My husband and I have (HAD) the same problem.
I was referred (by my friend) to a product made by a big cosmetic company (Mary Kay), especially designed just for the hands.

It consists out of an exfoliating scrub, a hand "mask" and a deep moisturizer.
It helped us out a lot, and works like nothing I've ever tried before. (Trying Jergens, Nivea....etc.)
BTW...my husband uses and abuses his hands a lot in his job (stone, sod etc.) and I abuse my hands just as well (meat cutting, cold, salt solutions and chemicals).
Our hands were to the point of being cracked and bloody.....OUCH!

But, I found out if you do this, it will help as well...(on a "whim" so to speak)
*get a hand scrub (The dry and rough skin needs to be "polished" of....just like every other place (skin cell turnover), hence the term "exfoliating".
* a bath in warm olive oil works wonders as well, and is very good for the nails.
* get a good body moisturizer (look for "dry skin" formulas), which are sometimes a bit greasy...but, in this case it's what we are looking for "stay power".
Put it on your hands, and cover them with cotton gloves (preferably overnight, when you sleep)
Just by doing something simple like that, you will see IMMEDIATE improvement!

Good luck...been there......
