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I went to a rough time relationshipwise.
I am going on my first date in a long time – a sexy, smart, gorgeous guy but don’t think I am truly interested.
I want to feel sexy and feel that a great guy like this desires me.
Everyone tells me that I have a great body but I haven’t felt sexy or desired in a long time.
I think you'll look fantastic in the pants and top.
The dress, to me, no offense I'm trying to be honest and helpful, it's a little droopy looking and the grey doesn't get my attention like the black/white - pants/top combo.
If you're really a guy, forget everything I just said.
Feeling sexy is a state of mind, a state of confidence. If you have confidence, as a guy I can tell you what you're wearing has minimal effect unless it prevents us from doing something specific on a date (heels may mean you cannot walk for long, a dress may mean that you'll just be cold outside, etc). Recognize that you are desirable, you are awesome, anyone would be lucky to have you.
Don't sweat the small stuff. Have fun on this date of yours, be yourself, be confident. Realize that "You're not your job. You're not how much money you have in the bank. You're not the car you drive. You're not the contents of your wallet. You're not your f'ing khakis. You're the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world." (Fight Club, 1999)
If you wish, come back here and do tell us how everything goes :-)
The pants were ok, but the top is saying more than wanting to feel sexy and the dress is ... ugh! You asked for an opinion, and that is mine. I'm just a humble country chick who likes to looks sexy too, but obviously in a very different way. In my mind, those might work for a nice romantic candle light meal at home. Then again, it's location ... those clothes wouldn't find the day of light on anyone where I'm from. G'Luck on your date! Enjoy and just be yourself!
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