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View Poll Results: what should I wear?
pants and top 5 16.67%
dress 11 36.67%
neither 14 46.67%
Voters: 30. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 05-06-2008, 11:02 PM
 
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Hi

I went to a rough time relationshipwise.
I am going on my first date in a long time – a sexy, smart, gorgeous guy but don’t think I am truly interested.
I want to feel sexy and feel that a great guy like this desires me.
Everyone tells me that I have a great body but I haven’t felt sexy or desired in a long time.

I want to dress sexy
I have two options in mind:
First, I am thinking of wearing pants similar to these:
SAMBA Black Glittered Banded Stretch Flares - B2134BK (http://www.hotfash.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWPROD&ProdID=5502 - broken link)
with this top
Jeweled Top - Sexy Lingerie, Ultra Sexy Clubwear, Sexy Halloween Costumes, Valentine Gifts, Sexy Evening Wear, Lingerie, Dancewear from Forplay Catalog
I just bought it. I know may be a little to much but I feel very sexy when I wear it (so far at home)


The other option is this dress
Helmut Lang V Neck Double Layer Dress - shopbop.com
I never wore it. My ex bought it for me – I hope he would hate it if other men like me in it.

What do you think? I am excited about the thought of feeling sexy but I don't want to get carried away.

Amy
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Old 05-06-2008, 11:05 PM
 
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Can I ask how old you are and where are you going on the date?
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Old 05-06-2008, 11:35 PM
 
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I am 27
I live in a major City in the US
He will pick me up - dinner maybe drinks afterwards.

Amy
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Old 05-06-2008, 11:36 PM
 
Location: northeast US
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I think you'll look fantastic in the pants and top.

The dress, to me, no offense I'm trying to be honest and helpful, it's a little droopy looking and the grey doesn't get my attention like the black/white - pants/top combo.

If you're really a guy, forget everything I just said.
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Old 05-06-2008, 11:44 PM
 
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I vote for the pants and top too. Both outfits are supersexy. Have fun!
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Old 05-06-2008, 11:54 PM
 
Location: southern california
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i have found that sitting on a tractor works
she thinks my tractors sexy, kenny chesney, sing it!
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Old 05-07-2008, 08:43 AM
 
Location: Manitoba
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pants and top I think.
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Old 05-07-2008, 09:31 AM
 
Location: Philaburbia
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I voted neither. I wouldn't feel sexy; I'd feel overexposed.
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Old 05-07-2008, 09:44 AM
 
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Feeling sexy is a state of mind, a state of confidence. If you have confidence, as a guy I can tell you what you're wearing has minimal effect unless it prevents us from doing something specific on a date (heels may mean you cannot walk for long, a dress may mean that you'll just be cold outside, etc). Recognize that you are desirable, you are awesome, anyone would be lucky to have you.

Don't sweat the small stuff. Have fun on this date of yours, be yourself, be confident. Realize that "You're not your job. You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You're not your f'ing khakis. You're the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world." (Fight Club, 1999)

If you wish, come back here and do tell us how everything goes :-)
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Old 05-07-2008, 09:56 AM
 
Location: Finger Lakes, NY
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The pants were ok, but the top is saying more than wanting to feel sexy and the dress is ... ugh! You asked for an opinion, and that is mine. I'm just a humble country chick who likes to looks sexy too, but obviously in a very different way. In my mind, those might work for a nice romantic candle light meal at home. Then again, it's location ... those clothes wouldn't find the day of light on anyone where I'm from. G'Luck on your date! Enjoy and just be yourself!
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