good answer to the question. I'd be far more inclined to go with the "all natural" woman with imperfections, simply because I wouldn't have any interest in any woman whose appearance was so important to her that she felt she needed to surgically "enhance" it.

My wife is by far the most beautiful woman I've ever seen, and the only time I've ever seen her even wear makeup was the night she met my parents. She wanted to make an impression, so she went out and bought a thing of lipstick. A big part of what makes her so beautiful is that she simply is who she is, and would never even contemplate having some sort of operation to "improve" it.
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Old 04-25-2015, 03:36 PM
 
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I am definitely in the no artificial ingredient, additives, flavoring or preservatives camp unless it was a medical necessity or reconstructive in nature.

Yes to repair, No to enhance.
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Old 04-25-2015, 04:02 PM
 
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Au natural. Oh, yes All natural. Healthy and fit for her body type with a natural sexiness and good aptitude and attitude.

As has been said many times, there is no 'perfect' physical specimen unless you're looking strictly for an AI robotic physical ideal, a la Kelly LeBrock as the concoction of teen boys in Weird Science or Ex Machina like robotic perfection.

But who'd want to have a relationship with a robot? A hot empathic 'metamore' would be ideal, a la, Star Trek Next Generation:
The Perfect Mate - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Seriously, since we all age why would you want someone who you'd outlive?
Then you'd likely get this consequence illustrated well by a Twilight Zone episode:

Long Live Walter Jameson - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

As others have mentioned, as long as the 'imperfection' isn't glaringly hideous or gets in the way (say an odd thing that takes away from enjoying physical intimacy). Blemishes, imperfections etc. are often an added plus to make them unique.

Here's an old comment
Sexual Relationship with people with tons of skin imperfections
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Old 04-25-2015, 05:43 PM
 
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Women with a lot of artificial enhancements (not reconstructive surgery) to try to look sexier or more beautiful usually soon fail the personality and likeability tests men use to select the right women for them. They end up being so vain, etc., that a man would not be interested in her. A man as most are saying, want to be with a real woman, not some stuck up artificially enhanced hulk.
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Old 04-25-2015, 06:09 PM
 
Location: Encino, CA
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If given the choice between an all natural female with imperfections - whatever they may be, Or a surgically enhanced female with no imperfections, which female would you choose and why?
Too many variables to consider before answer your question.

Natural > surgically enhanced; but surgically enhanced > obese/overweight. This is for ME, it may be different for others but that is just how I see it.
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Old 04-25-2015, 09:23 PM
 
Location: Prosper
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My wife used to have "perfect" breasts. Used to. Then we had a kid, and you know how that goes. After a year or so of breast feeding, and now that she's stopped, they've shrunk down to pre pregnancy size, but they're no longer perky like they used to, and even seem a bit smaller than they were.

My wife wants to get them done. I don't really care either way, I'm not a boob guy, but if it makes her happy then I have no problems with it. I certainly wouldn't think that she would look worse for doing so.

I think most of the guys here are lying through their teeth. Having some work done doesn't have to be a negative. Now, some women do way too much work, and they end up looking too fake. But let's face it, most people peak in their 20's, and after that, we all start to look a bit worse for wear. There's nothing wrong with doing a few things to help maintain your appearance.
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Old 04-25-2015, 09:40 PM
 
Location: california
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The onLy improvements I expect in my wife is maturity.
Life is what it is ,we all deteriorate .
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Old 04-25-2015, 10:21 PM
 
Location: Currently living in Reddit
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Well, I know how I would've answered this question 10 years ago, but with my wife nearing 60, the fun bags are sagging quite a bit...

<ducking>
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Old 04-25-2015, 10:33 PM
 
Location: the Permian Basin
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If someone gets a lot of plastic surgery I think it says a lot about their personality.
Or lack thereof.
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