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Old 12-09-2017, 08:40 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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Get one of those bras that makes them look bigger and call it a day
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Old 12-09-2017, 09:03 PM
 
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Threads about breasts always have a lot of interest.
Wonder what happened to our new 1-post OP?
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Old 12-09-2017, 09:34 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Men in general...you all here want to sound accepting but almost anywhere else generally puts a great deal of focus on breast size and/or cleavage.
Yep.

And especially online, it comes up in places where it's not even being discussed. Women will post "before and after" weight loss photos, and in the first few comments inevitably some guy will say, "Good job on managing to keep your boobs." As if that's what really matters.

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...women need to start standing up for themselves more often....

Maybe women need to stop going for the dumbasses too.


How about if dumbasses stop being dumbasses???
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Old 12-09-2017, 10:47 PM
 
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Small breasts are more sensitive. You got lucky.
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Old 12-09-2017, 10:56 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Small breasts are more sensitive. You got lucky.
That's not true across the board. I've known some women with whoppers that were really sensitive. I'll say no more

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Old 12-09-2017, 11:05 PM
 
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I apologize for not replying sooner, been very busy with work. I just want to say how much I appreciate all the responses! You have given me a lot to think about. I realize being smaller there are some advantages, but even though men will say it doesn't matter, you look at the way women are portrayed in any media from tv shows, to movies, to even video games, pretty much all the women have large busts. I understand those are fiction and a ridiculous comparison but it can kind of get to you. I do admit one exception was Daisy Ridley who played Rey from Star Wars which, as I found out, has the same size as me. Least that's one exception.
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Old 12-09-2017, 11:20 PM
 
Location: NNJ
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A hot looking couple enters a room.

Men are noticing the lady..

But

So are the ladies in the room... sizing her up.


So while online might portray large breasted women.. fashion runway models are typically skinny.. too skinny imo... small breasts. In fact one of the top models is transgendered with almost nothing uptop. Which to relate to real life? NEITHER.
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Old 12-09-2017, 11:27 PM
 
Location: Middle of the ocean
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I apologize for not replying sooner, been very busy with work. I just want to say how much I appreciate all the responses! You have given me a lot to think about. I realize being smaller there are some advantages, but even though men will say it doesn't matter, you look at the way women are portrayed in any media from tv shows, to movies, to even video games, pretty much all the women have large busts. I understand those are fiction and a ridiculous comparison but it can kind of get to you. I do admit one exception was Daisy Ridley who played Rey from Star Wars which, as I found out, has the same size as me. Least that's one exception.
99% of fashion models are pretty flat chested.

/lol. just read the post above mine. Sorry for the repeat!
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Old 12-10-2017, 12:13 AM
 
Location: NNJ
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99% of fashion models are pretty flat chested.

/lol. just read the post above mine. Sorry for the repeat!
Yup ...

If you go through the top earners in porn, not all of them are big breasted D sized. There is a mix... sasha grey, carter cruise, riley reid, aidra fox etc... many are natural. Of course there are those bigger uptop but it goes back to there are a variety of preferences. Even in escorting there isnt predominance of large or small.... its a mix.

But again... as i posted just prior.., when it comes to dating most well adjusted guys dont make a huge deal about it. Online, porn , media, and fashion models are not a reflection of that.... Anyone who says all or most guys...ada yada are simply seeing what they want to see... to confirm preconceived views.. or havent had bad luck with the wrong guys. Most of the talk I hear among m friends is framed around self confidence. Ill admit feeling more confident on the rare occassion when i am dressed well.
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Old 12-10-2017, 12:35 AM
 
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.. but even though men will say it doesn't matter, you look at the way women are portrayed in any media from tv shows, to movies, to even video games, pretty much all the women have large busts.

That's not going to change in your lifetime. Best to get comfortable in your own skin.

I read an article written by a woman with large breasts complaining that on TV shows the dark haired, large breasted women are always the slutty characters. While the small, blonde, petite women are the girlfriend material characters.

After reading the article I now can't help but notice how spot on she was/is.
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