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Old 11-22-2016, 05:59 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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Wait. Porn isn't real???

You mean to tell me pizza delivery guys knock on the door only to have it answered by beautiful scantily clad young women who breathlessly exclaim, "I don't have enough money for the tip, but perhaps there is another way I could show you my thanks"???

I'm shocked. SHOCKED, I tell you.
LOL. This post made my day! I'm recovering from shoulder surgery and feeling fat, depressed, and bored because I can't do anything but sit and watch TV. As usual, CD provides a steady stream of entertainment
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Old 11-23-2016, 07:33 PM
 
Location: East coast-New England
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I can't believe the number of women sporting a chip on their shoulders about men, who can't seem to do anything right--even on CD.

Don't look now, but the OP was clear about giving the [false] impression about having larger boobs, and possible reactions if this were discovered.

But why be indignant about the original question when the outrage can be directed to a man who responded to it.


Because MEN are generally the reason women feel the need to do things like that. Because having a great career, no kids, non drinker/smoker, healthy list of hobbies, non cheater, etc doesn't matter to a lot of men , at least not in the beginning. You cant even get in the door to show how great you are because lots of men simply care about what a woman looks like ( In the beginning). I mean, do you really think I want to present my boobs in the best way possible for WOMEN to notice? No...I like men.

Does that make me a 'sell out' of sorts because I want to give some help to my breasts? Maybe so. ( And just a bit of help, cause my breasts aren't terrible..so no huge disappointments will come from seeing me naked..thanks)But at least I don't have breasts/butt implants, or botox, or face lifts, or weaves. I'm pretty natural. But lets face it. Its a dog eat dog world. I try not to play the game, yet it gets me no where.
You can be the greatest thing since sliced bread, but if you cant even get someone to give you a chance, it wont matter.

I try to keep it as real as possible. Lots of women may come on here and stick their noses in the air and sniff and act like they don't do things to give themselves some extra 'help' once in a while (makeup included, cause you don't look like that without makeup on) but most do SOMETHING .
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Old 11-23-2016, 07:44 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Because MEN are generally the reason women feel the need to do things like that. Because having a great career, no kids, non drinker/smoker, healthy list of hobbies, non cheater, etc doesn't matter to a lot of men , at least not in the beginning. You cant even get in the door to show how great you are because lots of men simply care about what a woman looks like ( In the beginning). I mean, do you really think I want to present my boobs in the best way possible for WOMEN to notice? No...I like men.

Does that make me a 'sell out' of sorts because I want to give some help to my breasts? Maybe so. ( And just a bit of help, cause my breasts aren't terrible..so no huge disappointments will come from seeing me naked..thanks)But at least I don't have breasts/butt implants, or botox, or face lifts, or weaves. I'm pretty natural. But lets face it. Its a dog eat dog world. I try not to play the game, yet it gets me no where.
You can be the greatest thing since sliced bread, but if you cant even get someone to give you a chance, it wont matter.

I try to keep it as real as possible. Lots of women may come on here and stick their noses in the air and sniff and act like they don't do things to give themselves some extra 'help' once in a while (makeup included, cause you don't look like that without makeup on) but most do SOMETHING .
you have'nt ran into the right type of men dear. I for one am into beauty but if you look decent I would follow after you and talk to you because I want to have a woman who looks good natural. Women still dress glamorous and try hard when they have a man but are rarely with him... Can you explain that? I never understood why some women do that when they are by themselves all the time.
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Old 11-23-2016, 11:05 PM
 
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this reminds me of a coworker who got herself breast implants when she started working with us then set up an account on tinder. she hooked up with a military nurse in a few weeks and got pregnant within a year. now she keeps bragging as to why she doesn't have to do a fulltime job anymore. she's certainly not the brightest bulb around, but she's certainly smart at using her looks to latch on to a wealthier man to secure herself
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Old 11-24-2016, 03:42 PM
 
Location: East coast-New England
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you have'nt ran into the right type of men dear. I for one am into beauty but if you look decent I would follow after you and talk to you because I want to have a woman who looks good natural. Women still dress glamorous and try hard when they have a man but are rarely with him... Can you explain that? I never understood why some women do that when they are by themselves all the time.

I don't know why a woman would not spend time with her man. You would need to ask those specific women. There is such a thing as 'relationship problems' that have nothing to do with what is being discussed here. And also, if you are asking why women want to look good OTHERWISE..well..i guess I don't know many people who DONT want to look good. However, since you are knocking on that door, I will open it and say WE ALL KNOW society puts more emphasis on a woman's BEAUTY rather than her brain. A guy could roll outta bed and go out looking like death and its okay. He's a guy. A woman is expected to look her best. One would have to live under a rock not to know that.

And I wonder where that pressure came from that a lot of us bow down to now? Because even women will look at a woman funny and talk about what another woman looks like. What started all this pressure to have to be beautiful all the time? It's a pain in the ass at time.

I sincerely don't think it *STARTED* with women. It started and continues because this is how a male thinks, and in this society..even though women have come a long way...a man is still considered top dog, as are his views, etc.

This is simply my opinion. But anyway, I suppose i've got enough answers to my original question because now this is just dissolving into issues like what we are discussing now. And we are all gonna see things our own way. So, thanks for the replies. I'm all set.
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Old 11-25-2016, 11:57 AM
 
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you have'nt ran into the right type of men dear. I for one am into beauty but if you look decent I would follow after you and talk to you because I want to have a woman who looks good natural. Women still dress glamorous and try hard when they have a man but are rarely with him... Can you explain that? I never understood why some women do that when they are by themselves all the time.
Agree!
I'm older been married forever going on 35 together, not once has my smaller breasts size bother my hubby, he has never said anything negative in all them years . He loves me unconditionally tell me so daily~
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